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19 Funny Wedding Movie Quotes About Love and Marriage to Include in Your Toast

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The best wedding movies are ripe with sentimentality, drama, excitement, and in most cases, humor. These funny wedding movie quotes are handpicked from our favorite laugh-out-loud scenes that are all too relatable, whether you're dealing with a very opinionated bunch of relatives or bucking tradition to plan things in your own way. If you're writing your vows or have been chosen to give a speech during the reception, check out these funny love quotes from movies to inspire your toast for the big day. You might not win an Oscar, but you could lock in that coveted "best speech of the night" title from every wedding guest.

"In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty... handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with."

– Mac MacGuff, Juno

Sweetly supportive and just enough rough-around-the-edges Mac, played by J.K. Simmons, stole the show as the dad in the hit comedy Juno . Any father of the bride or groom delivering this funny yet heartfelt quote during their reception speech might just give Simmons a run for his money.

2. Four Weddings and a Funeral

"I am, as ever, in bewildered awe of anyone who makes this kind of commitment that Angus and Laura have made today. I know I couldn't do it and I think it's wonderful they can."

– Charles, Four Weddings and a Funeral

If you have a track record of being noncommittal and you're giving a speech as the best man or MOH, take a cue from one of the most famous toasts in movies by acknowledging just how special—and impressive—it is that the newlyweds are taking the next step.

3. When Harry Met Sally

"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible." – Harry Burns, When Harry Met Sally

This is an iconic movie quote for a reason—it's the perfect balance of romantic and funny, and would fit just perfectly into your wedding vows, maid of honor or best man speech , or any sort of reception or wedding toast. It'd be especially applicable during an elopement ceremony or for any wedding that was put together on a faster timeline than the usual.

4. Good Will Hunting

"People call these things imperfections, but they're not, aw, that's the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds." – Dr. Sean Maguire, Good Will Hunting

Leave it to a therapist played by Robin Williams to say one of the sweetest and truest things about marriage ever uttered in a movie. This memorable quote is a perfect reminder that imperfections can be the best part of a love story, and each partner embracing the other's worst moments (along with their best) is the key to successful married life.

5. My Big Fat Greek Wedding

"I've never seen my sister this happy, Ian. If you hurt her, I'll kill you and make it look like an accident."

– Nick Portokalos, My Big Fat Greek Wedding

This funny movie marriage quote is bound to elicit laughs around the room, especially if you're an older brother or sister giving a special toast to the happy couple. Be sure that your sibling's partner knows that it's all in good fun, and that you're on good terms beforehand so the joke comes across lovingly, not threateningly.

6. Meet Joe Black

"I know it's a cornball thing, but love is passion. Obsession. Someone you can't live without. I say fall head over heels. Find someone you can love like crazy, and who'll love you the same way back. How do you find 'em? Well, you forget your head and you listen to your heart." – William Parrish, Meet Joe Black

Anyone in the crowd who's ever been head-over-heels in love will chuckle at the truth behind this romantic movie quote from cult classic Meet Joe Black . Because, yeah, there's something funny about how crazy true love makes a person. If the newlyweds at this wedding are especially gaga over one another and every guest in attendance knows it, this funny wedding movie quote is the perfect pick.

7. Crazy Rich Asians

"To organize a party this massive... takes a massive a**hole." – Nick, Crazy Rich Asians

Nick might have meant it as a dig against an over-the-top bachelor party , but this line would be super funny coming from a sassy member of the wedding party or best friend at the wedding (of course they'd only mean it with all the love). I mean, massive party = massive amounts of champagne, and no one in your crew would ever earnestly complain about that, right? But for the laughs, there's nothing more spot-on than poking fun at a couple of newlyweds who know that they're just a little bit extra.

8. The Princess Bride

"This is true love. You think this happens every day?" – Westley, The Princess Bride

For your fairytale wedding , only a quote from this classic rom-com will do. And while it's plenty snarky for a one-liner, it somehow tugs at the heartstrings, too, reminding guests and the couple of honor of the love story that everyone's gathered to celebrate. It's kind of a big deal.

9. Moulin Rouge!

"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return." – Christian, Moulin Rouge!

While the adapted-from-Broadway musical spectacular Moulin Rouge! is a bit of a comedy, this oft-quoted line from the film is nothing to laugh at. It might just be one of the most romantic lines ever. And it's a seriously show-stopping way to close out a wedding toast or set of vows.

10. Sex and the City: The Movie

"Carrie Bradshaw: So really, we're-, we're getting married?

Mr. Big: We're getting married. Should we get you a diamond?

Carrie Bradshaw: No. No. Just get me a really big closet."

– Carrie and Big, Sex and the City: The Movie

Anyone who's obsessed with fashion will totally relate to Carrie's request to skip the diamond engagement ring in favor of a custom walk-in closet to mark the start of a new chapter (although if it were us, we'd take both).

11. Love & Basketball

"I've been loving you since I was 11, and the sh*t won't go away." – Monica Wright, Love & Basketball

Feel free to sub in the actual age you started loving your partner, but this funny wedding movie quote makes a cheeky addition to your vows or rehearsal dinner speech . And while this whole movie is quotable, we love how hilariously to-the-point this line explains love: Sometimes it really does feel like love is a syndrome that just won't let up.

12. The Great Gatsby

"I wish I had done everything on earth with you." – Daisy Buchanan, The Great Gatsby

It's amazing how just a handful of seemingly haphazard words can encapsulate the feeling of being in love so perfectly. This favorite line from The Great Gatsby is a perfect example. It's light, easy, breezy, a little bit silly and naive, but so, so beautiful in the context of a wedding. And, hey, if you're a bridesmaid saying it about the bride during your reception toast, that's pretty cute too!.

13. Sweet Home Alabama

"Your daddy... Lord, but I was a fool for that man. I couldn't even put one foot in front of the other. I just kept thinking, 'Oh, preacher, hurry up before he changes his mind!'"

– Pearl Smooter, Sweet Home Alabama

If you're still wondering how you got so lucky to find your partner, this funny movie quote about love and marriage pretty much sums it up. It takes place during a conversation between Melanie (Reese Witherspoon) and her mom talking about the ups and downs of marriage—and the importance of staying smitten with each other through it all.

14. Knocked Up

"Marriage is like a tense, unfunny, version of Everybody Loves Raymond, only it doesn't last 22 minutes. It lasts forever." – Pete, Knocked Up

OK, this funny love quote from a movie is for those happy couples who have an extra-good sense of humor. Because, yeah, it's a little deprecating of marriage, but in a playful way. This quote would land best coming from someone who can really pull off the right level of slapstick—think best man, maid of honor, best friend or favorite single auntie.

15. Brown Sugar

"You are the perfect verse over a tight beat." – Andre, Brown Sugar

While we can't guarantee you'll pull this funny movie love quote off with quite the gravitas of Taye Diggs as Andre in this iconic romance, it's definitely worth a shot. This quote would fit in especially well at a music-themed wedding , and what's even better about it is its flexibility—it'd work great spoken from one partner to another during handwritten vows, but it could also come from just about anyone else in the family or wedding party to describe the love that exists between the two newlyweds.

16. Letters to Juliet

"Husbands are like wine; they take a long time to mature." – Donatella, Letters to Juliet

Take this sage advice from one of Juliet's secretaries in the movie. It's a perfect funny wedding movie quote for someone who's known the groom long enough to see all his moments of growth, like the mother of the groom or best man. It reinforces the idea that true love is worth waiting for, and that no one enters a marriage completely ready (so, partner of husband, buckle up!). But, just like the movie, everything works out in the end.

17. The Notebook

"Well, that's what we do, we fight. You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of the bitch and I tell you when you're a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have, like, a two second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing." – Noah Calhoun, The Notebook

You already know that The Notebook is responsible for some of the best movie quotes about love and marriage, but if you're looking for laughs, this favorite line is the one to steal. Because marriage is beautiful, honorable and brave, but it's also—a lot of the time—two people lovingly annoying each other for the rest of their lives. This quote finds the perfect irreverent way to express that while somehow sounding mega-romantic at the same time.

"I think anybody who falls in love is a freak. It's a crazy thing to do. It's kind of like a form of socially acceptable insanity." – Amy, Her

There's a certain self-aware humor in acknowledging how crazy it is to devote the rest of your days to one other person, but it's incredibly romantic, too. This quote from indie flick Her hits the nail on the head. The line would be a funny way to kick off a reception speech or a set of vows during the wedding ceremony (even the officiant could pull it off!), so long as the following lines play up that the happy couple are the perfect, complementary versions of insanity for each other. Aw.

19. Real Women Have Curves

"I love you. That's why I make you miserable." – Carmen, Real Women Have Curves

While this is a cheeky line spoken by a sassy mom to her daughter, it's totally applicable (and, of course, meant to be taken lightly!) when expressed from one newlywed to another during a wedding speech. After all, there's no one more deserving of our smothering attention than the one we love most on earth.

Movie Quotes For Wedding Speech

If you are looking for unique and funny movie quotes for a wedding speech, here is a list of heartfelt and loving lines that will inspire you.

You want to say something memorable for this special celebration and these movie quotes are a great way to be creative and keep your audience engaged.

1. Best movie quotes for a wedding speech

A wedding speech is a big responsibility. You’ll want to think about how to keep the attendees entertained. Here are some of the best movie quotes to inspire you and for you to use in your wedding speech.

I would rather spend one lifetime with you, than face all of the ages of this world alone. The Lord of the Rings, The Fellowship of the Ring

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. The Notebook

You have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love, I love, I love you. I never wish to be parted from you from this day on. Pride and Prejudice

I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. When Harry Met Sally

You are the most important thing to me now. The most important thing to me ever. Twilight

It’s there, I know it is because when I look at you, I can feel it. And I, I look at you and… I’m home. Finding Nemo

2. Romantic movie quotes

I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss of her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it. One. City of Angels

I knew I’d never be able to remember what Nina wore that day. But I also knew I’d never forget the way she looked. Father of the Bride

Don’t forget: I’m also just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her. Notting Hill

Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it’s the moments that take your breath away. Hitch

At best, it’s a happy delusion — these two people who truly love each other and have no idea how truly miserable they’re about to make each other. But, but, when two people know that, and they decide with eyes wide open to face each other and get married anyway, then I don’t think it’s conservative or delusional. I think it’s radical and courageous and very romantic. Frida

How to use these wedding quotes

Select your favorite movie quote to include in a wedding speech or toast. You’ll find many loving and heartfelt messages to share with the new couple, as well as their friends and family. You can use them for:

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• Groom speech

3. Movie quotes about love

The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return. Moulin Rouge

I love you very much, probably more than anybody could love another person. 50 First Dates

They say when you meet the love of your life, time stops and that’s true. What they don’t tell you is that when it starts again, it moves extra fast to catch up. Big Fish

Do you ever put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that’s what love is like. Everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but you just keep going. Practical Magic

Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with? Meet Joe Black

I don’t want to sound foolish, but remember love is what brought you here. And if you’ve trusted love this far, don’t panic now. Trust it all the way. If Beale Street Could Talk

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Our love is like the wind. I can’t see it, but I can feel it. A Walk to Remember

It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it’s not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it’s always there… If you look for it, I’ve got a sneaky feeling you’ll find that love actually is all around. Love Actually

If you want love, then this is it. This is real life. It’s not perfect but it’s real. Before Midnight

Young lovers seek perfection. Old lovers learn the art of sewing shreds together and of seeing beauty in a multiplicity of patches. How to Make an American Quilt

About a love that lasts forever

My love, I cannot tell you how thankful I am for our little infinity. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. You gave me a forever within the numbered days, and I’m grateful. The Fault in Our Stars

The you who you are tonight is the same you I was in love with yesterday, the you I’ll be in love with tomorrow. If I Stay

The only way to beat my crazy was by doing something crazy yourself. Thank you. I love you. I knew it the minute I met you. I’m sorry it took so long for me to catch up. I just got stuck. Silver Linings Playbook

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Love and happiness movie quotes

People do fall in love. People do belong to each other, because that’s the only chance that anyone’s got for true happiness. Breakfast at Tiffany’s

No matter what happens to us, everyday spent with you is the best day of my life. The Notebook

It’s like in that moment the whole universe existed just to bring us together. Serendipity

What do you want? You want the moon? Just say the word and I’ll throw a lasso around it and pull it down. Hey, that’s a pretty good idea. I’ll give you the moon. It’s a Wonderful Life

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4. Marriage movie quotes

I knew that when I kissed this girl I would be forever wed to her. So I stopped. I stopped and I waited. I waited for a moment longer. Then I just let myself go. The Great Gatsby

Choose me. Marry me. Let me make you happy. My Best Friend’s Wedding

When I first saw you, I felt like I knew you, and I couldn’t stop seeing my life with you, and building a family together. One that isn’t stuck in the pain of the past. It’s very pretty. And so, if you’re asking me if my proposition still stands, then my answer is yes. Yes. A thousand times, yes. The Light Between Oceans

Let me ask you one thing. Do you think—after we’ve dried off, after we’ve spent lots more time together — you might agree not to marry me? And do you think not being married to me might maybe be something you could consider doing for the rest of your life? Four Weddings and a Funeral

We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life mean? But, in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all the time, every day. Shall We Dance

5. Movie quotes from the heart

I’ve come here with no expectations, only to profess, now that I am at liberty to do so, that my heart is, and always will be, yours. Sense and Sensibility

It is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart. I carry your heart. I carry it in my heart. In Her Shoes

The heart’s not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love. Her

I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you. Dirty Dancing

6. Soulmate sayings

What I’m trying to say, very inarticulately, is that, um, in fact, perhaps despite appearances, I like you, very much. Just as you are. Bridget Jones’s Diary

In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find someone who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you. Juno

It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other. Good Will Hunting

7. Funny movie quotes for a wedding speech

Love is patient, love is kind, love means slowly losing your mind. 27 Dresses

You are the perfect verse over a tight beat. Brown Sugar

May those who love us, love us. And those who don’t love us, may God turn their hearts. And if He cannot turn their hearts, may he turn their ankles, so that we may know them by their limping. Keeping the Faith

I think anybody who falls in love is a freak. It’s a crazy thing to do. It’s kind of like a form of socially acceptable insanity. Her

I love you. That’s why I make you miserable. Real Women Have Curves

Husbands are like wine; they take a long time to mature. Letters to Juliet

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8. short quotes for wedding.

Love means never having to say you’re sorry. Love Story

You had me at ‘hello.’ Jerry Maguire

I love you without knowing how, why, or even from where. Patch Adams

You’re my air. Brown Sugar

We’ll always have Paris. Casablanca

I wish I knew how to quit you. Brokeback Mountain

You complete me. Jerry Maguire

To me, you are perfect. Love Actually

Some people are worth melting for. Frozen

9. Disney movie quotes about love

Any day spent with you is my favourite day. So, today is my new favourite day. Winnie the Pooh

You’re the one, the one I’ve been looking for… The Little Mermaid

I know you! The gleam in your eyes is so familiar a gleam And I know it’s true that visions are seldom all they seem But if I know you I know what you’ll do You’ll love me at once The way you did once upon a dream… Sleeping Beauty

If I never knew you, If I never felt this love, I would have no inkling of, How precious life can be, And if I never knew you, I would never have a clue, How at last I’d find in you, The missing part of me… Pocahontas

You’re the best thing I never knew I needed, So when you were here I had no idea, You’re the best thing I never knew I needed, So now it’s so clear I need you here always… The Princess and the Frog

More Disney sayings

So this is love, So this is what makes life divine, I’m all aglow, Mmmmmm, And now I know, The key to all heaven is mine, My heart has wings, Mmmmmm, And I can fly, I’ll touch every star in the sky, So this is the miracle that I’ve been dreaming of, So this is love… Cinderella

And at last I see the light, and it’s like the fog has lifted, and at last I see the light, and it’s like the sky is new, and it’s warm and real and bright, and the world has somehow shifted, all at once everything looks different, now that I see you… Tangled

Can you feel the love tonight? The peace the evening brings, The world, for once, in perfect harmony, With all its living things, Can you feel the love tonight? You needn’t look too far, Stealing through the night’s uncertainties, Love is where they are… The Lion King

10. Wedding toasts from movies

True love is the soul’s recognition of its counterpoint in another. Wedding Crashers

I’d like to propose a toast to all the special ‘f’ words — to friends, family, fate, forgiveness, and forever. My First Mister

I had the strangest dream. I dreamed that some psychopath was trying to break the two of you up. Luckily, I woke up, and I see that the world is just as it should be. For my best friend… has won the best woman. My Best Friend’s Wedding

This is supposed to be exciting. It’s your wedding — you only get a few of these! The 5 Year Engagement

We’re all different, but in the end, we’re all fruit. My Big Fat Greek Wedding

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11. Wedding readings from movies

It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, it just meant we were supposed to be together. And I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home, only to no home I’d ever known. I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car. And I knew it. It was like… magic. Sleepless in Seattle

So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows… but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them. Hitch

People call these things imperfections, but they’re not. Oh, that’s the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds. You’re not perfect sport, and let me save you the suspense; this girl you met, she’s not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other. Good Will Hunting

Inspiration for wedding speeches

So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s gonna be really hard, and we’re gonna have to work at this every day. But I wanna do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever. You and me. Every day. The Notebook

I want to tell you with my remaining strength that I love you. I always have. I’ll drift next to you every day as a ghost just to be with you. Even if I was banished to the darkest place, my love will keep me from being a lonely spirit. Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it’s not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it’s always there… if you look for it, I’ve got a sneaky feeling you’ll find that love actually is all around. Love Actually

A wedding vow

I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love. And to always know in the deepest part of my soul that no matter what challenges might carry us apart, we will always find our way back to each other. The Vow

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16 Ceremony Readings from Movies for a Cinematic Wedding

Personalize your ceremony with one of these wedding readings from movies, from comedies to dramas and more.

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Designing a wedding ceremony is an opportunity to infuse moments of personality that showcase who you are as a couple. Along with your music selections and vow recitations, ceremony readings are a great way to share meaningful words that deeply resonate with you. While poetry and literature excerpts are always popular choices, don’t overlook your favorite cinema moments as some of the best sources for wedding readings from movies.

For couples looking to incorporate wedding readings from movies, we’re sharing the sweetest, funniest, and most romantic lines you’ll want to be recited on your wedding day.

When harry met sally.

This classic movie line is certain to make everyone smile. 

"I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible." —Harry Burns

Twilight: Breaking Dawn

“Twihards” will swoon over these incredibly romantic words spoken by Edward.

“It’s an extraordinary thing to meet someone who you can bare your soul to, and who will accept you for what you are. I’ve been waiting, what seems like a very long time, to get beyond what I am. And now…I feel like I can finally begin…No measure of time with you will be long enough. But let’s start with forever.” —Edward Cullen

If Beale Street Could Talk

This short yet impactful line would work perfectly when read by a close friend or family member.

“Remember love is what brought you here. And if you trusted love this far, don't panic now. Trust it all the way.” —Sharon Rivers 

This wedding reading from a movie highlights the profound courage in love and sharing your life with another.

 "At best, it's a happy delusion — these two people who truly love each other and have no idea how truly miserable they're about to make each other. But, but, when two people know that, and they decide with eyes wide open to face each other and get married anyway, then I don't think it's conservative or delusional. I think it's radical and courageous and very romantic."  —Tina Modotti

The Notebook

A wildly romantic monologue that can easily bring a room to tears. Every Nicholas Sparks fan will recognize this as Noah’s most moving words.

"Poets often describe love as an emotion that we can't control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. That's what it was like for me. I didn't plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt if you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has happened only once, and that's why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory." —Noah

Whether you’re a “Trekkie” or not, this wedding reading from the movie perfectly summarizes the power of love.

“Commander, I don’t think you can analyze love.  It’s the greatest mystery of all.  No one knows why it happens or doesn’t.  Love is a chance combination of elements. Any one thing might be enough to keep it from igniting—a mood, a glance…A remark. And if we could define love…predict it…it would probably lose its power.” —Neelix

This line would be wonderful when read by the father of a groom . 

“I'd only give one piece of advice to anyone marrying. We're all quite similar in the end. We all get old and tell the same tales too many times. But try and marry someone kind. And this is a kind man with a good heart.” —Tim’s Father

The Princess Bride 

Hands-down the most quotable line from everyone’s favorite wedding movie—and a very funny wedding reading from a movie.

“Mawwiage. Mawwiage is wat bwings us togeder today. Mawwiage, that bwessed awwangement, that dweam wifin a dream…  And wuv, twue wuv, will fowwow you foweva…” —The Impressive Clergyman

Diary of a Mad Black Woman

We love these beautifully written words from Tyler Perry. 

"If I'm away from you for more than an hour, I can't stop thinking about you. I carry you in my spirit. I pray for you more than I pray for myself. And see? And that...that smile...when you smile like that, my world... It's all right. I am in love with you."—Orlando

"I know you don't believe in fairy tales. But, if you did, I'd want to be your knight in shining armor. You've been through so much. I don't want to see you hurt anymore. Now I may not be able to give you all that you're used to. But I do know I can love you past your pain. I don't want you to worry about anything. You just wake up in the morning, that's all you have to do and I'll take it from there. There's one condition. You have to be my wife."—Orlando

Whether used as inspiration for your vows or as a ceremony reading beforehand, this wedding reading from a movie is just the right balance of lighthearted and meaningful.

“I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness and to have the patience that love demands. To speak when words are needed and to share the silence when they are not. To agree to disagree on red velvet cake, and to live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home.” —Paige

“I vow to fiercely love you in all of your forms, no and forever. I promise to never forget this is a once in a lifetime love. And to always know in the deepest part of my soul that no matter what challenges might carry us apart, we will always find our way back to each other.” —Leo

P.S. I Love You

Holly’s mom shares some of the wisest words on love that could easily fit into any ceremony.

“Finding someone you love and who loves you back is a wonderful, wonderful feeling. But finding a true soul mate is an even better feeling. A soulmate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you forever, no matter what. They say that nothing lasts forever, but I am a firm believer in the fact that for some, love lives on even after we're gone.” —Patricia

The Fault in Our Stars

A powerful wedding reading from a movie that resonates with anyone who has fallen in love. 

“I am in love with you. You heard me. I am in love with you. And I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we're all doomed. And that one day all our labor will be returned to dust. And I know that the sun will swallow the only earth we will ever have. And I am in love with you.” —Augustus Waters

Meet Joe Black

This great movie line would fit beautifully at the beginning of a ceremony.

“Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. I say, fall head over heels. Find someone you can love like crazy and who will love you the same way back. How do you find him? Well, you forget your head, and you listen to your heart…Cause the truth is, honey, there’s no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love, well, you haven’t lived a life at all. But you have to try, cause if you haven’t tried, you haven’t lived.” —William Parrish

A movie quote that explains the vast, unknowable mystery of love.

“So, yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know that it can also be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and, well, strangely easy to mistake for loathing. And, what I'm trying to say, Tristan, is I think I love you! My heart, it feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it doesn't belong to me anymore. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I'd wish for nothing in exchange. No gifts, no goods, no demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing that you love me, too. Just your heart in exchange for mine.” —Yvaine

Love Actually

Romantic-comedy fans will love this movie line that never goes out of style.

“Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion's starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don't see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often it's not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it's always there - fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge - they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I've got a sneaking suspicion love actually is all around.” —The Prime Minister

Shakespeare in Love

This romantic movie quote could be read by a friend, relative or even an officiant. 

“I will have poetry in my life. And adventure. And love. Love above all. No… not the artful postures of love, not playful and poetical games of love for the amusement of an evening. but love that…overthrows life. Unbiddable, ungovernable, like a riot in the heart, and nothing to be done, come ruin or rapture.” —Viola

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1. The Wedding Singer – "Grow Old With You"

"I wanna make you smile whenever you're sad, Carry you around when your arthritis is bad, All I wanna do is grow old with you, I'll get your medicine when your tummy aches, Build you a fire if the furnace breaks, Oh, it could be so nice, growing old with you, I'll miss you, Kiss you, Give you my coat when you are cold, Need you, Feed you, Even let you hold the remote control, So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink, Put you to bed when you've had too much to drink, Oh, I could be the man who grows old with you, I wanna grow old with you."

2. Fleabag — Hot Priest's speech

"It turns out it's quite hard to come up with something original about love, but I've had a go. Love is awful. It’s awful. It’s painful. It’s frightening. It makes you doubt yourself, judge yourself, distance yourself from the other people in your life. It makes you selfish. It makes you creepy, makes you obsessed with your hair, makes you cruel, makes you say and do things you never thought you would do.

It’s all any of us want, and it’s hell when we get there. So no wonder it’s something we don’t want to do on our own. I was taught if we’re born with love then life is about choosing the right place to put it. People talk about that a lot, feeling right, when it feels right, it’s easy. But I’m not sure that’s true. It takes strength to know what’s right. And love isn’t something that weak people do. Being a romantic takes a hell of a lot of hope. I think what they mean is, when you find somebody that you love, it feels like hope."

3. Friends — Monica and Chandler's vows

Monica: "For so long I wondered if I would ever find my prince, my soulmate. Then three years ago, at another wedding, I turned to a friend for comfort. And instead, I found everything that I'd ever been looking for my whole life. And now here we are with our future before us, and I only want to spend it with you, my prince, my soulmate, my friend." 

Chandler: "I thought this was going to be the most difficult thing I ever had to do. But when I saw you walking down that aisle I realized how simple it was. I love you. Any surprises that come our way, it’s OK, because I will always love you. You are the person I was meant to spend the rest of my life with." 

4. When Harry Met Sally — Harry's declaration

“I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”

5. The Half of It — Ellie's speech

"Love isn't patient and kind and humble. Love is messy and horrible and selfish and bold. It's not finding your perfect half. It's the trying and the reaching and failing. Love is being willing to ruin your good painting for the chance at a great one."

6. Sex and the City — Carrie's poem

"His hello was the end of her endings,

Her laugh was their first step down the aisle,

His hand would be hers to hold forever,

His forever was as simple as her smile,

He said she was what was missing,

She said instantly she knew,

She was a question to be answered,

And his answer was 'I do.'"

7. Sleepless in Seattle — Sam's feelings

"It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, it just meant we were supposed to be together. And I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home, only to no home I'd ever known. I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car. And I knew it. It was like... magic."

8. Boy Meets World — Cory's declaration

"She gave me my first kiss. She taught me how to dance, she always was talking about these crazy things and I never understood a word she said, all I understood was that she was the girl I sat up every night thinking about. And when I'm with her I feel happy to be alive. Like I can do anything. Even talk to you like this. So that's what I think is love...When I'm better because she's here."

9. Love, Simon — Simon's message

“I am done being scared. I'm done living in a world where I don't get to be who I am. I deserve a great love story… I know who you are. I know you're funny and thoughtful, you choose your words carefully and that they're always perfect and I know that you've been pretending for so long it's hard to believe that you can stop. I get it. Like I told you at the very beginning, I'm just like you… You deserve a great love story too.”

10. Meet Joe Black — William's advice

"I know it's a cornball thing, but love is passion. Obsession. Someone you can't live without. I say fall head over heels, find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Well, forget your head and listen to your heart... Because, the truth is, honey, there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love — well, you haven't lived a life at all. But you have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived... Stay open. Who knows? Lightning could strike."

11. Something New — Kenya's confession

"I know you must think I'm combative, neurotic, picky... And maybe I am. But the weird thing is, I've never had to be anything but myself with you right from the beginning. And with you I feel like I can do anything, say anything, try anything. And that's the life I want. I want an adventure with you. You don't understand, we're supposed to be together."

12. Buffy the Vampire Slayer — Spike's declaration

"When I say I love you, it’s not because I want you or because I can’t have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I’ve seen your kindness and your strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You’re a hell of a woman. You're the one."

13. The Notebook — Noah's argument

"That’s what we do. We fight. You tell me when I’m being an an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you're being a pain in the ass. Which you are 99 per cent of the time. I’m not afraid of hurting your feelings. They have like a two-second rebound rate and you’re back doing the next pain in the ass thing… It’s not going to be easy. It’s going to be hard. We’re gonna have to work at this every day but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.”

14. Juno — Mac's advice

"In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find someone who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you. The right person is still gonna think the sun shine's out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with."

15. Stardust — Yvaine's confession

"When I see the way that mankind loves. You could search to the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know that it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and strangely easy to mistake for loathing, and... I think I love you... I never imagined I'd know it for myself. My heart — it feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it's trying to escape because it doesn't belong to me any more. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I'd wish for nothing in exchange — no gifts. No goods. No demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing you loved me too. Just your heart, in exchange for mine."

16. How I Met Your Mother — Ted's speech

Love doesn't make sense. You can't logic your way into or out of it. Love is totally nonsensical. But we have to keep doing it, or else we're lost and love is dead and humanity should just pack it in. Because love is the best thing we do. I know that sounds cheesy, but it's just true... It doesn't have to make sense, to make sense."

17. Definitely, Maybe — Will's proposal

"I wanna marry you because you're the first person I wanna look at when I wake up in the morning, and the only one I wanna kiss goodnight. Because the first time that I saw these hands, I couldn't imagine not being able to hold them. But mainly, when you love someone as much as I love you, getting married is the only thing left to do."

18. Shall We Dance? — Beverly's explanation

"We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet. I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things. All of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'."

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Wedding Speech Inspo: Best Wedding Toasts from Movies

Writing the perfect wedding speech is  challenging.  You need to think of something that sounds natural, funny, touching, and memorable. While you want it to tell a story, it shouldn’t be too long. And you need to connect with the guests of the lovely couple. Juggling all of this leads to draft after draft of potential speeches as you work on making them perfect. If you need some wedding speech inspo, check out the best wedding toasts from movies to see what these characters do.

Westley: The Princess Bride

This movie has a few adorable quotes, and we advise you to check out Westley’s simple speech in The Princess Bride if you want to make yours quick yet awe worthy. He points out that the couple found true love, and that’s uncommon. While many couples can be in love, that doesn’t mean they’re soulmates.

While your speech shouldn’t be this short, a line or two about the love between the bride and groom is touching. Think up something original or say, “Westley from The Princess Bride put it best,” and quote him.

Jules: My Best Friend’s Wedding

Jules uses her speech to apologize to her best friend for the things she did wrong—specifically, trying to break the couple up. While we don’t suggest you follow in  all  of Jules’s footsteps, you should think of a heartfelt speech. Maybe the bride did something special for you years ago, and you want to highlight it to tell everyone how loyal she’ll be to her groom.

Claire: Wedding Crashers

“Wooow,”  this speech was touching thanks to a bit of advice from a certain wedding crasher. Initially, Claire planned to pack her toast with jokes and a bit of teasing, but as a wedding expert, John suggested going another route. The result? Everyone  loved  Claire’s touching speech about her sister.

John put it best: some teasing is fine, but the best speech comes from the heart. So as you write your toast, think about the sweetest moments you remember between the lovely couple and jot them down. Wedding Crashers isn’t just a  top wedding movie to watch because it’s hilarious but also because the characters are relatable.

Charles: Four Weddings and a Funeral

Charles begins his speech with a bit of reality and dry humor. He talks about the lovely commitment between the couple and points out that it’s something everyone  can’t  do, specifically himself. And it’s true. Marriage is difficult; it comes with difficulties, but perseverance is key. Talk about that incredible leap of faith as they begin their life together.

Maggie: In Her Shoes

Often, the bride’s sister gives a heartfelt speech about her sibling and maybe even tell a story about their childhood. Maggie surprises her sister Rose with a speech at the ceremony where she reads “I Carry Your Heart with Me” by E.E. Cummings.

This one tugs at the heartstrings, and it’s one everyone in the audience can relate to. Everyone at the wedding loves the couple and wants the best for them; similarly, the bride and groom will always carry one another in their hearts.

Gus: My Big Fat Greek Wedding

Even the bride’s father needs a bit of wedding speech inspo, and Gus givesone of the best wedding toasts from movies. While he was initially upset about Toula’s husband Ian coming from a different background, he learns to accept this because Ian makes Toula happy. He explains that people are like fruit, and we’re all varying types. In other words, we’re the same yet different. We all come from different walks of life, and forming a family allows us to blend the things that make us unique to create something new.

Tips for Giving a Wedding Speech

Giving a speech is nerve-racking for nearly everyone—you’re not alone in feeling this. As you prepare your toast, follow in the footsteps of these characters, and aim to:

• Introduce yourself and your relationship to the couple
• Keep it personal and unique
• Tell stories about the couple
• Crack a few jokes
• Don’t make it too long

The best speeches require planning, so start writing early so you have time to make changes and practice. Then, if you have doubts, do a trial run with a friend, your partner, or a member of the wedding party. Sometimes, we need a little nudge in the right direction to create a one-of-a-kind speech that’ll make everyone tear up. Best of luck writing!

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• Traditional Toasts
• Best Man & Maid Of Honor Toasts
• Parent Toasts
• Sister Toasts
• Bride and Groom Toasts
• Short And Simple Toasts
• Classic Literary Toasts
• Shakespearean Toast
• Religious Toasts
• Movie Toasts
• Funny Toasts
• Irish Toasts

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• Wedding Anniversary Toasts

Wedding Toast Etiquette

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Wedding toasts contribute a lot to the overall atmosphere of the wedding. Love, sincerity, romance… It can be difficult to put your feelings into words. We have collected the best wedding toast examples to inspire you. Find your perfect toast here!

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“Love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together. Love is about how much you love each other every single day.” – Unknown

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Wedding Toast Order

There is also a traditional order that wedding toasts follow. Tradition isn’t set in stone, however, and you could rewrite the rules to fit your own wedding situation as you see fit. Below we have the simple order for wedding reception toast. This should be quite similar for traditional and non-traditional weddings.

• The best man is usually the first to give a toast.
• The maid of honor gives her toast next.
• After this, the host of the event, usually the mother or father of the bride, gives their toast.
• The parents of the groom may or may not follow with their toast.
• At this time, a few select gusts might go next.
• In some settings, the bride or groom, or the couple close with a toast of their own.

Any guests who would like to say something would usually notify the couple a few weeks before the wedding so that they can be added to the queue.

Wedding toasts are often given at the end of your speech, so you’ll want to go out saying the right words at the moment. The best wedding toasts ever are not too long or too short. And, whether they’re movie wedding toasts or toasts about love, they perfectly express your wishes for the couple.

Here are a few examples of the best wedding toasts:

“To the bride and groom, may the roof above you never fall in and may you both never fall out.”

“I wish thee health, I wish thee wealth, I wish thee gold in store, I wish thee heaven upon earth. What could I wish thee more?”

“Let us raise our glasses to the happy couple. May you grow old on one pillow.”

“May your joys be as deep as the ocean, and your troubles as light as its foam.”

“Here’s to the past, for all that you’ve learnt. Here’s to the present, for all that you share. Here’s to the future, for all that you’ve got to look forward to.”

“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.” Oscar Wilde

“May thy life be long and happy, Thy cares and sorrows few; And the many friends around thee Prove faithful, fond and true.”

“May you never steal, lie, or cheat, but if you must steal, then steal away my sorrows, and if you must lie, lie with me all the nights of my life, and if you must cheat, then please cheat death because I couldn’t live a day without you.”

“Here’s to the bride, May your hours of joy be as numerous as the petals of your bridal bouquet. Here’s to the groom, A man who keeps his head though he loses his heart.”

“Here’s to the new husband and here’s to the new wife. May they remain lovers for all of life.”

Traditional Toast Examples

Traditional wedding reception toasts are sweet, sentimental, and meaningful. They are more subtle and laid back, yet pack a punch like the examples below.

From Groom to Bride:

“When I first set my eyes on you, it was rainbows, flowers, and thunder. I knew you were the one for me and I couldn’t let you go. Your intellect, personality, and sweetness charmed me and I felt overwhelmed. The stars aligned in my favor when I realized that we lived the same things. The best part is that you love me too. I couldn’t be luckier, and I love you until my last breath.”

From Groom to Guests

“We want to thank you beautiful people for your presence here and for sharing in our joy. To our parents, friends, family, and associates, we wouldn’t be here today without all your efforts, support and guidance. Coming here today means the world to us, so thank you for loving and honoring us.”

General Toasts:

“The truth is this, finding a person who loves you just as you are is the best thing in life. They see you through your bad, good, high, low, and everything in between without bailing out. The person still sees the sun rise and set in your eyes. When you find that person, stick with them. I found mine, so raise your glasses as we toast to…”

From Best Man & Maid Of Honor

The best man and the maid of honor are the leaders of the bridal party. The best man is leading the wedding – and his speech is something a lot of people are looking forward to. He has to follow the organizational part, keep in mind all the little things. It is also his responsibility to toast the bride.

The same goes for the maid of honor . She is the bride’s best friend, so she is the one to toast the groom.

Here are a couple of examples of best man and bridesmaid toast examples:

“Eve was very jealous. And, although there were only two in paradise when Adam came home too late, she counted his ribs just in case. We wish our young not to be so jealous, and her husband – not to give an occasion to count the ribs!”

“In the hearts of our young people, the fire of love burns. This is a sacred fire. So, let’s fill our glasses and drink to ensure that it never goes out in their hearts!”

“No matter how many years passes – be it 10 or 20 years of family life, – I want the groom to lose his head, but not his reason, looking at his lovely wife.”

“Friends! I offer to drink for a kiss! This is the idea that a man came up with because he did not find any other way to close a mouth to a woman.”

“They say it’s not a marvel that two people are different, but it’s a marvel is they can live together so happily. Live marvelously, our dear newlyweds!”

“A real woman can make a man think that he is the winner, though she was the one who was victorious. Look at our groom. He looks like a winner. Therefore, let us drink to his beautiful victory and the woman who allowed herself to be defeated, the bride.”

“Rumor has it in a perfect family the wife does not pay attention to where the money comes from, and the husband does not notice where it is going. May you have a truly perfect family!”

“What is the difference between a fairy tale and reality? A fairy tale is when the prince marries a snake, and she becomes a princess. Reality is quite the contrary. Let your life together be a fairy tale!”

“When a man is persistent, he will certainly achieve what a woman wants. Let’s drink to ensure that the purposefulness of men and the vagaries of women coincide!”

“May the two of you be poor in misfortune and rich in blessings. Here is to a wonderful wedding day and an even more marvelous marriage.”

Parent Wedding Toasts

The father of the bride usually starts parental wedding toasts. For the newlyweds, their parents’ blessing is extremely important.

We believe that wedding toasts father of the groom examples also proves helpful.

Your children are getting married, so it is natural to give them some wise advice on the family life they are about to start together.

“Dear children! Let your marriage be happy! Live in friendship and harmony. We always want happiness to be long, and therefore I wish you happiness to be eternal, let your love burn bright, and friends remain true! Let’s drink to a happy union!”

“To live in love and harmony until the silver wedding, the wife must have a golden character, and the husband – an iron endurance. So, let’s drink to a reliable alloy of two metals, for the fusion of the souls of the newlyweds!”

“The meaning of life is a family, this is our destiny, in fact, for it is for the sake of the family and our children that live! Let your life be happy, and the smiles and joy of your loved ones warm your hearts with warmth and comfort!”

“The secret of a successful marriage lies in one popular wisdom: you do not need to love as much as possible, just as long as possible! So keep going, let your passion burn through the years!”

“Today we wish you happiness. May the Lord protect you from the storm and bad weather, bad people, from pain and illness, from hardships. May God grant you a lot of passion, ardor, and love! And a lot of happiness!”

“A spouse is supporting in life. Strengthening the pillars, we extend our life. So, let us drink to the spouses and for them to always love and support each other.”

‘I want to see you grow old together. Count each other’s wrinkles as the years pass by. See who losses all of the teeth and who will need the help of the walking stick first.’

“Always remember the most important four words for a successful marriage: ‘I’ll do the dishes.'”

1 John 3:18 – “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”

Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Sister’s Wedding Toast

Preparing a toast to your sister may not be easy. However, remembering the special bond you share, all you need do is put it in words. Try to summarize what she means to you and the joy that you wish for her. You could even say a toast from your favorite movie you both share for something unique.

See some samples below.

“[Bride,] for as long as I have known you, you have always been someone who has been able to find the joy in everything. I am so glad that you can share this ability to see the joy in everything with [groom.] May your life together be joyous and full of love.”

“Here is to the groom with a bride so fair, and here is to a bride with a groom who is so rare.”

“May you always have walls for the wind, a roof for the rain, tea by the fire, laughter to cheer you up, and everything that your heart desires. Congratulations [bride] and [groom.]”

Bride and Groom Toast Examples

The Bride and groom would toast to the guests in appreciation for their presence among other things. See some sweet tips and wedding toasts examples to adopt.

Bride and Groom Toast Tips

Give thanks to parents Thank your parents and parent’s in-law for being sweet and gracious to you all your lives. If they also contributed to the wedding, make a special mention. Also, let the guests know you’ve got the best parents. Remind them that even though you’re married, they’d never lose your love. Recount beautiful times with them and some instances where they came through for you. Make a toast to them after your spouse. Give Thanks to all guests Guests braved the odds, elements, spare time, and finances to show up for you. Appreciating them would give a sense of belonging and pride. Remind them how they made your day special with their prayers, wishes, and gifts. Wish them a safe return to where they came from and make your next toast to them. Give thanks to special people Some specific people contributed to making your big day a success. These special people deserve a mention. These people include your parents, the parent inlaws, bridesmaids, maid of honor, groomsmen, family, and best man. Mention specific friends who contribute to your wedding one way or another, even in their absence. Thank them profusely and make another toast to them.

Here are some examples:

Groom Toast To Bride:

“The minute you acknowledge you want to spend forever with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. Let our journey begin, (name).”

Bride Toast To Groom:

“To my soul mate and lover – we’ve scaled the Hoops, jumped the blocks, and now we’re here. I am most excited to do forever with you, (name).”

Groom Speech to Groomsmen

“And to my Best Man and Groomsmen, thank you for your immense support and presence here today. You know I don’t joke with my beauty Sleep and wouldn’t have made it to the wedding on time without all of you. Maybe my bride would have left me, so you saved my life. You are the best friends I could ever have, and celebrating our happiness with you today made our wedding more meaningful. Every one of you has earned a special place in my heart and that of my wife. We can’t wait to enjoy bonfires, barbecues, get-togethers, and make more memories with you because we’re stuck for life.”

Groom Speech to Bridesmaids

“Here’s to my bride’s Maid of Honor and Bridesmaids— you are angels. You all know our hearts and what your support and friendship mean to us. My bride is a stunner, from her make-up to attire and overall look. You all made it possible and on time. She appreciates you, as I do. Having you here and sharing in our biggest moment is one of the rarest gifts we could get. Your presence makes us feel special and complete and we’re blessed to have you girls, in our lives. You’ve proven formidable, loyal, and selfless and with you on our side, we can go through life with faith. Thank you from the depth of our hearts. We love you girls immensely!”

Short Wedding Toasts To The Bride & Groom

You need to toast the bride and groom?

You might want to tell them everything you feel like sharing. Your overflowing emotions are quite natural if you are close to the couple. Still, make sure your wedding toast is not too long. After all, this is a very special day for the couple, and you have to help them keep to the general timeline.

Here are some short wedding toast examples to help you:

“Let your love last forever, and be longer than the last sunset.”

‘Two are better than one.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9

“I found the one whom my soul loves.” — Song of Solomon 3:4

“Here’s to the groom, a man who was able to keep his head, but lost his heart.”

“Follow the way of love.” — I Corinthians 14:1

“Deep love is stronger than life.”—Jewish proverb

“Nothing is real but dreams and love.” —Anna de Noailles

“Where there is love, there is no darkness.”—Burundi proverb

“Here’s to the newlyweds – may these two share everything with each other… and that includes the chores!”

Classic & Traditional Literary Wedding Toasts

If you are looking for some wedding toast ideas, you might want to use some ready-made examples to boost your imagination. This list of classical and traditional literary wedding toasts is perfect for celebrating a wedding.

These toasts will give you some wedding toast inspiration, or just help you to spice up what you’ve already written.

Watching (bride) and (groom) together makes my heart sing with joy. I am proud to be a part of this special day. Let us toast to the newlyweds, who make us believe true love still exists. (Bride) and (groom,) may you find joy with each other each and every day from this day forward. My sincere congratulations! Remember this special day, as it is the day that your life together as husband and wife starts. To (bride) and (groom,) may you always find comfort, strength and endless happiness in each other. Please join me as I raise a glass to these two newlyweds.

“To love another person is to see the face of God.” — Les Miserables by Victor Hugo

“There is only one happiness in life: To love and be loved.” — George Sand

“Love her. The way you do just the one time.” — Red Wind by Raymond Chandler

“Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupery

‘It’s now or never, isn’t it?’—Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

“We laugh and laugh, and nothing can ever be sad, no one can be lost, or dead, or far away: right now we are here, and nothing can mar our perfection, or steal the joy of this perfect moment.”—The Time Traveler’s Wife

“Health and life to you; The woman of your choice for you; A child every year for you; And may you die in Ireland.” —Irish proverb

Shakespearean Wedding Toast

There are lots of examples of wedding toast speeches so you might want to be more original.

Shakespearean wedding toasts include the pieces of works by the great poet himself and those that have the same feeling about them. They add some Medieval atmosphere, which might be great for a boho or thematical celebration. After all, this period of literature is all about romance.

“God, the best maker of all marriages, Combine your hearts in one.” — King Henry V, Act V

“Doubt thou the stars are fire, Doubt the sun doth move, Doubt truth to be a liar but never doubt thy love.” — Hamlet

“Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs; Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers’ eyes; Being vexed, a sea nourished with loving tears. What is it else? A madness most discreet, A choking gall, and a preserving sweet.” — Romeo and Juliet

“May a flock of blessings light upon thy back.” – Romeo and Juliet

‘Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.’ – A Midsummer Night’s Dream”May thy life be long and happy, thy cares and sorrows few; And the many friends around thee prove faithful, fond and true. May your voyage through life be as happy and as free as the dancing waves on the deep blue sea.”

“But rich or poor, quick or slow, may you know nothing but happiness from this day forward.”

“For each petal on the shamrock, this brings a wish your way. Good health, good luck, and happiness for today and every day.”

“May the light of friendship guide your paths together. And may the laughter of children grace the halls of your home. May the joy of living for one another trip a smile from your lips a twinkle from your eye.”

Religious Wedding Toasts

If you’ve been wondering how to end a wedding toast, you can always add a bit of spirituality. It’s up to you to decide on whether religious wedding toasts are appropriate, depending on your and the couple’s religious beliefs. Bible love quotes make timeless wedding toast quotes .

Take a look at the examples and get inspired.

Song of Solomon 4:9: “You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace.”

Galatians 5:13 “Through love serve one another.”

Song of Solomon 8:7 “Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away.”

Corinthians 13:4-5: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”

1 John 4:18-19 “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us.”

Corinthians 13 “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.”

Corinthians 13:13: “And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

Proverbs 10:12 “Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.”

Romans 12:9 “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.”

Movie Wedding Speech Quotes

Want some more original wedding toasts examples?

Think about movie quotes!

You can include quotes from some of the bride and groom’s favorite movies . Movie quotes are especially nice if you have a movie-themed wedding. Surprise the bride and groom with a well-known quote. These kinds of toasts are more memorable and help create an atmosphere of love and romance.

Casablanca: ‘Here’s looking at you, kid.’

When Harry Met Sally: ‘When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.’

Love Actually: “To me, you are perfect”

Bram Stoker’s Dracula: ‘I have crossed oceans of time to find you’

Serendipity: ‘It’s like at that moment the whole universe existed just to bring us together.’

My Best Friend’s Wedding: ‘Choose me. Marry me. Let me make you happy.’

Moulin Rouge: ’The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.’

Bridget Jones’s Baby: ‘Sometimes you love a person because of all the reasons they’re not like you. And sometimes you love a person just because they feel like home.’

The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring: ‘I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.’

Meet Joe Black: ‘Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with?’

Good Will Hunting: “It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.”

Funny Wedding Toasts

A bit of humor can never hurt. Laughter is essential for every wedding, it helps to reduce the stress of the importance of the event. Examples of funny wedding toasts will be especially helpful for the best man , as his toast is supposed to be more entertaining than the rest.

Don’t be afraid to bring a little fun into the otherwise serious celebration with these funny quotes.

“They say that in a good marriage, the husband is the head, and the wife is the heart. So, let us drink to the fact that our young people did not know in life either headaches or heartaches!”

‘Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.’ – Albert Einstein

‘Love is sharing your popcorn.’ – Charles Schultz

‘It is impossible to love and be wise.’ – Francis Bacon

‘True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.’- Erich Segal

‘It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.’ – Rita Rudner

‘Being married means mostly shouting “What?” from other rooms.’

‘Marry a man your own age; as your beauty fades, so will his eyesight.’— Phyllis Diller

‘Love is a lot like a backache: it doesn’t show up on X-rays, but you know it’s there.’ — George Burns

‘All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.’ — Charles Schulz

Writing an awesome wedding toast can be nerve-wracking, but with a little preparation and practice, anyone can deliver a memorable speech that will leave a lasting impression.

“To the happy couple, I have known [bride/groom] for [number] of years and I have never seen [him/her] as happy as [he/she] is now. [Insert a personal anecdote or story about the couple]. [Bride/groom], you have found your soulmate in [bride/groom] and I couldn’t be happier for you both. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness!”

“Good evening, everyone. I am honored to be here today to celebrate the love of [bride] and [groom]. [Insert a personal anecdote or story about the couple]. You two are the perfect match, and I am confident that you will have a beautiful life together. [Bride/groom], you have found your true soulmate in [bride/groom], and I am so happy that you have each other. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations and cheers to a lifetime of love and happiness!”

“Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to give a toast to the happy couple. [Insert a personal anecdote or story about the couple]. [Bride/groom], you two are a perfect match, and I have no doubt that you will have a long and happy life together. You have found your soulmate in each other, and I am honored to be here today to witness your love. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations, and cheers to a lifetime of love and happiness!”

Irish Toast Examples

The Irish are blessed with the gift of proverbs and gab. These traits infuse into prayers and wishes for the married couple like our examples below.

“May you have a love that never ends, lots of money, and lots of friends. Health be yours, whatever you do, and may God send many blessings to you!”

“Bless you and yours, as well as the cottage you live in. May the roof overhead be well thatched, and those inside be well matched”

Wedding Anniversary Toast

“To a couple that we all know, admire, and love with all our hearts. We all wish the best for you and we toast to your health and happiness.”

“Here’s to the husband and here’s to the wife. May the two of you continue to remain lovers for life.”

“As you celebrate this happy day in your life, remember that the best days are yet to come. In the meantime, let us raise a glass to your marriage and to your health and happiness.”

There is a certain etiquette to follow when writing your toast. This can guide you and act as tips that you can use in writing some of the best toasts this wedding season. Use the following when writing your toast , and you will find writing toast for weddings much easier than expected.

• Keep it brief

One of the rules for writing a wedding toast is to keep it brief. While you might have a lot to say, you will find that having a short wedding toast is much better than a long one. To avert boredom on the part of your guests, anything under two to three minutes is perfect.

Practice saying your toast a few times after it is written. Even better in front of a mirror. This will help you greatly when it is time to do it live. If you build your toast around a quote for a wedding toast, this could help keep it memorable and easy to recall when you need it.

• Catch and keep your audience’s attention

Speak clearly and audibly. And be it with toast quotes or a joke, insert something that will keep your guests attentive. You don’t want to struggle to be heard or try to speak over people already talking to one another.

• Remember to raise your glass

Whether you are a drinker or not, remember to raise your glass to the couple at the end of your toast. Better to raise an empty glass than refuse to participate at all, at the end of your simple wedding toast.

Do’s and Don’ts of Wedding Toasts

What to include and what better to avoid in a wedding toast?

• Do get everyone’s attention. Do it tactfully! If you choose to do so by clinking at a champagne glass, it can be quite annoying.
• Don’t make it long. Keep it as short, as possible. Speaking for two to three minutes should be the maximum.
• Don’t say anything embarrassing! A wedding toast is not the time to swear, remember exes, or tell the stories of past failures. Don’t make everyone regret they gave you the mic!
• Be sincere – your words should be truly heartfelt.
• Don’t forget to raise your glass as you say the toast.
• Do practice your toast at home – this way you will deliver your toast more smoothly.

Weddings toasts are beautiful endings to heartfelt speeches. They can be witty, funny, romantic, or traditional. We have put together wedding toasts tips that can help you prepare for your big day, whether for the bride, wedding party, parents, or even guests. Get ideas from this post and speak confidently on your big day.

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The 10 Best Wedding Speeches From Movies Of All-Time

Let's lift our glasses to these classic movie toasts.

• Alexandra Churchill

Last updated on Nov 17, 2023

The toast: It's one of — no, scratch that — it is the best part of any wedding. The best man shares embarrassing stories of the groom from their college days, the maid of honor recalls fond memories of her childhood spent with the bride playing dress-up, parents get choked up and everyone lifts their glasses to wish the happy newlyweds a happily ever after.

Of course, if you've ever been to a wedding, you'll also know how funny, heartfelt or even, dare we say, wacky wedding toast ideas can be.

So naturally, toasts have made for some great Hollywood scenes. After all, remember that scene in My Best Friend's Wedding when Julia Roberts begs for groom Michael O'Neal to love her back? Or that other scene in Bridesmaids when Kristen Wiig toasts her best friend and bride-to-be Maya Rudolph in Spanish (random)?

Let's lift our glasses to some of these classic favorites...

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Here are the top 10 best wedding speeches from movies of all time:

1. my best friend's wedding.

"I had the strangest dream. I dreamed that some psychopath was trying to break the two of you up. Luckily, I woke up, and I see that the world is just as it should be. For my best friend ... has won the best woman."

OK, so Julianne (Julia Roberts) wasn't the best of best friends in this rom-com. After her embarrassingly desperate attempt to break up her best friend's wedding, she raises a glass to the newlyweds with her sincerest apologies.

2. Bridesmaids

"Lillian and I took Spanish together in school. And so, I would just like to say to you and to everyone here, 'Gracias para vivar en la casa, en la escuelas, en... en la azul... markada. Tienes con bibir en las fortuashla and gracias."

The craziness never seemed to end for bride-to-be Lillian (Maya Rudolph), maid of (dis)honor Annie (Kristen Wiig) and their entourage of ladies, between getting kicked off an airline en route to a bachelorette party, Mexican food poisoning, dress shopping (gone terribly, terribly wrong) and Annie's freakout at the bridal shower.

But, in the end, they still tied the knot and the friendship between the BFFs smoothed out.

3. Four Weddings and A Funeral

"I am as ever in bewildered awe of anyone who this kind of commitment that Angus and Laure have made today. I know I couldn't do it and I think it's wonderful they can."

Charles (Hugh Grant) and Carrie (Andie McDowell) always run into each other at weddings (four, actually if you couldn't guess from the title ... plus one funeral). It's the classic case of having a strong but fleeting connection with a stranger.

And if you ever doubted Hugh Grant as an on-screen charmer, you need to watch his speech as best man.

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4. The Deer Hunter

The Deer Hunter, which by genre is really more of a war drama, isn't exactly what comes to mind when you think of weddings. But there is a subtle love story in the movie between Mike (Robert De Niro) and his friend Nick's girlfriend Linda (Meryl Streep).

At a friend's wedding reception, Mike and the guys get drunk, having a good time. That's when they notice a soldier dressed in uniform sitting at the bar who gives what is probably the best two-line wedding toast ever.

5. Wedding Crashers

"True love is the soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another."

We can't help but secretly love the womanizing duo of John (Owen Wilson) and Jeremy (Vince Vaughn). Among all the other rules in their bro code, they steadfastly stick to Rule #5: Never let a girl get between you and a fellow Crasher .

But when they sneak into one wedding where John falls in love with Claire (Rachel McAdams), that rule gets put to the test. And Claire's too-sweet toast kinda seals the deal.

6. The 5-Year Engagement

"This is supposed to be exciting. It's your wedding — you only get a few of these!"

It was a long, long, (really long) walk down the aisle for Tom (Jason Segel) and his girlfriend Violet (Emily Blunt). And this slideshow at their engagement party made things even more awkward.

7. The Hangover 2

"That was a great speech, sir. I liked the comparisons between Stu and rice."

There's always that one guy — whether it's his drunk uncle or your weirdo cousin — who just doesn't have a clue when it comes to social etiquette. If you thought anyone in your family was awkward, this should make you feel a whole lot better. (Trust us, you aren't alone.)

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8. My Big Fat Greek Wedding

"We're all different, but in the end, we're all fruit."

It took a little while for the Portokalos family to warm up to Toula's (Nia Vardalos) fiancé Ian (John Corbett), but her father Gus (Michael Constantine) breaks down the cultural differences between them in one sweet, beautifully simple analogy.

9. The Wedding Singer

"Harold ain't so perfect. Remember that time in Puerto Rico when we picked up those two... well, I guess they were prostitutes, but I don't remember paying."

Even after being stood up at the altar on his wedding day, Robbie Hart (Adam Sandler) never gave up on love. (Heck, what kind of wedding singer would he be if he didn't?)

When he befriends and inevitably falls for a waitress named Julia (Drew Barrymore), he won't let love get away a second time, so he performs a song on the plane she's boarding. But before that, at a wedding he's performing for, the groom's drunk brother gets on stage to make a pretty awkward speech. (Drunk, of course.)

10. Sex And The City (The Movie)

"In our group, we never kiss and tell..."

Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) really needs no introduction, does she? She's the fictional expert on love and relationships. So what do you say as a toast to the greatest love of her life ? Take cues from BFF Samantha:

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Alexandra Churchill is a digital editor who currently works for Martha Stewart Living. Her work has been featured on numerous sites including The Huffington Post, Her Campus, USA TODAY College, and Northshore and Ocean Home magazines.

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35 Utterly Romantic Quotes from Movies That Are Perfect for Your Wedding

Get your tissues at the ready and take a browse through some of the most romantic movie quotes

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Whether you are looking for some romantic words to write in a wedding card or the perfect phrase to quote as you write your own vows , take a look at our top pick of romantic movie quotes (and prepare to start sobbing!).

Moulin Rouge

If you love the idea of a love story that is deep, intense and really dramatic then take inspiration from Moulin Rouge. We love this utterly romantic line and it would be a perfect quote to include on your order of service.

“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.”

Good Will Hunting

This had to be one of our favourite romantic lines from Good Will Hunting and it just so happens to come from one of our all-time favourite actors Robin Williams. We love the romantic notion that everyone is different and it’s the imperfections that our partner can fall in love with.

“People call those imperfections, but no, that’s the good stuff.”

We couldn’t really leave it at just one Robin Williams quote so here is another favourite:

“It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.”

When Harry Met Sally

When Harry Met Sally is one of the most iconic romcoms and this line is perfect for your wedding as your marriage is going to be the start of your new life together.

“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”

We like this straight talking sense that comes from the movie Juno – the cast might be young but they seem to know more than us!

“In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find someone who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you.”

Dirty Dancing

We really couldn’t talk romantic movie quotes without talking about Dirty Dancing – Baby and Johnny might come from different worlds but they just know that they are meant to be together. If you include this quote in your big day then maybe you could also do the classic Dirty Dancing lift in your first dance? Feeling brave!?

“Me? I’m scared of everything. I’m scared of what I saw, I’m scared of what I did, of who I am, and most of all I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you.”

The Notebook

Whenever we are in need of some serious cry therapy to get all our emotions out, we switch on The Notebook. This emotional love story is filled with lines that would be perfect for your wedding day – particularly if you want to get your guests blubbing! We couldn’t pick just one quote as there are just so many! So here are our favourite two:

“You are, and always have been, my dream.”

“You and I were different. We came from different worlds, and yet you were the one how taught me the value of love. You showed me what it was like to care for another, and I am a better man because of it. I don’t want you to ever forget that.”

500 Days of Summer

500 Days of Summer is one of our all-time favourite films – and not just because Zooey Deschanel gives us serious wardrobe envy! We love that this quote shows how love can be totally empowering and make you feel like you can do or be anything you want.

“I love how she makes me feel, like anything is possible or like life is worth it.”

Hitch is one of our go-to films if we are looking for a bit of a pick me up (and not just because we have a major crush on Will Smith) – we love the upbeat message this movie. We couldn’t pick just one quote so here are our favourite three.

“Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away.”

“Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it’s the moments that take your breath away.”

“So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows… but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.”

We couldn’t talk romantic movies without some dreamy Disney quotes – Frozen might be fairly new on the Disney scene but it’s already a classic.

“Some people are worth melting for.”

Meet Joe Black

Sometimes we just love to watch a movie that’s a bit dark – this deep and passionate line from Meet Joe Black is perfect for explain just how all-consuming love can be.

“Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with?”

Jerry Maguire

Can you believe Jerry Maguire came out in 1996!? Before Renee Zellweger was becoming romcom Royalty as Bridget Jones, she was laying the foundations by starring in this classic with Tom Cruise.

“I love you. You complete me.”

Notting Hill

Who didn’t shed a tear the first time they heard Julia Roberts utter these iconic words – when it all comes down to it, everyone just wants to love someone and have their love back in return.

“After all… I’m just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.”

Sleepless in Seattle

Julia Roberts might be the queen of romcoms but we are pretty sure that Tom Hanks is the king! (Sorry Hugh Grant). Sleepless in Seattle sums up fate, love and destiny perfectly in this romantic quote.

“It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were supposed to be together.”

Love Actually

It’s official, Love Actually is for life, not just for Christmas! It doesn’t matter what season it is, this Christmas classic makes emotional watching all year round.

“To me, you are perfect.”

We love this dramatic and sometimes turbulent story about a US marine returning home from Iraq and this has to be one of our favourite lines from the movie.

“You should be kissed, every day, every hour, every minute.”

If we lost our memories and Channing Tatum started telling us he was head over heels in love with us, we probably wouldn’t argue it! Our favourite part of the film has to be the utterly romantic wedding ceremony where this line is spoken.

“I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love.”

Gone With The Wind

This classic line from Gone With the Wind is timeless, romanatic and a perfect quote to write in your wedding card to your other half.

“You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.”

Serendipity

If you are a couple that believes in fate and destiny then this dreamy quote from Serendipity is just for you.

“It’s like in that moment the whole universe existed just to bring us together.”

My Best Friend’s Wedding

Ok, so we’re not advocating trying to break up your best friend’s wedding like Julia Roberts did! But the sentiment is beautiful and could be the perfect words to inspire a proposal.

“Choose me. Marry me. Let me make you happy.”

Great Expectations

We love the gravitas of this statement – if you are looking for more beautiful words from literature then don’t miss our favourite quotes from novels article filled with even more romantic ideas.

“Everything I have ever done, I’ve done for you.”

The Great Gatsby

If you are taking inspiration from the past with a 1920’s style wedding dress or Gatsby inspired invitations then why not also include a quote from this stylish story on your wedding inviatations or order of service.

“I wish I had done everything on earth with you”

Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring

Calling all Lord of the Rings fans, this line is perfect for your wedding did. Did you know you can even buy a Lord of the Rings style wedding ring? Yes really!

“I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.”

The Wedding Date

Facing the dilemma of going to her little sister’s wedding alone and bumping into her ex is too much for Kat so she hires a charming male escort and they just happen to fall in love.

“I think I’d miss you even if we’d never met.”

Sense & Sensibility

This romantic Jane Novel classic is the perfect quote for literature lovers. If this is just your style then don’tmiss our Hitched edit of the most amazing library wedding venues.

“My heart is, and always will be, yours.”

Edward and Bella’s love story is so passionate and intense it leaves our own relationships looking rather mediocre…I mean, we never had to fight to volturi to prove our love…

“You are the most important thing to me now. The most important thing to me ever.”

If you or your other half are big superhero fans then here’s the perfect way to add some superhero style to your wedding day.

“When you look in her eyes and she’s looking back in yours, everything feels… not quite normal. Because you feel stronger and weaker at the same time. You feel excited and at the same time, terrified. The truth is… you don’t know what you feel except you know what kind of man you want to be. It’s as if you’ve reached the unreachable and you weren’t ready for it.”

Valentine’s Day

We love this wise and super-cute phrase from Valentine’s Day – proving you don’t have to be perfect all the time.

“When you love someone, you love all of them… you gotta love everything about them, not just the good things but the bad things too. The things that you find lovable and the things you don’t.”

Bridget Jones’s Diary

Mark Darcy made our hearts melt when he said these utterly perfect words to Bridget.

“I like you very much. Just as you are.”

Brokeback Mountain

If you have been in a relationship that required a lot of time apart then this passionate quote is perfect for you.

“Tell you what…truth is, sometimes I miss you so bad I can hardly stand it.”

We never expected to feel quite so strongly about a relationship between a man and a machine, we love this modern day love story that throws up the ethical questions around artificial intelligence.

“I’ve never loved anyone the way I love you.”

The Longest Ride

Another spectactular story from The Notebook’s Nicholas Sparks, these words sum up love beautifully.

“Love requires sacrifice, but it’s worth it. Always.”

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Inspiring Wedding Quotes

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• “Once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale.” —Unknown
• “And I knew exactly how old Walt Disney’s Cinderella felt when she found her prince.” —Elizabeth Young
• “A hundred hearts would be too few to carry all my love for you.” —Unknown
• “In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.” —Mignon McLaughlin
• “The highest happiness on earth is the happiness of marriage.” —William Lyon Phelps
• “Nobody has ever measured, even poets, how much a heart can hold.” —Zelda Fitzgerald
• “Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.” —Albert Einstein
• “Oh the heart that has truly loved never forgets, But as truly loves on to the close.” —Thomas Moore
• “Doubt thou the stars are fire; Doubt that the sun doth move; Doubt truth to be a liar; But never doubt I love.” —William Shakespeare
• “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” —J. R. R. Tolkien
• “Being someone’s first love may be great, but to be their last is beyond perfect.” —Unknown
• “Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are.” —Oscar WIlde
• “You are every reason, every hope and every dream I’ve ever had.” —Nicholas Sparks
• “True love stories never have endings.” —Richard Bach
• “You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes or their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.” —Unknown
• “If we look at the world with a love of life, the world will reveal its beauty to us.” —Daisaku Ikeda
• “Soul meets soul on lovers’ lips.” —Percy Bysshe Shelley
• “What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

• “Marriage has no guarantees. If that’s what you’re looking for, go live with a car battery.” —Erma Bombeck
• “Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you’re offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone’s feelings.” —David Sedaris
• “Only married people understand you can be miserable and happy at the same time.” —Chris Rock
• “The groom always smiles proudly because he’s convinced he’s accomplished something quite wonderful. The bride smiles because she’s been able to convince him of it.” —Judith McNaught
• “A good marriage is like a casserole: only those responsible for it really know what goes in it.” —Unknown
• “Marriage is like twirling a baton, turning a handspring, or eating with chopsticks: It looks easy until you try it.” —Helen Rowlan
• “Romance is the icing, but love is the cake.” —Unknown
• “Marrying a man is like buying something you’ve been admiring for a long time in a shop window. You may love it when you get it home, but it doesn’t always go with everything else.” —Jean Kerr
• “Love is a lot like a backache, it doesn’t show up on X-rays, but you know it’s there. ” —George Burns
• “I love you more than coffee, but please don’t make me prove it. ” —Elizabeth Evans
• “All my friends are getting married. I guess I’m just at that age where people give up.” —Amy Schumer
• “You can’t put a price tag on love. But if you could, I’d wait for it to go on sale.” —Hussein Nishah
• “I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” —Rita Rudner
• “Being a good husband is like being a stand-up comic. You need 10 years before you can call yourself a beginner.” —Jerry Seinfeld
• “If you can stay in love for more than two years, you’re on something.” —Fran Lebowitz
• “True love is the greatest thing, in the world, except for a nice MLT — mutton, lettuce and tomato sandwich, where the mutton is nice and lean and the tomato is ripe.” —The Princess Bride
• “The ideal husband understands every word his wife doesn’t say.” —Alfred Hitchcock
• “A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” —Robert Quillen
• “We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” —Dr. Seuss
• “An archeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets, the more interested he is in her.” —Agatha Christie

• “Let brotherly love continue.” —Hebrews 13:1
• “Is it love that makes the impossible possible? ” —Indian Proverb
• “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.” —Corinthians 13:7
• “Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’” —Genesis 2:18
• “For as a young man marries a young woman, so shall your sons marry you, and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall your God rejoice over you.” —Isaiah 62:5
• “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” —Rumi
• “Faith makes all things possible. Love makes all things easy. ” —Dwight Moody
• “Love is like a friendship caught on fire.” —Jeremy Taylor
• “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” —Rumi
• “I don’t wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone.” —Javan
• “When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship.” —Joseph Campbell
• “Love is not something you feel. It is something you do.” —David Wilkerson
• “Keep alert, stand firm in your faith, be courageous, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” —Corinthians 16:13
• “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” —Corinthians 13:13
• “I am my beloved and my beloved is mine.” —Song of Solomon 6:3
• “Love me when I least deserve it because that is when I really need it.” —Swedish Proverb
• “There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company, than a good marriage.” —Martin Luther
• “As God by creation made two of one, so again by marriage He made one of two.” —Thomas Adams

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• “When you look for the right person, you always end up with the wrong one. But when you just sit by the corner and wait, he comes along and shares the corner with you.” —Unknown
• “You know when you have found your prince because you not only have a smile on your face, but in your heart as well.” —Unknown
• “Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.” —Leo Buscaglia
• “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” —Lao Tzu
• “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” —Dr. Seuss
• “Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy, you must have somebody to divide it with.” —Mark Twain
• “You will find, as you look back upon your life, that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.” —Henry Drummond
• “Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” —Franklin P. Jones
• “In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.” —János Arany
• “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” —Mignon McLaughlin
• “A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.” —Pearl S. Buck
• “The greatest marriages are built on teamwork. A mutual respect, a healthy dose of admiration, and a never-ending portion of love and grace.” —Fawn Weaver
• “In a marriage, each partner is to be an encourager rather than a critic, a forgiver rather than a collector of hurts, and enabler rather than a reformer.” —H. Norman Wright
• “The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It’s a choice you make on your wedding day, and over and over again and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband.” —Barbara De Angelis
• “There is no such thing as a perfect man or a perfect marriage. But the one I have is perfect for me.” —Fawn Weaver
• “Remember, we all stumble; every one of us. That is why it’s a comfort to go hand in hand.” —Emily Kimbrough
• “The beauty of marriage is not always seen from the very beginning—but rather as love grows and develops over time.” —Fawn Weaver
• “A marriage is not a noun; it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get. It’s the way you love your partner everyday.” —Barbara De Angelis
• “To love or have loved, that is enough. Ask nothing more.” —Victor Hugo
• “Marriage is the highest state of friendship. If happy, it lessens our cares by dividing them, at the same time that it doubles our pleasures by mutual participation.” —Samuel Richardson
• “You don’t marry the person you can live with—you marry the person you can’t live without.” —Unknown
• “You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.” —Margaret Mitchell
• “Marriages, like a garden, take time to grow. But the harvest is rich unto those who patiently and tenderly care for the ground.” —Darlene Schacht
• “Tis better to have loved and lost, Than never to have loved at all.” —Alfred Lord Tennyson
• “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” —Andre Maurois

• “For you see, each day I love you more. Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.” —Rosemonde Gerard
• “I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you, not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me.” —Roy Croft
• “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” —Maya Angelou
• “Walking with your hands in mine and mine in yours, that’s exactly where I want to be always.” —Fawn Weaver
• “Two souls with but a single thought; two hearts that beat as one.” —John Keats
• “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” —Emily Bronte
• “Grow old along with me; the best is yet to be.” —Robert Browning
• “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.” —A. A. Milne
• “True love is never blind, but rather brings an added light.” —Phoebe Cary
• “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” —Maya Angelou
• “If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more.” —Jane Austen
• “And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.” —Kahlil Gibran
• “I believe love is always eternal. Even if eternity is only five minutes.” —Sandra Cisneros
• “Love is not about staring at each other, but staring off in the same direction.” —Antoine de Saint Exupéry
• “Your wide eyes are the only light I know from extinguished constellations.” —Pablo Neruda
• “My love for you is a journey, starting at forever and ending at never.” —Unknown
• “We loved with a love that was more than love.” —Edgar Allan Poe
• “By my soul, I can neither eat, drink, nor sleep; nor, what’s still worse, love any woman in the world but her.” —Samuel Richardson
• “You and I, it’s as though we have been taught to kiss in heaven and sent down to earth together, to see if we know what we were taught.” —Boris Pasternak
• “What greater thing is there for two human souls, than to feel that they are joined for life — to strengthen each other in all labor, to rest on each other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all pain, to be with each other in silent unspeakable memories at the moment of the last parting?” —George Eliot

• “Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years.” —Simone Signoret
• “Only one is a wanderer; two together are always going somewhere.” —Vertigo
• “It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.” —Good Will Hunting
• “You make me want to be a better man.” —As Good As It Gets
• “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.” —Moulin Rouge
• “But the heart’s not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love.” —Her
• “You will never age for me, nor fade, nor die.” —Shakespeare in Love
• “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” —When Harry Met Sally
• “If you’re thinking of getting married, you might as well learn right now that you have to let women be women.” —Hello, Dolly
• “Husbands are like wine; they take a long time to mature.” —Letters to Juliet
• “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” —JoAnne Woodward
• “Marriage is like a tense, unfunny version of Everybody Loves Raymond, only it doesn’t last 22 minutes. It lasts forever.” —Knocked Up
• “Even a pain in the ass needs someone to take care of them.” —28 Days
• “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” —Audrey Hepburn
• “For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” —Judy Garland
• “When I sleep, I dream of you, and when I wake, I long to hold you in my arms. If anything, our time apart has only made me more certain that I want to spend my nights by your side, and my days with your heart.” —Nights in Rodanthe
• “Before we met, I was as lost as a person could be and yet you saw something in me that somehow gave me direction again.” —Nights in Rodanthe
• “You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.” —Gone With the Wind
• “To me, you are perfect.” —Love Actually
• “I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love.” —The Vow

• “Email my heart and say our love will never die.” —Britney Spears
• “Right beside you is where I belong, from this moment on.” —Shania Twain
• “And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.” —The Beatles
• “All you need is love, love. Love is all you need.” —The Beatles
• “The older I get, the less time I want to spend with the part of the human race that didn’t marry me.” —Robert Brault
• “Hey, you remember where we first met? Okay, I don’t remember where we first met. But hey, admittin’ is the first step. And hey, you know ain’t nobody perfect.” —Kanye West
• “Love you like a fat kid loves cake.” —50 Cent
• “At last my love has come along, my lonely days are over and life is like a song.” —Etta James
• “I’m feeling alive and with every breath that I take, I feel like I’ve won. You’re my key to survival.” —Secondhand Serenade
• “When the darkness rolls in, I’ll be there through thick and thin.” —Hilary Duff
• “I don’t know where I’d be without you here with me. Life with you makes perfect sense. You’re my best friend.” —Tim McGraw
• “Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours.” —Ludwig van Beethoven
• “To die by your side is such a heavenly way to die.” —The Smiths
• “So I’m thanking you today because of you I am now me.” —John Butler Trio
• “I know she’s not perfect but she tries so hard for me. And I thank God that she isn’t ’cause how boring would that be.” —Brad Paisley
• “But there is not enough time. And there is no, no song I could sing. And there is no combination of words I could say. But I will still tell you one thing. We’re better together.” —Jack Johnson
• “I hope you don’t mind, I hope you don’t mind that I put into words. How wonderful life is, now you’re in the world.” —Elton John
• “A friend is always good to have, but a lover’s kiss is better than angels raining down at me.” —Dave Matthews Band
• “To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness.” —Robert Brault
• “I’ll never let you down. No matter what you do. If you just walk with me. And let me walk with you.” —Neil Young
• “Wise men say only fools rush in but I can’t help falling in love with you.” —Elvis
• “Every breath that is in your lungs is a tiny little gift to me.” —The White Stripes

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30 Perfect Wedding Readings from Movies

• Post author: Brittany
• Post published: March 22, 2020
• Post category: Ceremony / Readings & Vows

Here you’ll find a list of perfect movies to draw on for wedding readings and vows! You can use the readings verbatim or adapt the words to suit your own unique ceremony. Please enjoy and good luck choosing the perfect wedding readings 🙂

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#1 Atonement

“Dearest Cecilia, the story can resume. The one I had been planning on that evening walk. I can become again the man who once crossed the surrey park at dusk, in my best suit, swaggering on the promise of life. The man who, with the clarity of passion, made love to you in the library. The story can resume. I will return. Find you, love you, marry you and live without shame.” — Robbie

#2 Marriage Story (Nicole)

“What I love about Nicole… She makes people feel comfortable about even embarrassing things. She really listens when someone is talking… She always knows the right thing to do when it comes to difficult family shit. I get stuck in my ways and she knows when to push me and when to leave me alone.

She’s always inexplicably brewing a cup of tea that she doesn’t drink. And it’s not easy for her to put away a sock, or close a cabinet, or do a dish, but she tries for me. Nicole grew up in LA around actors and directors and movies and TV and is very close to her mother, Sandra, and, Cassie, her sister. Nicole gives great presents.

She is a mother who plays — really plays — she never steps off playing or says it’s too much (and it must be too much some of the time). She’s competitive.She’s a great dancer. Infectious. She makes me wish I could dance. She always says when she doesn’t know something or hasn’t read a book or seen a film or a play (whereas I fake it or say something like, “I haven’t seen it in a while.”). She keeps the fridge over-full. No one is ever hungry in our house. She can drive a stick.

She’s amazing at opening jars because of her strong arms, which I’ve always found very sexy. She’s brave. After that movie, All Over The Girl , she could have stayed in LA and been a movie star, but she gave that up to do theater with me in New York. My crazy ideas are her favorite things to figure out how to execute. She’s my favorite actress.” –Charlie

#3 Marriage Story (Charlie)

“What I love about Charlie… Charlie is undaunted. He never lets other people’s opinions or any set-backs keep him from what he wants to do. Charlie eats like he’s trying to get it over with and like there won’t be enough food for everyone. A sandwich is to be strangled while devoured. But he’s incredibly neat and I rely on him to keep things in order. He’s energy conscious. He doesn’t look in the mirror too often.

He cries easily in movies. He is very self-sufficient — he can darn a sock and cook himself dinner and iron a shirt. He rarely gets defeated (which I feel like I always do). Charlie takes all of my moods steadily, he doesn’t give in to them or make me feel bad about them.

He’s a great dresser, he never looks embarrassing which is hard for a man. He’s very competitive. He loves being a dad, he loves all the things you’re supposed to hate, like the tantrums, the waking up at night. It’s almost annoying how much he likes it, but then it’s mostly nice.

He disappears into his own world. He and Henry are alike in that way. He can tell people they have food in their teeth or on their face in a way that doesn’t make them feel bad.

Charlie is self-made — his parents — I only met them once — but he told me there was a lot of alcohol and some violence in his childhood. He moved to New York from Indiana with no safety net and now he’s more a New Yorker than any New Yorker.

He’s brilliant at creating family out of whoever is around. With the theatre company he cast a spell that made everyone feel included. No one, not even an intern was unimportant. He could remember all the inside jokes.” –Nicole

#4 A Star is Born

“If you don’t dig deep into your fucking soul, you won’t have legs. … All you got is you and what you want to say to people, and they are listening right now and they’re not going to be listening forever, trust me. So you gotta grab it, and you don’t apologize, you don’t worry about why they’re listening or how long they’re going to be listening for—you just tell them what you want to say. ’Cause how you say it is the stuff of angels.” —Jackson Maine

#5 An Excerpt from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin

A 2001 movie starring Nicolas Cage and Penelope Crus and a 1994 novel by Louis de Bernières

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.

Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, It is not excitement, It is not the promulgation of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, And this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love, have roots that grow towards each other underground, And when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, They find that they are one tree and not two.

#6 Shakespeare in Love

“I will have poetry in my life. And adventure. And love. Love above all. No… not the artful postures of love, not playful and poetical games of love for the amusement of an evening. but love that…overthrows life. Unbiddable, ungovernable, like a riot in the heart, and nothing to be done, come ruin or rapture.” — Viola

#7 10 Things I Hate About You

“I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my car. I hate it when you stare. I hate your big dumb combat boots, and the way you read my mind. I hate you so much it makes me sick; it even makes me rhyme. I hate it, I hate the way you’re always right. I hate it when you lie.

I hate it when you make me laugh, even worse when you make me cry. I hate it when you’re not around, and the fact that you didn’t call. But mostly I hate the way I don’t hate you. Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.” — Kat

#8 While You Were Sleeping

“I bet you were wondering what I’m doing here in the middle of the night. Well, I thought I should introduce myself. My name is Lucy. Lucy Elenore Moderatz. I think you should know that your family thinks we’re engaged. I’ve never been engaged before. This is very sudden for me. What I really came here to tell was that I didn’t mean for this to happen. I don’t know what to do.

If you were awake, I wouldn’t be in this mess. Oh God, not that I’m blaming you. I’m sorry. It’s just that when I was a kid, I always imagined what I would be like or what I would have when I got older. And you know, it was normal stuff. I’d have a house and a family and things like that. It’s not that I’m complaining or anything, because I do have a cat. I have an apartment. I have a sole possession of a remote control. That’s very important. It’s just that I’ve never met anybody that I could laugh with.

Do you believe in love at first site? I bet you don’t. You’re probably too sensible for that. Or have you ever seen somebody and you know, that if that person really knew you, they’d dump the perfect model that they were with and realize that you were the one that they wanted to grow old with? Have you ever fallen in love with somebody that you haven’t even talked to? Have you ever been so alone that you spend the night confusing a man in a coma?” –Lucy Eleanor Moderatz

“In my opinion the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out of your ass. That’s the kind of person that’s worth sticking with.” — Mac

#10 Sleepless in Seattle (Suzy’s Monologue)

“Oh, it’s like that movie. An Affair to Remember , did you ever see it? Oh, god, Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr. Is it Karr or Kerr? Okay, she’s going to meet him at the top of the Empire State Building, only she got hit by a taxi. And he waited and waited, and it was raining, I think. And then she’s too proud to tell him that she’s, uh, crippled. And he’s too proud to find out why she doesn’t come. But he comes to see her anyway, I forget why, but oh, oh, it’s so great when he comes to see her, because he doesn’t even notice that she doesn’t get up to say hello. And he’s very bitter and you think that he’s just going to walk out the door and never know why she’s just lying there, you know, with, on the couch, with the blanket over her shriveled legs and suddenly he goes, sold the painting and he, like, goes to the bedroom, and he looks, and he comes out, and he looks at her, and he kind-of, just, they know, and the hug and it’s so, god, I love that movie.” –Suzy

#11 Muriel’s Wedding

“When I lived in Porpoise Spit, I used to sit in my room for hours and listen to ABBA songs. But since I’ve met you and moved to Sydney, I haven’t listened to one Abba song. That’s because my life is as good as an Abba song. It’s as good as Dancing Queen.” –Muriel Heslop

#12 Down with Love

“But saying ‘I love you’ was also my plan. I just wanted to tell you the truth so that when you heard me say, ‘I love you’ you would know that I knew who you were, and you would know who I was. Then you, the great Catcher Block, would know that you’d been beaten at your own game by me, Nancy Brown, your former secretary. And I would have, once and for all, set myself apart from all the other girls you’ve known. All those other girls that you never really cared about, by making myself someone like the one person you really love and admire above all others: you! Then, when you realized that you had finally met your match, I would have, at last, gained the respect that would make you wanna marry me first and seduce me later. I just wanted you to hear all this from me before you heard it from your private eye.” –Barbara Novak

#13 You’ve Got Mail

“Dear Friend, I like to start my notes to you as if we’re already in the middle of a conversation. I pretend that we’re the oldest and dearest friends, as opposed to what we actually are, people who don’t know each other’s names and met in a chat room where we both claimed we’d never been before. What will NY152 say today I wonder. I turn on my computer, I wait impatiently as it connects. I go on-line and my breath catches in my chest until I hear three little words: You’ve got mail. I hear nothing, not even a sound on the streets of New York, just the beat of my own heart. I have mail. From you.” –Kathleen Kelly

#14 The Fault in Our Stars

“I am in love with you. And I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed, and that one day all of our labors will be returned to dust. And I know that the sun will swallow the only Earth we will ever have. And I am in love with you.” — Gus

#15 Along Came Polly

“Since we have been together I have felt more uncomfortable, out of place, embarrassed, and just physically sick than I have in my entire life. But I could not have gone through that, I could not have thrown up 19 times in 48 days if I was not in love with you.” — Reuben

#16 Stardust

“You know when I said I knew little about love? That wasn’t true. I know a lot about love. I’ve seen it, centuries and centuries of it, and it was the only thing that made watching your world bearable. All those wars. Pain, lies, hate… It made me want to turn away and never look down again. But when I see the way that mankind loves… You could search to the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know that it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and strangely easy to mistake for loathing, and…

What I’m trying to say, Tristan is… I think I love you. Is this love? I never imagined I’d know it for myself. My heart… It feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it’s trying to escape because it doesn’t belong to me any more. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I’d wish for nothing in exchange – no fits. No goods. No demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing you loved me too. Just your heart, in exchange for mine.” — Yvaine

#17 Spiderman

“The great thing about MJ is… when you look in her eyes and she’s looking back in yours… everything… feels… not quite normal. Because you feel stronger and weaker at the same time. You feel excited and at the same time, terrified. The truth is… you don’t know what you feel except you know what kind of man you want to be. It’s as if you’ve reached the unreachable and you weren’t ready for it.” – Peter Parker

#18 The Time Traveler’s Wife

“I want to tell you, again, I love you. Our love has been the thread through the labyrinth, the net under the high-wire walker, the only real thing in this strange life of mine that I could ever trust. Tonight I feel that my love for you has more density in this world than I do, myself: as though it could linger on after me and surround you, keep you, hold you.” —Audrey Niffenegger

#19 The Perks of Being a Wallflower

“I don’t know if I will have the time to write any more letters because I might be too busy trying to participate. So, if this does end up being the last letter, I just want you to know that I was in a bad place before I started high school. And you helped me. Even if you didn’t know what I was talking about. Or know someone who’s gone through it. It made me not feel alone. Because I know there are people who say all of these things don’t happen. And there are people who forget what it’s like to be 16 when they turn 17. I know these will all be stories someday. And our pictures will become old photographs. And we’ll all become somebody’s mom or dad. But right now, these moments are not stories. This is happening. I am here. And I am looking at her. And she is so beautiful. I can see it. This one moment when you know you’re not a sad story. You are alive. And as you stand up and see the lights on buildings and everything that makes you wonder. And you are listening to that song on that drive with the people you love most in this world. And in this moment, I swear… … we are infinite.” –Charlie Kelmeckis

#20 Serendipity

“I’ve always believed in fate. I’ve always believed that life is more than a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. But rather, a tapestry of events that culminate into an exquisite plan. I mean, I just spent the entire flight staring into the sky thinking. Not about my fiancé, but about this mystery guy I met a million and a half hours ago. A guy I don’t even remember except for this vague picture inside my head. It’s just a few seconds, a fragment really, and it’s like, in that moment the whole universe existed just to bring us together.

We spent only a few precious hours together and I never even gave him my last name or my phone number. Instead, I told him that if we were meant to be together, if fate meant for us to be together, we’d meet again someday. That’s why I’m here. That’s why I’m going to let fate take me anywhere it wants to go, because when all of this is over, at least I’ll never have to think of him ever again. Let’s just pray he’s a bald Fascist who picks his nose and wipes it under the car seat.” –Sara Thomas

#21 The Wedding Singer

“I want to make you smile whenever you’re sad Carry you around when your arthritis is bad All I want to do is grow old with you I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches Build you a fire if the furnace breaks Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you I’ll miss you Kiss you Give you my coat when you are cold Need you Feed you Even let you hold the remote control So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink I could be the man who grows old with you I want to grow old with you.” —Robbie

#22 Runaway Bride

“I guarantee that we’ll have tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me.” —Ike

“I don’t believe in marriage. I think at worst it’s a hostile political act, a way for small-minded men to keep women in the house and out of the way, wrapped up in the guise of traditional and conservative religious nonsense. At best, it’s a happy delusion — these two people who truly love each other and have no idea how truly miserable they’re about to make each other. But, but, when two people know that, and they decide with eyes wide open to face each other and get married anyway, then I don’t think it’s conservative or delusional. I think it’s radical, and courageous, and very romantic.”

#24 The Notebook

“Poets often describe love as an emotion that we can’t control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. That’s what it was like for me. I didn’t plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt if you planned on falling in love with me.

But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has happened only once, and that’s why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory.” —Noah

#25 The Amber Spyglass

A 2000 book by Philip Pullman and recent movie series His Dark Materials

“I’ll be looking for you, Will, every moment, every single moment. And when we do find each other again, we’ll cling together so tight that nothing and no one’ll ever tear us apart. Every atom of me and every atom of you…We’ll live in birds and flowers and dragonflies and pin trees and in clouds and in those little specks of light you see floating in sunbeams…And when they use our atoms to make new lives, they won’t just be able to take one, they’ll have to take two, one of you and one of me, we’ll be joined so tight…”

They lay side by side, hand in hand, looking at the sky.”

#26 Up in the Air

“You know, honestly by the time you’re 34, all the physical requirements just go out the window. You secretly pray that he’ll be taller than you, not an asshole would be nice just someone who enjoys my company, comes from a good family. You don’t think about that when you’re younger. Someone who wants kids, likes kids. Healthy enough to play with his kids. Please let him earn more money than I do, you might not understand that now but believe me, you will one day otherwise that’s a recipe for disaster. And hopefully, some hair on his head. I mean, that’s not even a deal breaker these days. A nice smile. Yea, a nice smile just might do it.” –Alex Goran

#27 Romeo and Juliet

“O Romeo, Romeo! wherefore art thou Romeo? Deny thy father and refuse thy name; Or, if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love, And I’ll no longer be a Capulet. ‘Tis but thy name that is my enemy; Thou art thyself, though not a Montague. What’s Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot, Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part Belonging to a man. O, be some other name! What’s in a name? that which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet; So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call’d, Retain that dear perfection which he owes Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name, And for that name which is no part of thee Take all myself.”

#28 Wuthering Heights

“I don’t think I belong in Heaven, Ellen. I dreamt once I was there. I dreamt I’m in Heaven and that Heaven didn’t seem to be my home. And I broke my heart with weeping to come back to Earth and the angels were so angry they flung me out in the middle of the heath on top of Wuthering Heights. And I woke up sobbing with joy. That’s it Ellen. I have no more business marrying Edgar Linton that I have of being in Heaven. But Ellen, Ellen, what can I do? … Who else? He sunk so low. He seems to take pleasure in being mean and brutal. And yet, he’s more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same. And Linton’s is as different as frost from fire. I once thought of living as Heathcliff. Ellen, I AM Heathcliff.” –Catherine Earnshaw Linton

#29 Bull Durham (“The Church of Baseball” Monologue)

” believe in the church of baseball. I’ve tried all the major religions and most of the minor ones. I’ve worshipped Buddha, Allah, Brahma, Vishnu, Shiva, trees, mushrooms, and Isadora Duncan. I know things. For instance, there’s one hundred and eight beads in a Catholic rosary and there’s one hundred and eight stitches in a baseball. When I learned that, I gave Jesus a chance. But it just didn’t work out between us. The Lord laid too much guilt on me. I prefer metaphysics to theology.

You see, there’s no guilt in baseball, and it’s never boring, which makes it like sex. There’s never been a ballplayer slept with me who didn’t have the best year of his career. Making love is like hitting a baseball. You just got to relax and concentrate. Besides, I’d never sleep with a player hitting under .250. Not unless he had a lot of RBIs and was a great glove man up the middle. You see, there’s a certain amount of life wisdom I give these boys. I can expand their minds. Sometimes when I get a ballplayer alone, I’ll just read Emily Dickenson or Walt Whitman to him. And the guys are so sweet, they always stay and listen. Of course, a guy will listen to anything if he thinks it’s foreplay.

I make them feel confident and they make me feel safe and pretty. ‘Course what I give them lasts a lifetime. What they give me lasts a hundred and forty two games. Sometimes it seems like a bad trade. But bad trades are part of baseball. Who can forget Frank Robinson for Milt Pappas, for God’s sake! It’s a long season, and you got to trust it. I’ve tried them all, I really have. And the only church that feeds the soul, day in, day out, is the church of baseball.” –Annie Savoy

#30 Breaking the Waves

“Bess McNeill, for many years you’ve prayed for love, should I take it away from you again, is that what you want? No, no. I’m still grateful for love. What do you want then? I pray for Jan to come home. He will be coming home in ten days. You must learn to endure, you know that! I can’t wait. This is unlike you, Bess. Out there there are people who need Jan and his work. What about them? They don’t matter. Nothing else matters. I just want Jan home again. I pray to you, oh please, won’t you send him home? Are you sure that’s what you want? Yes.”

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The Most Memorable TV and Movie Best Man Wedding Speeches of All Time

These fictional toasts are some of the most unforgettable moments in entertainment history.

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As we all know, there are many commitments  a person is required to fulfill when asked to be the best man. However, these tasks—which include organizing the bachelor party , supporting the groom during the planning stage, and holding onto the wedding rings during the ceremony—are nothing compared to the main event and final responsibility: the best man speech.

Typically a three to five-minute toast meant to honor the couple, the best man speech is not only held in high regard, but is an age-old tradition many look forward to hearing at the rehearsal dinner or reception. These speeches are so popular, in fact, that countless TV shows and movies have immortalized this one special moment in a variety of ways.

From The Office to The Hangover Part II , some of our favorite fictional characters have delivered the most memorable (and hilarious) best man wedding speeches known to mankind. And for those currently preparing to give their own toasts, we've rounded up the top seven fictional moments to help inspire your own. Whether you find inspiration for a few jokes or learn what you should absolutely not do, read on for a few wedding day speeches we're sure you'll love.

The Five-Year Engagement

This hilarious romantic comedy follows the story of Tom Solomon (Jason Segel) and Violet Barnes (Emily Blunt), an engaged couple who struggle to make it down the aisle due to several unexpected misfortunes. But once they finally get to the alter and officially say "I do," Solomon's best man, Alex Eilhauer (Chris Pratt), decides to send them off with an epic, but inappropriate, best man speech that features a PowerPoint presentation and a toast sung to the tune of "We Didn’t Start The Fire" by Billy Joel. 

The Wedding Singer

In a scene from  The Wedding Singer,  actor Steve Buscemi plays a hilarious, but completely unhinged, best man. In his special toast during the reception , Buscemi's character delivers a drunken speech that includes topics like his stint in a rehab facility, family traumas, and exposed hidden secrets. While noteworthy and highly entertaining, this movie moment is a prime example of what not to do in the real world. 

Friends (The One With Ross's Wedding: Part 2)

During Ross Geller (David Schwimmer) and Emily Waltham's (Helen Baxendale) rehearsal dinner , best men Chandler Bing (Matthew Perry) and Joey Tribbiani (Matt LeBlanc) take center stage to deliver a best man speech everyone will love. Unfortunately, they both fail. Though Chandler tries to be funny, his humor and sarcasm get lost in the crowd, which ultimately leads to an embarrassing toast. As for Joey, while his toast seemingly starts off great, the quirky character ends up going on several tangents completely unrelated to the wedding, like his love for New York City and the United States.

Four Weddings and a Funeral

Fictional best man speeches are usually those that can be categorized as catastrophic, inappropriate, and downright bad. However, in  Four Weddings and a Funeral , best man Charles, played by Hugh Grant, delivers a lovely toast filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and a focus on the couple's love for each other—the perfect recipe for a best man speech.  

The Best Man

After almost completely sabotaging his best friends' wedding, Harper Stewart (Taye Diggs) redeems himself at the reception with a graceful and thoughtful best man speech. By focusing on the couple and highlighting the unbreakable bond between husband, Lance Sullivan (Morris Chestnut), and wife, Mia Morgan (Monica Calhoun), this toast is a heartfelt wedding moment that is remembered today as one of the best toasts in movie history.

The Office (Phyllis's Wedding)

Though this speech doesn't technically fall into the best man category, given the fact that Michael Scott (Steve Carell) completely ambushed Phyllis Lapin (Phyllis Smith) and Bob Vance's (Robert R. Shafer) reception, this speech is one of the most unforgettable wedding toasts in TV history. During Scott's impromptu moment, the Dunder Mifflin regional manager blurts out a bunch of random quotes, one-liners, and cheesy jokes. And while Steve Carrell's acting is utterly flawless in this scene, real-life best men should stay away from replicating Michael Scott's approach. 

The Hangover Part II

During The Hangover Part II , Alan (Zach Galifianakis) takes the mic to give one of the most embarrassing best man speeches we've ever seen. Addressing a table of family and friends, he begins by sharing several inappropriate "fun facts", before ultimately being prompted to quickly end his toast. Once at the end, though, he wraps up his speech with information a best man should never share, such as the groom's past relationship history and a mention of their indiscretions during a trip to Las Vegas , as documented in the first Hangover movie.

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The Ultimate Guide: 100 Maid of Honor Speech Quotes to Inspire Your Perfect Wedding Toast

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May 31, 2024

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Being chosen as the maid of honor is an incredible privilege and responsibility that comes with a unique set of expectations and challenges. It’s a role that requires dedication, emotional support, and a willingness to go above and beyond for the bride during one of the most important moments of her life. **One of the most significant duties you’ll undertake as the maid of honor is delivering a memorable maid of honor speech that captures the essence of your relationship with the bride and celebrates the love she shares with her partner.** This speech is your opportunity to share heartfelt memories, funny anecdotes, and words of wisdom that will resonate with the couple and their guests, creating a lasting impression on this special day.

Whether you’re looking to add a touch of sentimentality, humor, or inspiration to your maid of honor speech , this comprehensive guide will provide you with an extensive collection of 100 maid of honor speech quotes across various categories, ensuring that you have the perfect words for every moment and emotion you wish to convey. From best friend quotes that showcase the depth of your bond with the bride to Disney quotes that add a touch of magic and whimsy to your speech, we’ve got you covered with a diverse range of options that cater to every style and personality.

Let’s dive in and explore this treasure trove of maid of honor speech quotes , carefully curated to help you craft a speech that is both memorable and meaningful. Whether you’re a seasoned public speaker or someone who gets nervous in front of a crowd, these quotes will serve as your guide and inspiration, empowering you to deliver a speech that not only celebrates the bride and groom but also showcases the unique role you play in their lives. So, let’s embark on this journey together and find the perfect words to honor the couple, share your love and support, and create a moment that will be cherished for years to come.

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• Selecting the right quote is crucial for setting the tone of your speech.
• Personalization and emotional impact are key.
• Quotes can be sourced from various categories like best friends, movies, Disney, funny, and heartfelt.
• Practice and preparation are essential for a confident delivery.
• Bridesmaid for Hire offers services to assist with speech writing and public speaking coaching.

Understanding Maid of Honor Speech Quotes

Before diving into specific quotes, it’s essential to understand what makes a quote suitable for a maid of honor speech . From capturing the essence of your relationship with the bride to resonating with the audience, a well-chosen quote can elevate your speech to new heights.

How to Pick the Right Maid of Honor Speech Quotes

Relevance to the couple.

Choosing a quote for a maid of honor speech that resonates with the couple is essential. Consider their personalities, shared experiences, and the overall theme of their relationship. Take the time to reflect on the moments that define their love story, whether it’s a memorable trip they took together, a challenge they overcame as a team, or an inside joke that never fails to make them laugh. By selecting a quote that speaks to their unique bond, you’ll be able to create a speech that feels personalized and heartfelt, showcasing the depth of your understanding and appreciation for their relationship.

When searching for the perfect quote, don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Look beyond the typical sources of inspiration, such as romantic comedies or classic love poems, and consider quotes from their favorite books, songs, or even video games. The more specific and tailored the quote is to their interests and experiences, the more impactful and memorable your speech will be.

Remember, the goal is to choose a quote that not only resonates with the couple but also helps to illustrate the love and admiration you have for them. Whether it’s a quote that captures their silly side or one that speaks to their unwavering commitment to each other, the right words can help to create a moment of connection and celebration that they’ll cherish for years to come.

Emotional Impact

The best maid of honor speech love quotes evoke emotions that resonate with the audience. They should be heartfelt and sincere, capable of touching both the couple and the guests. When selecting quotes for your speech, consider the emotional journey you want to take your listeners on. You may want to start with a quote that elicits laughter and joy, helping to break the ice and set a celebratory tone for the rest of your speech. As you move through your toast, you can gradually incorporate quotes that speak to the depth of the couple’s love, the challenges they’ve faced together, and the bright future that lies ahead of them.

It’s important to choose quotes that not only reflect the couple’s emotions but also your own. Your speech should be a genuine expression of your love and support for the bride and groom, and the quotes you select should help to convey that sincerity. Don’t be afraid to get a little choked up or to let your own emotions shine through as you share your carefully chosen words.

When crafting your speech, consider the overall emotional arc you want to create. You may want to start with a quote that speaks to the excitement and anticipation of the wedding day, then move into quotes that reflect on the couple’s past and the journey that brought them to this moment. As you near the end of your speech, you can incorporate quotes that look forward to the future, expressing your hopes and dreams for their marriage and the love that will continue to grow between them.

By carefully selecting quotes that evoke a range of emotions, from laughter to tears to hope and joy, you’ll be able to create a speech that not only honors the couple but also leaves a lasting impact on everyone in attendance.

Length and Clarity

Maid of honor speech quotes should be concise and easy to understand. Overly long or complex quotes can lose the audience’s attention and detract from the overall impact of your speech. When selecting quotes, look for those that are short, sweet, and to the point. A single sentence or even a few powerful words can often be more effective than a lengthy, rambling quote that loses its meaning halfway through.

In addition to being concise, your chosen quotes should also be clear and easy to understand. Avoid quotes that are overly obscure or that rely on insider knowledge that may be lost on some members of the audience. Instead, opt for quotes that are universally relatable and that speak to the common experiences and emotions of love, friendship, and marriage.

When incorporating quotes into your speech, be sure to provide enough context to help your listeners understand their significance. This may involve sharing a brief anecdote or explanation of why the quote is meaningful to you or the couple. By taking the time to set the stage for each quote, you’ll be able to create a cohesive and compelling narrative that keeps your audience engaged from start to finish.

As you rehearse your speech, pay attention to the length and clarity of your quotes. If a quote feels too long or convoluted, don’t be afraid to edit it down or even remove it altogether. Remember, your goal is to create a speech that is both meaningful and manageable, and sometimes less is more when it comes to incorporating quotes.

Originality

While classic quotes are always a hit, consider unique or lesser-known quotes to add a personal touch to your maid of honor speech ideas. Originality is key when it comes to creating a speech that truly stands out and reflects the unique bond you share with the couple. Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and look for quotes from unexpected sources, such as a favorite childhood book, a beloved family saying, or even a quote from a quirky TV show or movie that you and the bride both love.

When searching for original quotes, consider the couple’s shared interests and hobbies. If they’re avid travelers, you may want to look for quotes from famous explorers or travel writers. If they’re passionate about a particular cause or social issue, you could incorporate quotes from activists or thought leaders in that field. By choosing quotes that speak to the couple’s unique passions and values, you’ll be able to create a speech that feels tailored specifically to them.

Another way to add originality to your speech is to create your own quotes or put a fresh spin on a classic. If there’s a particular phrase or saying that you and the bride have shared over the years, consider incorporating it into your speech in a new and creative way. Or, take a well-known quote and add your own twist to make it more relevant to the couple and their story.

Remember, originality doesn’t have to mean reinventing the wheel. Sometimes, the most impactful quotes are those that are simple, honest, and heartfelt. Don’t be afraid to speak from the heart and share your own words of wisdom and love, even if they aren’t perfectly polished or rehearsed. Your authenticity and sincerity will shine through and make your speech all the more meaningful and memorable.

Cultural and Social Sensitivity

Ensure that the maid of honor speech quotes for sister are appropriate for the audience and do not offend any cultural or social sensibilities. When selecting quotes for your speech, it’s important to be mindful of the diverse backgrounds and beliefs of the couple and their guests. Avoid quotes that are overtly religious or political, unless you know for certain that they align with the couple’s values and would be well-received by the audience.

Similarly, steer clear of quotes that rely on stereotypes or offensive language, even if they are meant to be humorous. Remember, your goal is to create a speech that brings people together and celebrates the love and unity of the occasion, not one that divides or alienates anyone in attendance.

If you’re unsure about the appropriateness of a particular quote, don’t be afraid to run it by a trusted friend or family member for feedback. Sometimes, an outside perspective can help to identify potential red flags or sensitivity issues that you may have overlooked.

In addition to being mindful of cultural and social sensitivities, it’s also important to consider the tone and style of your speech as a whole. While it’s perfectly fine to incorporate humor and lightheartedness into your toast, be sure to balance it with moments of sincerity and heartfelt emotion. Avoid making jokes at the expense of others or relying too heavily on inside jokes that may not land with the broader audience.

Ultimately, the key to creating a speech that is both culturally and socially sensitive is to approach it with empathy, respect, and a genuine desire to celebrate the love and happiness of the couple. By choosing quotes that reflect these values and being mindful of the diverse perspectives and experiences of those in attendance, you’ll be able to craft a speech that resonates with everyone and leaves a lasting impact on this special day.

50 Maid of Honor Speech Quote Examples

Being asked to be the maid of honor is a huge honor and responsibility. One of the most important duties is delivering a heartfelt and memorable speech at the wedding reception. Whether you want to make the crowd laugh, bring a tear to everyone’s eye, or simply express your love and admiration for the bride, finding the right words can be a daunting task.

To help you craft the perfect speech, we’ve compiled a list of 50 maid of honor speech quotes. These quotes cover various themes, from friendship and love to marriage and humor, ensuring you’ll find something that resonates with you and the bride. Use these quotes to inspire your own words or incorporate them directly into your speech to add depth and emotion. Let’s dive into these quotes and make your speech one to remember!

Quotes about Friendship for Your Maid of Honor Speech

1. “A true friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” – Walter Winchell

2. “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one.’” – C.S. Lewis

3. “Good friends are like stars. You don’t always see them, but you know they’re always there.”

4. “A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.” – Elbert Hubbard

5. “Friends are the family we choose for ourselves.”

6. “A good friend knows all your stories. A best friend helped you write them.”

7. “We’ve been friends for so long, I can’t remember which one of us is the bad influence.”

8. “There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate.” – Linda Grayson

9. “Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest, it’s about who walked into your life and said, ‘I’m here for you,’ and proved it.”

10. “A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they’re not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they’re not so bad.” – Arnold H. Glasgow

Quotes about Love for Your Maid of Honor Speech

11. “Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” – Franklin P. Jones

12. “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” – Mignon McLaughlin

13. “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle

14. “True love stories never have endings.” – Richard Bach

15. “Where there is love there is life.” – Mahatma Gandhi

16. “Love is the greatest refreshment in life.” – Pablo Picasso

17. “To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” – David Viscott

18. “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” – Audrey Hepburn

19. “You don’t marry someone you can live with – you marry someone you cannot live without.”

20. “A good marriage is one where each partner secretly suspects they got the better deal.”

Quotes about Marriage for Your Maid of Honor Speech

21. “A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” – Dave Meurer

22. “Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash.” – Joyce Brothers

23. “Happiness in marriage is a moment by moment choice.” – Barbara De Angelis

24. “The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret.” – Henny Youngman

25. “Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years.” – Simone Signoret

26. “Marriage is the golden ring in a chain whose beginning is a glance and whose ending is Eternity.” – Kahlil Gibran

27. “There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.” – Martin Luther

28. “A good marriage is one where each partner secretly suspects they got the better deal.”

29. “A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.”– Robert Quillen

30. “The highest happiness on earth is the happiness of marriage.”– William Lyon Phelps

Sentimental Quotes  for Your Maid of Honor Speech

31. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” – Nicholas Sparks

32. “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.”– Maya Angelou

33. “To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow – this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”– Elizabeth Gilbert

34. “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”– Lao Tzu

35. “Love is a partnership of two unique people who bring out the very best in each other, and who know that even though they are wonderful as individuals, they are even better together.”

36. “The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.”– Helen Keller

37. “The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”– Victor Hugo

38. “Love is not only something you feel, it is something you do.”– David Wilkerson

39. “The best love is the one that makes you a better person, without changing you into someone other than yourself.”

40. “Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own.”– H. Jackson Brown Jr.

Funny Quotes for Your Maid of Honor Speech

41. “Marriage is a workshop… where husband works and wife shops.”

42. “The most important four words for a successful marriage: ‘I’ll do the dishes.'”

43. “By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”– Socrates

44. “Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right and the other is the husband.”

45. “We go together like drunk and disorderly.”

46. “Marriage: when dating goes too far.”

47. “Why do married people live longer? Because they can’t argue with their wives if they’re dead.”

48. “Marriage is a wonderful institution… but who wants to live in an institution?” – Groucho Marx

49. “Husbands and wives are irritating. But without them, who would we blame for misplacing our socks?”

50. “Love may be blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.”

Maid of Honor Speech Quotes By Category

Crafting the perfect maid of honor speech can be a daunting task, but with the right inspiration and a touch of humor, you can create a toast that will leave a lasting impression on the happy couple and their guests. Whether you’re looking for heartfelt quotes about friendship, funny one-liners about marriage, or romantic wisdom from movies and Disney classics, this collection of maid of honor speech quotes has you covered. From the poignant to the playful, these quotes will help you express your love, admiration, and best wishes for the bride and groom as they embark on their new life together. So, let’s dive in and explore some of the most memorable and meaningful quotes to include in your maid of honor speech!

Best Friend Quotes for Maid of Honor Speech

“A good friend knows all your best stories. A best friend has lived them with you.”

“Friends are the family we choose for ourselves.”

“There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.” – Thomas Aquinas

“A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.” – Elbert Hubbard

“A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.” – Bernard Meltzer

“A sweet friendship refreshes the soul.” – Proverbs 27:9

“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.” – Unknown

“In the cookie of life, friends are the chocolate chips.” – Unknown

“A friend is one who overlooks your broken fence and admires the flowers in your garden.” – Unknown

“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” – Walter Winchell

Movie Quotes for Maid of Honor Speech

“You complete me.” – Jerry Maguire

“To me, you are perfect.” – Love Actually

“After all this time? Always.” – Harry Potter

“Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without.” – Meet Joe Black

“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” – When Harry Met Sally

“I’m just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.” – Notting Hill

“You had me at hello.” – Jerry Maguire

“I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” – The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring

“I have crossed oceans of time to find you.” – Dracula

“It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.” – Good Will Hunting

Disney Quotes for Maid of Honor Speech

“Some people are worth melting for.” – Frozen

“You are my greatest adventure.” – The Incredibles

“Love is putting someone else’s needs before yours.” – Frozen

“I see the light that’s shining from your heart.” – Tangled

“True love is the greatest adventure.” – The Princess Diaries 2: Royal Engagement

“Love is a song that never ends.” – Bambi

“You are my dream come true.” – The Princess and the Frog

“A true hero isn’t measured by the size of his strength, but by the strength of his heart.” – Hercules

“Love is taking a few steps backward maybe even more to give way to the happiness of the person you love.” – Winnie the Pooh

“The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.” – Mulan

Funny Maid of Honor Speech Quotes

“Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash.” – Joyce Brothers

“A good marriage is one where each partner secretly suspects they got the better deal.” – Unknown

“Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.” – Pauline Thomason

“Marriage is like a walk in the park… Jurassic Park.” – Unknown

“Marriage is an adventure, like going to war.” – Gilbert K. Chesterton

“Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right, and the other is the husband.” – Unknown

“Marriage is not just finding the right person, but being the right person.” – Unknown

Friend Quotes for Maid of Honor Speech

Integrating quotes into your maid of honor speech speech.

Now that you have a collection of quotes to choose from, let’s look at how to seamlessly integrate them into your maid of honor speech. The key is to use quotes that flow naturally with your own words and stories, enhancing the overall impact of your message.

Introduction

Setting the Tone: Begin your speech with a quote that sets the tone and captures the essence of your relationship with the bride or the theme of the wedding. This opening quote should be carefully chosen to grab the audience’s attention and create an emotional connection from the start.

Example: “Good evening, everyone. As I stand here today, I am reminded of a quote by Thomas Aquinas: ‘There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.’ This perfectly describes my bond with [Bride’s Name], a friendship that has stood the test of time and brought us to this joyous occasion.”

Tip: Choose a quote that resonates with you personally and reflects the unique dynamic between you and the bride. This will help you deliver the quote with genuine emotion and sincerity.

Personal Anecdotes: Use quotes as a bridge to share personal stories and anecdotes that illustrate your relationship with the bride or the couple. These stories should be both engaging and relatable, allowing the audience to connect with your experiences and emotions.

Example: “Olaf from Frozen once said, ‘Some people are worth melting for.’ [Bride’s Name], you’ve always been worth melting for, from our high school adventures sneaking out to late-night diners to the countless hours we spent dreaming about our futures. Through laughter and tears, you’ve been my constant source of love and support.”

Tip: Choose anecdotes that highlight specific moments or experiences that have shaped your friendship with the bride. Use descriptive language to paint a vivid picture and transport the audience into your shared memories.

Highlighting the Couple’s Relationship: Incorporate quotes that celebrate the love and connection between the bride and groom. These quotes should underscore the unique qualities of their relationship and the reasons why they are so perfect for each other.

Example: “As Mr. Incredible said, ‘You are my greatest adventure.’ Watching [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name] together, it’s clear that their journey is just beginning, and what an incredible adventure it will be. Your love has already conquered so much, from long-distance challenges to the trials of wedding planning. Your unwavering commitment to each other is an inspiration to us all.”

Tip: Look for quotes that align with the couple’s love story, their shared values, or their plans for the future. Use these quotes to emphasize the strength and beauty of their bond, and to express your confidence in their lasting happiness together.

Ending on a Strong Note: Conclude your speech with a powerful and memorable quote that leaves a lasting impact on the audience. This final quote should encapsulate your heartfelt wishes for the couple’s future and the enduring nature of their love.

Example: “In the words of Richard Bach, ‘True love stories never have endings.’ [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], as you embark on this new chapter, know that your love story is one that will continue to be written with each passing day. May your love for each other grow stronger with every shared laugh, every challenge overcome, and every dream realized. Here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness!”

Tip: Choose a quote that reflects the tone and message you want to leave with the audience. Whether it’s a heartfelt wish, a humorous observation, or a profound truth about love, make sure it aligns with your personal style and the overall theme of your speech.

Trends and Considerations for 2024

As you plan your maid of honor speech for 2024, keep in mind the following trends and considerations to ensure your words resonate with the couple and their guests:

Personalization

In the coming years, personalization will continue to be a key focus for wedding speeches. Tailor your quotes and stories to the unique personalities, interests, and experiences of the bride and groom. This extra effort will make your speech feel more authentic and meaningful.

Example: “As [Bride’s Name]’s favorite author, Jane Austen, once wrote, ‘There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends.’ [Bride’s Name], our friendship has been a testament to this truth. From our epic book club discussions to the countless hours we’ve spent exploring local cafes in search of the perfect latte, you’ve shown me the depth and beauty of true friendship.”

Tip: Take the time to reflect on the couple’s hobbies, passions, and inside jokes. Incorporate these personal elements into your choice of quotes and anecdotes to create a speech that is uniquely tailored to their love story.

Inclusivity and Sensitivity

As weddings become increasingly diverse, it’s crucial to choose quotes that are inclusive and respectful of all cultures, backgrounds, and beliefs. Avoid any quotes that could be potentially offensive or insensitive, and strive to create a speech that celebrates love in all its forms.

Example: “Maya Angelou once said, ‘Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.’ [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], your love story is a beautiful example of this unstoppable force. You’ve overcome countless obstacles and challenges to be here today, united in love and committed to a future of inclusivity, respect, and understanding.”

Tip: Be mindful of the diverse backgrounds and experiences of the couple and their guests. Choose quotes that promote unity, acceptance, and the universal power of love. If you’re unsure about the appropriateness of a particular quote, consult with trusted friends or family members for their input.

Digital Integration

In the digital age, consider incorporating technology and social media into your maid of honor speech. Share your favorite quotes or moments from the speech on the couple’s wedding hashtag, or create a digital keepsake that the newlyweds can treasure for years to come.

Example: “As the great Bob Marley once said, ‘He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can.’ [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], your love is a beautiful reminder of this truth. And to make sure you never forget it, I’ve created a digital scrapbook filled with photos, quotes, and memories from our friendship and your love story. It’s my gift to you, a lasting reminder of the imperfectly perfect love you share.”

Tip: Explore creative ways to integrate technology into your speech, whether it’s through a heartfelt video montage, a series of social media posts, or a custom wedding app. These digital elements can help you engage with the couple and their guests in new and exciting ways, while also creating lasting memories of your speech.

How Bridesmaid for Hire Can Help:

• Overcoming Speech Anxiety : Bridesmaid for Hire can assist in speech writing and public speaking coaching, helping you deliver your maid of honor speech with confidence.
• Personalizing Your Speech : Our services include personalized speech writing, ensuring your speech is unique and tailored to the couple’s story.

Practicing Your Maid of Honor Speech

No matter how well-written your speech may be, the key to delivering it with confidence and poise is practice. Here are some tips and techniques to help you refine your delivery and manage any nerves. If you want personalized help , check this out .

Rehearsal Tips

Practice Aloud: Reading your speech out loud is one of the most effective ways to familiarize yourself with the content and flow. As you practice, pay attention to your pacing, intonation, and any areas where you stumble or lose your place.

Example: “I’ve found that practicing my speech aloud in front of a mirror has been incredibly helpful. It allows me to see how I’m coming across visually, while also giving me a chance to fine-tune my delivery. I’ll often practice a few lines at a time, focusing on my posture, eye contact, and hand gestures, until I feel confident and natural.”

Tip: Set aside dedicated time each day to practice your speech aloud. Start by breaking it down into smaller sections, and gradually work your way up to delivering the entire speech in one go. As you become more comfortable, try practicing in different locations and with various distractions to simulate the real-world environment of the wedding.

Record Yourself: Use your smartphone or camera to record yourself delivering the speech. This will give you a valuable outside perspective on your performance, allowing you to identify any areas that need improvement.

Example: “I’ve been recording myself practicing my speech on my phone, and it’s been a game-changer. Watching the playback, I noticed that I had a tendency to rush through certain parts or use filler words like ‘um’ and ‘like.’ By being aware of these habits, I’ve been able to consciously work on speaking more slowly and deliberately, which has made a huge difference in the overall impact of my words.”

Tip: As you review your recordings, make note of any sections where you seem uncertain or uncomfortable. Focus on refining these areas through additional practice and revision. You can also share your recordings with trusted friends or family members to get their feedback and suggestions for improvement.

Seek Feedback: Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or even a professional speech coach to listen to your speech and provide constructive criticism. An outside perspective can help you identify areas where you can improve your content, delivery, or overall impact.

Example: “I asked my sister to listen to me practice my maid of honor speech, and her feedback was invaluable. She pointed out that some of my jokes weren’t landing quite as well as I’d hoped and suggested ways to rephrase them for better effect. She also noticed that I had a habit of fidgeting with my hands when I got nervous, so we brainstormed some techniques to help me stay grounded and focused during the actual delivery.”

Tip: Be open to feedback and willing to make changes based on the insights you receive. Remember, the goal is to create a speech that resonates with the couple and their guests, so be receptive to suggestions that can help you achieve that objective. At the same time, trust your instincts and stay true to your personal style and voice.

Managing Nerves

Deep Breathing: Nerves are a natural part of public speaking, but there are techniques you can use to manage them effectively. One of the most simple and powerful is deep breathing.

Tip: Practice deep breathing regularly in the days leading up to the wedding, so that it becomes a familiar and comforting ritual. You can also use this technique during your speech if you feel your nerves starting to get the best of you. Take a pause, breathe deeply, and then continue with renewed calm and confidence.

Positive Visualization: Another effective way to manage nerves is through positive visualization. In the days leading up to the wedding, take some time to close your eyes and imagine yourself delivering your speech with poise, confidence, and grace.

Tip: Incorporate as many sensory details as possible into your visualization, from the feel of the microphone in your hand to the sound of your own voice resonating through the room. The more vividly you can imagine a positive experience, the more likely you are to manifest it in reality.

Focus on the Couple: Finally, remember that your speech is ultimately a celebration of the couple and their love. If you find yourself getting nervous or overwhelmed, shift your focus to the bride and groom, and the joy and happiness of the occasion.

Tip: If you find yourself getting lost or tongue-tied during your speech, don’t be afraid to pause, take a breath, and refocus your attention on the couple. A moment of sincere connection with the bride and groom can be more powerful than any perfectly memorized line or cleverly crafted quote.

By incorporating these tips and techniques into your speech preparation and delivery, you’ll be well on your way to creating a maid of honor speech that is both memorable and meaningful. Remember, the most important thing is to speak from the heart and let your love and support for the couple shine through. With a little practice, a lot of heart, and a carefully chosen collection of quotes, you’re sure to create a speech that the newlyweds will cherish for years to come.

Finalizing Your Maid of Honor Speech

After crafting your maid of honor speech, infusing it with heartfelt quotes, and personalizing it to reflect your unique relationship with the bride, it’s time to put the finishing touches on your masterpiece. The editing and refining process is crucial to ensuring that your speech flows seamlessly, captures the essence of the occasion, and leaves a lasting impact on the newlyweds and their guests.

Editing and Refining

Editing and refining your speech involves a close examination of its structure, content, and overall impact. It’s an opportunity to fine-tune your words, eliminate any awkward phrasing or redundancies, and ensure that every element of your speech works together harmoniously to convey your message.

Review for Flow and Cohesion

One of the most important aspects of editing your speech is to review it for flow and cohesion. A well-structured speech should have a clear beginning, middle, and end, with each section logically building upon the last. As you read through your speech, ask yourself:

• Does the introduction effectively capture the audience’s attention and set the tone for the rest of the speech?
• Do the main points of your speech follow a logical progression, with smooth transitions between each section?
• Does the conclusion tie everything together and leave the audience with a memorable and heartfelt message?

Example: “When I reviewed my speech for flow and cohesion, I realized that I had jumped abruptly from a humorous anecdote to a sentimental quote without providing any context or transition. By adding a brief segue, such as ‘But beneath all the laughter and jokes, there’s a deep and abiding love between [Bride’s Name] and me,’ I was able to create a more natural flow and emotional resonance.”

As you review your speech, don’t be afraid to make necessary adjustments, such as rearranging sections, cutting out irrelevant details, or adding in new material to strengthen your message. The goal is to create a cohesive narrative that engages your audience and keeps them invested in your words from start to finish.

Check for Grammar and Spelling

No matter how heartfelt or well-crafted your speech may be, grammatical errors and spelling mistakes can undermine your credibility and distract from your message. That’s why it’s essential to proofread your speech carefully, checking for any typos, misplaced punctuation, or awkward phrasing.

Example: “As I was proofreading my speech, I caught a few embarrassing mistakes, like using ‘their’ instead of ‘there’ and forgetting to put a comma before a conjunction. By taking the time to fix these errors, I felt more confident in the quality and professionalism of my speech.”

If you’re not confident in your own editing skills, consider asking a trusted friend or family member to review your speech for you. A fresh set of eyes can often catch mistakes that you may have overlooked, and they can provide valuable feedback on the clarity and impact of your words.

Read Your Speech Aloud

Another helpful technique for refining your speech is to read it aloud, paying attention to the flow and cadence of your words. Reading your speech aloud can help you identify any awkward phrasing, run-on sentences, or sections that may be difficult to deliver smoothly.

Example: “As I read my speech aloud, I realized that some of my sentences were far too long and complex, making it hard to maintain a natural rhythm and pace. By breaking them up into shorter, more concise statements, I was able to create a more engaging and impactful delivery.”

As you read your speech aloud, try to imagine yourself delivering it in front of an audience. Pay attention to your breathing, pacing, and emphasis, and make note of any sections that feel particularly powerful or moving. This can help you refine your delivery and ensure that your words have the maximum impact on your listeners.

Practice, Practice, Practice

Once you’ve refined your speech and feel confident in its content and structure, it’s time to focus on the most important aspect of speechmaking: practice. The more you practice your speech, the more comfortable and confident you’ll feel when it comes time to deliver it in front of an audience.

Set Aside Dedicated Practice Time

To ensure that you have ample time to practice your speech, set aside dedicated blocks of time in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding. Aim to practice your speech at least once a day, gradually increasing the frequency as the big day approaches.

Example: “I knew that I wanted to feel fully prepared and confident when delivering my maid of honor speech, so I set aside 30 minutes every evening to practice. As the wedding grew closer, I increased my practice sessions to twice a day, once in the morning and once before bed.”

When scheduling your practice time, try to choose a quiet, distraction-free environment where you can focus solely on your speech. This may mean finding a private room, heading to a nearby park, or even practicing in your car during your commute.

Practice in Front of an Audience

While practicing your speech alone is essential, it’s also valuable to practice in front of an audience. This can help you get a feel for how your words will land with listeners and give you an opportunity to receive feedback and suggestions for improvement.

Example: “A week before the wedding, I invited my family over for dinner and asked them to listen to my maid of honor speech. They provided some great insights, like suggesting I slow down during the more emotional parts and add a bit more humor to lighten the mood. Their feedback helped me refine my delivery and feel more prepared for the actual event.”

When practicing in front of an audience, try to simulate the actual conditions of the wedding as closely as possible. Stand up, hold a microphone (or a prop to represent one), and make eye contact with your listeners. The more realistic your practice sessions, the more comfortable and confident you’ll feel when it’s time to deliver your speech for real.

Record and Review Your Progress

As you practice your speech, consider recording yourself using a smartphone or camera. Watching a recording of your speech can give you valuable insights into your delivery, body language, and overall presence.

Example: “I recorded myself practicing my speech and was surprised to see how often I fidgeted with my hands or shifted my weight from foot to foot. By being aware of these nervous habits, I was able to consciously work on standing still and using more purposeful gestures to enhance my message.”

As you review your recordings, make note of any areas that need improvement, such as speaking too quickly, mumbling, or failing to make eye contact with your audience. Use these insights to inform your future practice sessions and continuously refine your delivery.

Remember, the goal of practicing your speech is not to memorize it word for word, but rather to internalize its key messages and develop a natural, conversational delivery style. The more you practice, the more confident and self-assured you’ll feel, allowing you to focus on connecting with your audience and conveying the heartfelt emotions behind your words.

Final Thoughts

Finalizing your maid of honor speech is a process that requires time, effort, and dedication. By carefully editing and refining your words, practicing your delivery, and staying true to the heartfelt sentiments you wish to express, you’ll be able to create a speech that not only honors the newlyweds but also reflects the unique bond you share with the bride.

As you put the finishing touches on your speech, remember that the most important thing is to speak from the heart and let your love and support for the couple shine through. Whether you choose to incorporate humor, sentiment, or a mix of both, the sincerity of your words and the depth of your emotions will be what resonates most with your audience.

So take a deep breath, trust in the preparation you’ve put in, and know that you have everything you need to deliver a maid of honor speech that will be remembered and cherished for years to come. Your words have the power to uplift, inspire, and celebrate the beautiful love story unfolding before you, and that is truly a gift beyond measure.

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Addressing Common Pain Points

To recap, here are the key takeaways from this guide on maid of honor speech quotes :

• Personalization and emotional impact are key when choosing quotes.
• Seamlessly integrate quotes into the introduction, body, and conclusion of your speech.

Crafting the perfect maid of honor speech involves careful selection of quotes, personalization, and practice. By considering relevance, emotional impact, length, originality, and cultural sensitivity, you can create a speech that resonates with everyone present. Leveraging the resources and services offered by Bridesmaid for Hire can further enhance your preparation and delivery, ensuring you honor the couple in the best possible way.

And there you have it – 100 inspiring maid of honor speech quotes to elevate your wedding toast. Whether you opt for sentimental, humorous, or heartfelt quotes, remember that your words are a celebration of the couple’s love and your cherished bond with the bride. So take a deep breath, speak from the heart, and let your love and joy shine through. Cheers to the happy couple and to your amazing role in their special day!

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32 Timelessly Funny Quotes From Clue

Grab a beverage and enjoy these quotes (not the cognac... just in case.)

No matter how many times I watch Clue , the 1985 mystery-comedy never fails to entertain. Not only is it one of the best mystery movies of all time, it’s also one of the best 1980s movies to be made in the decade that gave us so many great films. With its memorable characters and excellent ending (or three endings , technically), Clue delivers moment after moment of greatness, and more than a handful of memorable quotes that have stood the test of time. Here are some of our all-time favorites. 

And to be clear, this article is brimming with spoilers , so if you’ve somehow wandered in here not having seen the movie, we suggest you head off to watch it before reading ahead! 

“Sit!… No, not you sir.” - Wadsworth

The start of the movie wastes no time in introducing us to the characters. That includes Tim Curry as Wadsworth, a man whose commands must be obeyed, as evidenced by the way Mr. Green (Michael McKean) immediately sits when Wadsworth gives the order (to the dogs, but Mr. Green must have missed that). 

“I’m afraid I’m a little bit accident prone.”

The ultimate understatement comes from Mr. Green, whose self-described accident proneness is demonstrated numerous times in the film. 

“Oh please, I’ve never heard anything so ridiculous, I mean nobody could blackmail me, my life is an open book, I’ve never done anything wrong.” Mrs. Peacock

Once it comes time to discuss why everyone has been brought to this house, Mrs. Peacock (Eileen Brennan) is quick to deny any allegations that she could possibly be blackmailed. Too quick, in fact. Her protestations are brimming with desperation. 

“Are you trying to make me look stupid in front of the other guests?” - Col. Mustard - “You don’t need any help from me.” - Wadsworth - “That’s right!” - Col. Mustard

Colonel Mustard (Martin Mull) will not have anyone trying to make him look stupid. As Wadsworth astutely points out, the man needs no help from his peers. The fact that Mustard agrees proves that point. 

“Why would he want to kill you in public?” - Miss Scarlet - “I think she meant he threatened, in public, to kill her.” - Wadsworth

Grammar matters, as demonstrated by Mrs. White (Madeline Kahn) when she tells the room that her husband once threatened to kill her, in public. Of course, Miss Scarlet (Lesley Ann Warren) needed clarification because that makes no sense. Wadsworth eye-roll as he clarifies by restructuring the sentence is priceless. 

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“Your second husband also disappeared.” - “Well, that was his job. He was an illusionist.” - Mrs. White “He never re-appeared.” - “He wasn’t’ a very good illusionist.”

Mrs White has an answer for everything, especially when she's being grilled about the mysterious deaths of her husbands, one of whom was an — apparently not very good — illusionist, who somehow managed to “disappear” and never return. 

“There is safety in numbers… my dear.” - Col Mustard

Surely nothing puts a distressed person more at ease than by being told there is safety in numbers while those numbers clearly include at least one murderer… oh, and also when the words are said by a man wielding a very large wrench. It's understandable why Yvette would be reluctant to join the group, though being alone in a room in this house doesn't guarantee safety either.  

“I didn’t do it!” - Mr. Green

There are more than a few protestations and denials throughout the movie, but none repeated as many times as Mr. Green’s instance that he did not do it. Any of it. (And technically, factoring in all three endings of the movie, he’s the only person who can truthfully say that). 

“If I was the killer, I would kill you next.” -- Col. Mustard

Colonel Mustard really just says whatever is on his mind, but given just how many accusations of murder are flying around, it seems like a bad idea to toss any kind of murderous hypothetical into the mix. As in, maybe don't start sentences with "if I was the killer" and end that same sentence with a death threat. And yet, that's exactly what he does when the conversation gets heated.

“Nobody. No body. That’s what we mean. Mr. Boddy’s body, it’s gone.” - Wadsworth

The fact that Mr. Boddy’s (Lee Ving) name sounds like “body” makes for some fun wordplay throughout the movie, particularly when Mr. Boddy ends up unfortunately becoming one of the bodies. And then when Mr. Boddy's body temporarily goes missing, things get even more confusing. 

“I’m not shouting! All right, I am. I’m shouting! I’m shouting I’m shouting I’m shouting!” - Wadsworth

Denial is a recurring theme throughout Clue , which makes Wadsworth's denial and then swift admission that he is, in fact, shouting all the funnier. And then the candlestick perched atop a doorframe falls on his head. 

“Just checking.” - Col. Mustard — “Everything all right?” Mrs. Peacock — Yup. Two corpses, everything’s fine.” Col. Mustard

It’s at this point in the movie that it's pretty evident that the shock of the murders has worn off a bit for these guests. It's also clear that the characters have entered a new level of chaos as it's now evidently necessary to double-check that the right number of bodies are still where they were last seen, because sometimes they aren't.  

“This is war, Peacock! Casualties are inevitable. You can not make an omelet without breaking eggs, every cook will tell you that.” Col. Mustard - “But look what happened to the cook!” - Mrs. Peacock

As conversations about what’s happening escalate, Col. Mustard tries to take control of the situation by comparing this whole situation to a war. Unfortunately for him and the point he's trying to make, Mrs. Peacock's attention will not be drawn away from what’s right in front of their faces. If you’re going to bring up omelets, she’s going to point out that the cook is one of the night’s recent victims. 

“Let us in, let us in!” — “Let us out, let us out!”

In a moment of panic, Col. Mustard and Miss Scarlet are desperate to escape a locked room — one they entered through a secret passage, but they seem to have forgotten that — and on the other side of the door the other guests are desperate to get in. 

“Not the cognac… just in case.” - Wadsworth

There’s nothing more ominous than being offered to help yourself to a drink, but then quickly being told to avoid the cognac “just in case," with no further explanation. But Wadsworth has every reason to be cautious, given the events of the night at this point.

“He won’t be driving home, officer, I can promise you that.” - Professor Plum

When the police officer (Bill Henderson) makes the rounds to inspect the party taking place inside the house, he comes upon one guest who's really not in any condition to operate a vehicle. Professor Plum ( Christopher Lloyd ) isn’t lying when he tells the cop that the motorist (Jeffrey Kramer) will not be driving home in his condition… considering his condition is dead. 

“I am your singing telegram!”

Though I didn’t actually time it, I’m pretty sure the singing telegram girl (Jane Wiedlin) gets the least amount of screen time of any of the victims in this movie. She only manages to get one line in, in the form of the introduction to her song, before she’s shot dead at the entrance of the front door. 

“This is getting serious.” -Wadsworth

The number of victims has really begun to add up at this point in the night, and yet, as ridiculous as it is that Wadsworth feels the need to point out that now, after so many things have already happened, things are getting serious, the truth is, nothing in this movie is serious and it’s perfection for that very reason. 

“Will you stop that!” - Mr. Green - “No.” Wadsworth

Mr. Green puts up with a lot throughout the movie, but he loses his patience when Wadsworth keeps physically involving him in his reenactment of the night’s events. What’s even funnier is Wadsworth’s refusal to stop when Mr. Green demands him to. 

“Oh, whoever it is, they gotta go away or they’ll be killed!” - Mrs. Peacock

Mrs. Peacock isn’t kidding. As though she’s the first person to realize the pattern of murder that’s transpired up to that point, she just can’t handle it when one more person rings the doorbell. But she’s not wrong, statistically speaking.

“Our lives are in danger, ya beatnik!” - Mrs. Peacock

Mrs. Peacock has no time to deal with the man at the door (Howard Hessman) who seems to have their souls’ interests at heart. Also, she calls him a beatnik. 

“One plus two plus two plus one.” Wadsworth

Math proves to be very important in the final act of the movie as Wadsworth attempts to prove there are no bullets left in the gun. The back and forth of counting is just one more bit of comic relief in what otherwise might’ve been a tense moment. 

“Is that what we ate?” - Mr. Green

Never mind that Wadsworth is in the midst of revealing whodunit, Mr. Green can not stomach the fact that they were eating monkey’s brain at dinner earlier. 

“Is the FBI in the habit of cleaning up after multiple murder?” -- Professor Plum — “Yes. Why do you think it’s run by a man called Hoover?” -- Wadsworth

Sure, Professor Plum didn’t mean literally “cleaning up” murder scenes, but a vacuum would probably come in handy at this point in the night, right?

“But here’s what really happened.”

One of the things that makes Clue a brilliant movie is its ending, which actually has three endings, each of which has Wadsworth breaking down a different way than the murders happened. The third scenario is the one the movie says really happened, which puts the blame on almost everyone (still alive) at the dinner party — Mr. Green being the lone exception. 

“I hated her so much. Flames-FLAMES on the side of my face…” Mrs. White

Nothing displays pure rage more clearly than the way Mrs. White fails to find the right words and can only speak of the “flames” on the side of her face that she felt in the presence of the late Yvette (Colleen Camp). Her hand gestures to emphasize the point are the cherry on top. 

“I told you I didn’t do it.” Mr. Green

He did tell them numerous times that he didn’t do it, and it turns out, Mr. Green was right. As we learn in all three of the ending scenarios, Mr. Green really didn't do it. 

“Don’t you touch me!” - Mrs. Peacock

This is one of the more underrated moments of hilarity in Clue , in my opinion. Mrs. Peacock is searching the cellar when she bumps into the boiler and promptly starts hitting it with her purse as though it attacked her. 

“I didn’t know it was that free!” - Wadsworth

In a moment of misunderstanding, Wadsworth thinks the cop has seen the bodies (which technically he has), but the cop has been duped into believing this is just a party with people getting cozy with one another. And he makes it clear that he's just fine with everything he's seen. 

“I’ll catch her. Fall into my arms!… Sorry…” Wadsworth

It’s in this moment that we learn we really shouldn’t trust Wadsworth. He seemingly rushes to stop Mrs. Peacock from falling to the floor, but his efforts to actually do it are kind of lacking, which leads to her slumping to the floor. 

“Unless… unless she dies too…” Mr. Green

What’s worse than thinking you might’ve drunk poison? Maybe having a bunch of people stare at you just to see if you die. 

“I buttle sir.” - Wadsworth

Well, if we ever wondered what a Buttler does, Wadsworth answers that question fairly simply. He buttles. 

And these are just some of our favorite quotes from the movie Clue ! Of course, there are so many other moments of hilarity throughout the film, whether it's a facial expression or some excellent physical comedy, not a scene is wasted. 

Kelly joined CinemaBlend as a freelance TV news writer in 2006 and went on to serve as the site’s TV Editor before moving over to other roles on the site. At present, she’s an Assistant Managing Editor who spends much of her time brainstorming and editing feature content on the site. She an expert in all things Harry Potter, books from a variety of genres (sci-fi, mystery, horror, YA, drama, romance -- anything with a great story and interesting characters.), watching Big Brother, frequently rewatching The Office, listening to Taylor Swift, and playing The Sims. 

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