(e.g., zero-tolerance)
Note: Common features of zero tolerance interventions abridged from published descriptions of programs ( American Psychological Association Zero Tolerance Task Force, 2008; Heitzeg, 2009 )
We argue that many universal school-based preventative interventions, both in what they say and how they say it , insufficiently honor adolescents’ desire to feel respected and accorded status. This can make the interventions less effective.
What might ineffective interventions be saying that conflicts with adolescents’ desire to feel respected and high status? Traditional interventions often focus on providing knowledge or self-regulation skills with the intent of suppressing short-term desires for the sake of long-term goals. In doing so, these interventions may ignore or fight against the powerful reasons why adolescents are engaging in the “problem” behavior in the first place (for a related argument see Ellis et al., 2012 ).
Recall the ineffective anti-bullying interventions for adolescents ( Yeager et al., 2015 ). Why do adolescents bully? It is not always because they fail to understand aggression hurts others, or because they categorically lack self-control. Although deficits in social and cognitive skills predict greater bullying in childhood, as expected, the same is not true for high school students (for meta-analytic evidence see Cook, Williams, Guerra, Kim, & Sadek, 2010 ). Middle adolescents often bully to gain or demonstrate social status ( Pellegrini & Long, 2002 ). Moderate-to-highly popular youth—who often have sufficient self-regulatory skills and knowledge of societal norms about aggression, but also have the requisite social competence to strategically undermine others’ reputations—often bully the most ( Faris & Felmlee, 2011 ; see Yeager et al., 2015 for a review). Hence traditional interventions that enhance social and cognitive skills among middle adolescents are not always addressing the underlying motivation—a desire to gain or demonstrate social reputation—and may even be increasing the social skills young people need to bully more effectively.
How do traditional interventions deliver their messages, and how might these modes of delivery be problematic? Heavy-handed methods of instruction— lectures, assemblies, homework—may backfire even when they are disseminating relevant information. Many adolescents are already aware that risky behaviors are bad for their health (for a review see Reyna & Farley, 2006 ). Imparting information adolescents feel they already have, repeatedly over multiple sessions and in multiple forms, may come across as infantilizing and therefore disrespectful.
We note that research has not definitively shown that how an intervention presents its message—its format or tenor—can threaten status or respect and undermine behavior change. However, research has shown that adult-delivered messages that come across as nagging can affect relevant adolescent brain activity. One study found that maternal nagging activating anger-related regions and reducing activity in regions related to planning how to change behavior ( Lee et al., 2014 ).
Furthermore, skill-building programs that require high school students to risk social status to participate can reduce use of the program—even when adolescents know that the skills are useful for their long-term goals. For instance, one field experiment made an SAT-prep course seem low-status. That decreased signups for the free course, even though students believed te course was helpful and knew that high SAT scores were critical for college admission and long-term success ( Bursztyn & Jensen, 2015 ).
Finally, Allen, Philliber, and Herre (1994) showed that adolescents’ reports that an intervention supported their feelings of autonomy—a key contributor to feelings of respect and status in adolescence—moderated the efficacy of a school-based preventative intervention on outcomes such as course failures, suspensions, and pregnancy. Adolescents benefitted less when they said that they felt “like the facilitator makes all the decisions” and “the facilitator doesn’t listen to things they say,” but stronger benefits when they said that they got “to help decide what the group will do” and that the “facilitator really listens to things they say” ( Allen et al., 1994 ).
Last, we argue that it may be possible to capitalize on adolescents’ sensitivity to status and respect and redirect it toward positive behavior change.
Imagine interventions that make a young person feel that he or she is worthy of respect and is admired by others. Such interventions would treat young people as though they have worthwhile knowledge, as though they have the ability to exercise their agency in life, and as though they have the potential to make a contribution and be of value to the group. Perhaps even time-limited exposures to such feelings of status and respect could, during this sensitized period of adolescence, be enough to start a meaningful change in behavior. In the remainder of the paper, we discuss various methods to move programs closer to achieving this possibility.
We present concrete examples of interventions that, in various ways, were sensitive to adolescents’ desire for status and respect. These illustrate three different approaches:
This list is illustrative, not exhaustive. Examples come from the domains of unhealthy snacking, school discipline, and aggression. All of the interventions were evaluated with participants who were between the second semester of 7 th grade and the second semester of 10 th grade, which is the age range during which traditional interventions lose effectiveness, on average.
Since these represent relatively new approaches, the interventions are more limited in scope and the data are usually from shorter-term demonstrations of efficacy (sometimes one day to a few weeks). However, each case we present shows initial promise, speaks to the theoretical model proposed here, and includes evidence of mechanisms. Therefore each may serve as a guide for the development or improvement of future interventions.
The examples come primarily from studies that we or our colleagues conducted, because we know them intimately and, more importantly, because they included measures of our proposed mechanisms. However, many other examples could have illustrated similar points, most notably in the domain of academic achievement ( J. M. Aronson, Fried, & Good, 2002 ; Blackwell, Trzesniewski, & Dweck, 2007 ; Cohen, Garcia, Purdie-Vaughns, Apfel, & Brzustoski, 2009 ; Destin & Oyserman, 2009 ; Eskreis-Winkler et al., 2016 ; Gehlbach et al., 2016 ; Good, Aronson, & Inzlicht, 2003 ; Hulleman & Harackiewicz, 2009 ; Paluck & Shepherd, 2012 ; D. K. Sherman et al., 2013 ; Stephens, Fryberg, Markus, Johnson, & Covarrubias, 2012 ; for a review see Wilson, 2011 ).
Finally, each of the interventions reviewed in detail required relatively little time for participants to complete. This does not mean that they took relatively little time to develop ; R&D can last several years and involve thousands of participants (e.g., Yeager, Romero, et al., 2016) . Nor does the brevity of the interventions we highlight mean that longer and more comprehensive interventions cannot be attuned to the adolescent desire for status and respect. We review successful, longer interventions after the three cases.
Can the adolescent desire for status and respect be harnessed and put to use in the service of healthy behavior? Bryan, Yeager, and colleagues (2016) recently developed a behavioral approach to reduce junk food snacking among 8 th grade students. Bryan et al. (2016) began with the presumption that, for many adolescents, healthy eating is construed as low status—for instance, adolescents may believe that “healthy eaters are lame nerds who do what their parents tell them .” To combat this, Bryan et al. (2016) sought to re-define what it meant to be a healthy eater so that it had greater social-status appeal, by creating the impression that “ healthy eaters are independent-minded people who make the world a better place .”
What did the intervention say to make healthier eating seem “high-status”? The Bryan et al. intervention took the form of an exposé of industry practices (see the right column in Table 1 ). It used journalistic accounts (e.g., Moss, 2013 ) to describe how food companies pay scientists to make junk food addictive to children’s brains; how companies hired former tobacco executives to use cartoons to market the food to children so they could become addicted; and how food executives themselves will not eat the junk food or let their children eat it, making them hypocrites.
Programs to Promote Healthy Eating
Common features of traditional interventions | An intervention that harnesses the desire for status and respect | |
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Note: Common features of traditional interventions abridged from descriptions of materials often disseminated in schools ( Let’s Move, 2017 ) or described in past meta-analyses ( Stice et al., 2006 ).
Hence, the intervention led to the conclusion that people who buy junk food are giving money to executives who are disrespecting young people by thinking they will not stand up for themselves. Viewed from this perspective, being the kind of person who stands up to these executives by eschewing junk food is status-enhancing—it allows one to join a social movement and it affords the chance to demonstrate one’s competence and mastery over adult authorities.
The Bryan et al. (2016) approach was inspired in part by the “truth® ” anti-smoking campaign ( Farrelly et al., 2002 ; Farrelly, Davis, Haviland, Messeri, & Healton, 2005 ; Henriksen, Dauphinee, Wang, & Fortmann, 2006 ). In the truth® campaign, television advertisements depicted rebellious, autonomous adolescents flooding the streets, screaming into megaphones at rich, old tobacco executives in high-rise buildings in Manhattan, telling them to “take a day off” from tricking and harming children for the sake of profit. This harnessed the desire for status and respect. In an evaluation study, teens exposed to the truth® campaign said “not smoking is a way to express independence” and disagreed that “smoking makes people your age look cool” ( Farrelly, Davis, Duke, & Messeri, 2009 ). In a policy evaluation study, the truth® campaign was estimated to have prevented 450,000 adolescents from initiating smoking ( Farrelly, Nonnemaker, Davis, & Hussin, 2009 ).
How did the Bryan et al. (2016) intervention convey its message? It used now-common methods for social-psychological interventions, which, in retrospect, appear to offer respect and high status ( Cohen, Garcia, & Goyer, 2017 ; Cohen & Sherman, 2014 ; Walton, 2014 ; Yeager & Walton, 2011 ). These social-psychological intervention methods do not “tell” adolescents what to do and not do, so much as they invite adolescents to “discover” the meaning of the messages for their own lives, honoring adolescents’ expectation that they not be treated as child-like.
For instance, the Bryan et al. (2016) exposé article takes the form of a news article that the food industry does not want you to read—giving it an illicit status. Next, adolescents, after reading the article, read quotes from irate, high-status older adolescents (e.g., high school football players) who previously read the article and vowed not to eat junk food out of protest. This capitalizes on the psychology of descriptive norms —or the notion that individuals may conform to the choices of relevant others when presented with consensus information about their behaviors ( Cialdini, 2003 ). Descriptive norms directly influence adolescents’ willingness to conform to behavior, especially when norms come from high-status peers (see Helms et al., 2014 ).
Adolescents were next asked to author a letter to a future student (i.e. to engage in self-persuasion ), in which participants explained how they planned on rebelling against the food companies by eating healthy food and avoiding junk food (for a review of self-persuasion see E. Aronson, 1999 ). First, self-persuasion respects a person’s potential for personal agency—the prompts do not say “you have to believe this” but rather “would you mind choosing to write an argument for why someone might want to believe this?” (cf. Vansteenkiste et al., 2004 ). Second, self-persuasion respects a person’s competence—it implies “you have wisdom and experience to share with a peer that we adults may not have,” as opposed to “we know the facts and you do not.” Third, self-persuasion respects a person’s purpose and value to the group, by allowing adolescents to engage in a prosocial act of helping future students learn important information.
Bryan et al. (2016) call the exposé article a “values-harnessing” treatment. It showed efficacy in an initial, double-blind, randomized, behavioral experiment with over 450 8 th grade students ( Bryan et al., 2016 ). The evaluation involved two control conditions: a no-treatment control, and a traditional healthy eating control that used materials from contemporary government anti-obesity efforts (i.e., choosemyplate.org) and appealed to the long-term benefits of eating healthy (See Table 1 ). All conditions included self-administered reading and writing exercises, lasted approximately 30 minutes, were randomized at the student level, and were administered in sealed, individualized packets during class.
The key behavioral outcome was measured the next day. The principal announced that the entire 8 th grade class would get a “snack pack,” and students received a menu that had healthy food options (fruit, nuts, water) and unhealthy food options (Hot Cheetos, Oreos, Coca-Cola), as a reward for good behavior during state testing.
The Bryan et al. (2016) values-harnessing treatment reduced the total sugar content of the selections by 3.6 grams, or 9% ( d =.20) compared to the two control conditions, which did not differ. More importantly for the framework advanced here, a mediational analysis showed that the values-harnessing treatment caused adolescents to construe healthy eating as more aligned with the desire for status and respect. The treatment increased the social-status appeal of the healthy behavior (“I respect healthy eaters more than unhealthy eaters”), and this mediated the effects of the treatment on behavior ( Figure 2 ).
Source: Bryan et al. (2016) . c path above the line is the unconditional direct effect; the path below the line is the c ’ path in a model that accounts for the effect of the mediator.
The Bryan et al. (2016) values-harnessing intervention is, of course, not the whole solution to adolescent obesity. The follow-up was only one day post-intervention, and the intervention would mostly likely need to be coupled with programs to increase the availability of healthy foods, especially in low-income communities. Instead, the Bryan et al. (2016) approach is an early-stage investigation that helps develop theory. It illustrates one way that adolescents’ prioritization of status and respect-relevant learning can be harnessed for positive change. This approach may well prove useful in other domains of health behavior.
The values-harnessing approach tries to make adolescents more aware of how some adults were disrespecting them, and then channel the resulting feelings into positive behavior change. A second approach is to change the environment and reduce adolescents’ experiences of being disrespected by the adults around them, which can engender greater adherence with rules and procedures. Our second case focuses on methods to address discipline infractions, with particular attention to disparities in the rates at which Latina/o or African-American youth are disciplined compared to their white or Asian peers (see Carter, Fine, & Russell, 2014 ; Crenshaw, Ocen, & Nanda, 2015 ; Losen, 2014 ; Okonofua, Walton, & Eberhardt, in press ; Tyler, Goff, & MacCoun, 2015 ).
Intuitively, school discipline problems might be solved by creating strong threats to deter deviant behavior in school (i.e. zero-tolerance policies; see the left column of Table 2 ). This “zero tolerance” approach, however, has produced very few benefits in numerous evaluations. In some cases, zero tolerance has increased racial disparities, perhaps by licensing authorities to rely on stereotypes when doling out harsh punishments ( American Psychological Association Zero Tolerance Task Force, 2008 ; Heitzeg, 2009 ).
An alternative approach stems from the possibility that disparities in discipline infractions are the result, in part, of daily experiences of disrespect that come from being targeted by stigma and stereotypes ( Okonofua et al., in press ). When individuals are disrespected by authorities, they perceive it to be unjust (see Miller, 2001 ). When individuals perceive injustice, it undermines the legitimacy of an institutional authority and erodes a willingness to comply (see Tyler, 1990 ).
A potential method to recuce school discipline problems among adolescents, then, is to make the environment more respectful (for a related argument in criminology, see Tyler, 2006 ). Recall that programs that implement restorative justice —or the tendency to work collaboratively with a young person to repair relationships and reputation after carrying out an offense, such as through conferences or victim-offender mediation. These were among the only traditional programs to reduce recidivism in the juvenile justice system ( Gregory, Clawson, Davis, & Gerewitz, 2014 ; Schwalbe et al., 2012 ). Restorative justice interventions honor young people’s ability to self-govern and they presume their good intentions, perhaps creating an experience of respect and encouraging to rule-following.
In a similar spirit, two studies, reviewed in detail here, illustrate how adults might create respectful environments in schools and how these environments can reduce the prevalence of disciplinary infractions. First, Okonofua, Paunesku, and Walton (2016) evaluated an intervention for middle school that was designed to change teachers’ beliefs about discipline— that discipline should be empathic, not “zero tolerance.” Treated teachers were encouraged to see students’ subjective psychologies—students’ “back-stories” for their misbehavior—and try to find other ways to help students meet their goals of doing well and being happy in school.
The Okonofua et al. (2016) empathy training intervention took roughly 30 minutes for teachers to complete and was evaluated in a randomized trial with roughly 35 teachers and 1,200 students. Official records showed that sudents who took a class with treated teachers showed half as many suspensions in school (from 9% of students to 4.5%), and effects generalized beyond the class with the treated teacher. Supporting the model proposed here, previously-suspended students reported that their classrooms were now more respectful when they had a teacher who completed the empathy intervention. That is, students responded to greater respect by following school rules and meriting fewer suspensions (also see Gregory et al., 2016 ).
Second, Yeager and colleagues (2014 ; 2017) have tested the hypothesis that an intervention to make an academic interaction with a teacher feel more respectful can reduce disciplinary infractions, even without directly targeting students’ misbehavior or teachers’ views of students’ misbehavior. Cohen and colleagues (1999) developed a technique called “wise feedback” (see Goffman, 1963 ), in which an authority figure justifies critical feedback on someone’s work with an appeal to high standards (conveying respect for one’s competence by setting a high bar), accompanied by an assurance of one’s potential to reach the high standards (conveying respect for one’s competence by implying that one can improve and develop) (see Lepper & Woolverton, 2002 ; Treisman, 1992 ; see also research on natural mentors, Hurd, Sánchez, Zimmerman, & Caldwell, 2012) .
Yeager, Purdie-Vaughns, Garcia, and Cohen evaluated wise feedback in late middle school using a small-sample, double-blind field experiment in two consecutive cohorts of white and African-American youth ( Yeager, Purdie-Vaughns, et al., 2014; 2017 ). Students nearing the end of 7 th grade wrote first-draft essays that were critiqued by their social studies teachers, all of whom were white. When essays were returned, they were accompanied by randomly-assigned notes, hand-written in advance by their teachers. Half received a control note (“I’m giving you these comments so that you’ll have feedback on your paper”) and half received a wise feedback note (“I’m giving you these comments because I have very high expectations and I know that you can reach them”).
Yeager et al. (2014) expected that wise feedback would be most effective for African-American youth, who, surveys showed, were more likely to have experienced disrespect as a result of either negative stereotypes and to have been subjected to inequitable discipline, relative to their white peers. The experiment was replicated across two cohorts in the same classrooms. In the first cohort ( N =44), the randomly-assigned wise feedback note, as compared to the control note, increased African-American students’ willingness to revise the essay from 17% to 72% (covariate-adjusted values; Yeager, Purdie-Vaughns, et al., 2014 , Study 1). In the second cohort ( N =44, Study 2), the note increased the scores on the revisions, when everyone was required to revise. In both cohorts, treatment effects were small and non-significant for white students. Supporting our model, the wise feedback note most strongly changed behavior and feelings of being respected by teachers in general among those African-American students who over the previous two years had felt disrespected—i.e., who repeatedly disagreed that “teachers and other adults treat me with respect” ( Yeager et al. 2014 ).
Critically, Yeager et al. (2017) next found that, over a year later, the wise feedback note resulted in a reduction in discipline problems for African-American students, even though students had moved on from the teachers who delivered the wise feedback. That is, averaging across the two cohorts, African-American students in the group who received the wise feedback note in the spring of 7 th grade showed fewer 8 th grade discipline incidents across all classes, halving the discipline gap ( Yeager, Purdie-Vaughns, Hooper, & Cohen, 2017 ). As in the short-term results, there were no benefits for white students, who were also far less likely to be disciplined. See Figure 3 .
Source: Yeager, Purdie-Vaughns, Hooper, & Cohen (2017) .
The Okonofua et al. (2016) and Yeager et al. (2017) studies illustrate a few points about adolescent behavior change. First, it is not always necessary to stoke the fire of reactance to achieve adolescent behavior change, as was done in the values-harnessing healthy eating treatment ( Bryan et al., 2016 ) or the truth® campaign ( Farrelly et al., 2005 ). A credible show of dignity and respect, during a period of status-sensitivity, dampened adolescents’ feelings of being disrespected by authorities.
Second, the research in this section highlights the importance of relationships with adults , not only peers (also see research on natural mentors; Hurd et al., 2012 ). Some research has rightly emphasized adolescents’ heightened concern with peers ( Chein, Albert, O’Brien, Uckert, & Steinberg, 2011 ; Crosnoe & McNeely, 2008 ; Larson & Richards, 1991 ), and adolescents’ tendency to ignore adults’ requests to change behavior ( Lee, Siegle, Dahl, Hooley, & Silk, 2014 ). However, adolescents also value the opinions of respected adults and willingly comply under the right conditions ( Engelmann, Moore, Capra, & Berns, 2012 ). Said another way, going through the peer group is not the only way to improve adolescent behavior. Relationships with valued adults can be transformative for young people as well (also see Allen, Moore, & Kuperminc, 1997 ).
Sometimes it will not be possible to use these first two methods (values-harnessing or changing environments), and so a third approach may be useful: lessening the influence of threats to status and respect by changing mindsets. Adolescents should not be oblivious to social threats, of course, but they may benefit from perceiving the threats as less definitive. We illustrate this third approach in the context of high school aggression—an area where, as noted, it has been difficult to identify programs that show average benefits for middle adolescents ( Yeager et al., 2015 ; also see the left column of Table 3 ).
Interventions to Reduce High School Aggression
Common Features of Traditional interventions | An intervention that lessens the influence of a threat to status or respect | |
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Note: Common features of traditional interventions abridged from descriptions of programs in past meta-analyses (e.g., Yeager et al., 2015 )
Our analysis starts with the observation that the threat of losing status or being disrespected may be more influential when it feels diagnostic of a lasting future as a lonely, isolated, dominated, or low-status person. From the perspective of a new high school student, being left out of a party or ridiculed on social media might not only be a temporary inconvenience. It could seem to mean that you will have no friends or be ridiculed for the four years of high school and beyond.
Our research has shown that adolescents’ beliefs that people’s socially-relevant traits and labels are fixed and unchangeable—called an entity theory of personality —can predict whether social difficulty makes one feel permanently disrespected (see Yeager, 2017 ; Yeager & Dweck, 2012 ; also see Dweck, Chiu, & Hong, 1995 ; Erdley & Dweck, 1993 ; Heyman & Dweck, 1998 ). For example, studies have found that a survey measure of an entity theory of personality predicts adolescents’ responses to social adversity. Research participants reporting more of an entity theory also reported greater shame and humiliation when they imagined being excluded or made fun of ( Yeager, Trzesniewski, Tirri, Nokelainen, & Dweck, 2011 ).
Fortunately, teaching the belief that traits and labels are malleable and have the potential to change—called an incremental theory of personality —lessens the influence of social conflict ( Yeager, 2017 ; Yeager, Johnson, et al., 2014; Yeager, Miu, Powers, & Dweck, 2013 ; Yeager et al., 2011 ). Incremental theory of personality interventions demonstrate that implicit theories have a causal impact on coping with status and respect threats. Incremental theory interventions teach that people have the potential to change—that, if bad things happen, you are not stuck having a low-status label forever (e.g., as a “loser” or a “victim”). This different worldview can alter the meaning of social events and what emotions social events elicit ( Yeager et al., 2011 ).
Experiments have found that teaching an incremental theory can improve adolescent coping following status and respect threats. An incremental theory of personality intervention has reduced self-reported stress, anxiety, and feelings of threat following negative social evaluation experience that occurred moments after the intervention (e.g. Cyberball exclusion, Yeager, Johnson, et al., 2014 , or the Trier Social Stress Test (TSST), Yeager, Lee, & Jamieson, 2016) . As one example, high school students receiving the incremental theory showed reduced threat-related cardiovascular responses (lower total peripheral resistance, higher stroke volume) and HPA-axis reactivity (lower cortisol) when they were asked to give a speech about what makes teenagers popular, in front of judgmental, older peers (the TSST; Yeager, Lee, et al., 2016) . Similar findings appeared in a study of adolescents with elevated internalizing symptoms ( Schleider & Weisz, 2016 ). Moreover, an incremental theory intervention reduced high school students’ salivary cortisol one week later, especially on days when they reported social-evaluative threats ( Yeager, Lee, et al., 2016 ).
More directly relevant to our model, the incremental theory has reduced aggressive retaliation. In one field experiment, conducted by Yeager et al. (2013) , facilitators taught the incremental theory of personality through six classroom workshops that employed autonomy-supportive language, opportunities for self-persuasion, and capitalizing on descriptive norms (stories from upper classmen who found the messages helpful) (see Walton, 2014 ). In a double-blind field trial conducted in 9 th and 10 th -grade classrooms, the incremental theory intervention was compared to a traditional coping skills intervention that taught the best available content (analogous to interventions meta-analyzed by Durlak et al., 2011 ), and to a no-treatment control.
In the Yeager et al. (2013) experiment, the coping skills control group did not try to lessen the influence of a status or respect threat by changing its meaning. Instead, like many traditional interventions reviewed earlier, the coping skills control emphasized the need to think positively and not over-generalize from one bad event to one’s life in general. These messages were delivered in a respectful way, however—including using descriptive social norms, autonomy-supportive practices, and self-persuasion. The control group’s developmentally-attuned delivery mechanism allowed for an unconfounded test of the impact of the message and its delivery.
At one-month follow-up, adolescents in the Yeager et al. (2013) experiment responded to a peer status/respect threat: exclusion in a Cyberball game ( Williams & Jarvis, 2006 ; Williams, Yeager, Cheung, & Choi, 2012 ). Aggression was measured by allowing participants to allocate unpleasantly spicy hot sauce to a peer who had just excluded them. Adolescent participants (temporarily) believed that the peer disliked hot sauce and would have to consume the entire sample (see Lieberman, Solomon, Greenberg, & McGregor, 1999 ). (Participants were debriefed afterward).
Adolescents who received the traditional coping skills intervention did not allocate any less hot sauce (i.e., were not any less aggressive) compared to the no-treatment control group. See Figure 4 . What adolescents in the coping skills group learned was not relevant to the meaning of a peer status or respect threat, and so it did not change aggressive retaliation (cf. Yeager et al., 2015 ). Inert content, even when delivered in a respectful way, should not change behavior.
Source: Yeager, Trzesniewski, and Dweck (2013) .
Meanwhile, adolescents who received the incremental theory of personality allocated 40% less hot sauce, representing less aggressive retaliation, as compared to the combined coping skills and no-treatment control groups ( Yeager et al., 2013 ). See Figure 4 . The benefits of the intervention for aggressive behavior were confirmed three months post-intervention, when teachers (blind to condition) were more likely to nominate treated students as having improved their behavior, compared to the combined controls ( Yeager et al., 2013 ).
Interventions can change the meaning of status and respect threats by implicit theories of personality and thereby lessen the impact of such threats. This approach can be useful in reducing important and undesirable responses to status threats, such as aggression.
More generally, it is not always necessary or advisable for interventions to only help adolescents “win the status game.” Sometimes it is desirable to help adolescents feel as though they do not have to play the status game so vigorously.
The effective interventions highlighted here usually required less time from participants than traditional interventions. This could be important to their effectiveness. Stice and colleagues found in two meta-analyses that shorter interventions had stronger effects ( Stice et al., 2009 , 2006 ). Perhaps shorter interventions have an easier time maintaining treatment fidelity, or perhaps shorter interventions are less likely to imply to recipients that they are viewed by adults as lacking in competence.
And yet our model does not require that shorter interventions are necessarily preferable. Longer interventions can be attuned to status and respect. For instance, in past studies intervention designers have created multi-session educational workshops that involve a high social status “brand,” endorsed by influential peers, in support of the targeted behavior. This has reduced teen smoking and bullying (compare Biglan, Ary, Smolkowski, Duncan, & Black, 2000 and Gordon, Biglan, & Smolkowski, 2008 ; also see Paluck, Shepherd, & Aronow, 2016 for an example with anti-bullying programs). Programs have also respected adolescents’ autonomy and desire to “matter” to others by wrapping psychoeducational content in a relatively long volunteer service program (i.e. the Teen Outreach Program; Allen, Philliber, Herrling, & Kuperminc, 1997 ). This reduced female teen pregnancy from 9.8% to 4.2%, reduced suspensions from 29% to 13%, and course failure rates from 47% to 27%. (There have been some mixed results from attempts to replicate the Teen Outreach Program, Francis et al., 2016 . In four out of the five replications, the control group received key features of the treatment, and in the one replication where this was not true, the Teen Outreach Program benefits were replicated).
One multi-session intervention reduced youth violence: Becoming a Man (BAM). Instead of being didactic, BAM used a democratic discussion group (cf. Lewin, Lippitt, & White, 1939 ) that focused on finding ways besides violence to maintain high status and peer respect, and did so without adults “tell[ing] youth the ‘right’ thing to do” ( Heller et al., 2015 , p. 6). BAM reduced arrests among youth of color in Chicago, Illinois by 28–35% and violent crime by 45–50%, and increased high school graduation by 12–19% at long-term follow-up ( Heller et al., 2015 ). In sum, longer, comprehensive interventions are capable of honoring the desire for status and respect and can be effective at promoting positive adolescent behavior change.
We have argued that traditional interventions for adolescents often work against adolescents’ prioritization of experiences of status and respect, both in terms of what those interventions say and how they say it ( Tables 1 – 3 ). Yet adolescents’ heightened sensitivity to feelings of status and respect need not thwart adult-delivered interventions. Effective interventions work with those sensitivities and can inspire internalized behavior change.
Our perspective resonates with the Lewinian tension system approach to behavior change ( Lewin, 1952 ). Like Lewin, we emphasize that sometimes it can be easier to achieve behavior change by taking advantage of motives people already have, rather than trying to convince them to have a different source of motivation. In adolescence, effective interventions can make the long-term, healthy choice aligned with short-term feelings of status and respect, rather than trying to make adolescents care about long-term health more than short-term social success.
Our recommendation is consistent with the arguments of many scholars in educational psychology ( Eccles, Lord, & Midgley, 1991 ), developmental neuroscience ( Blakemore & Mills, 2014 ; Crone & Dahl, 2012 ; Steinberg, 2014 ; Telzer, 2016 ), social psychology ( Walton, 2014 ; Wilson, 2011 ), sociology ( Coleman, 1961 ; Crosnoe, 2011 ), evolutionary psychology ( Ellis et al., 2012 ), and community psychology ( Watts & Flanagan, 2007 ), who have emphasized the importance of adolescents’ social success for motivation and behavior change. What the present analysis adds is an integration of the relevant developmental science of adolescence with the behavioral evidence emerging from intervention experiments.
We have limited ourselves to universal, school-based preventative interventions in three problem areas—unhealthy snacking, school discipline, and peer aggression. However, it will be important to test which aspects of our model apply to other domains. Could direct efforts at status and respect enhancement improve academic motivation? Could it enhance adherence with medical treatments? We are excited to find out.
We are not arguing that adult-delivered interventions represent the only method for influencing adolescent behavior. Clearly there is promise in peer networks (e.g., Paluck et al., 2016 ) or “nudges” that bypass intentional deliberation or habit (e.g., Hanks, Just, Smith, & Wansink, 2012 ). Furthermore, in some cases, policies that constrain adolescents’ freedoms—like age-graded driver’s license policies—can prevent death and injury (see Steinberg, 2015 ).
Yet the model we present here suggests it would be premature to give up on adult-delivered, school-based universal prevention. Such interventions can play a role in positive youth development, and the alternatives have limitations of their own. Peer social networks can have unpredictable or even harmful effects when peers encourage deviant behavior (see the positive and negative peer acceleration effects in Valente et al., 2007 ; also see Helms et al. 2014 ). “Nudge” strategies cannot be effective when one cannot control the environment in which the behavior occurs—as is the case for many of the free-choice behaviors discussed here. Laws that take away rights might prevent risk behavior in the short term, but such laws could also deprive youth of opportunities for learning how to be independent and autonomous in the long term, slowing the transition from child-like status to adult-like status in society (for a philosophical discussion of this issue, see Schapiro, 1999 ).
We nevertheless are in agreement with the commentators who have challenged the field’s prevailing intuitions about the traditional education and skills-based approach to intervention. Our hope is that the present model encourages mechanism-focused research on improved means for creating internalized, lasting positive behavior change for adolescents. Next, we outline several ways that developmental science can push the present framework forward.
The model presented here has not yet established the feedback loops through which an intervention that honors the adolescent desire for status and respect might translate into sustained, internalized changes in behavior (though see Fig. 1 in both Yeager, 2017 and Yeager, Purdie-Vaughns, et al., 2017) . The question of how time-limited interventions can sustain impact is an emerging topic of investigation in the social and behavioral sciences more generally ( Bailey, Duncan, Odgers, & Yu, 2017 ; Fiske, Frey, & Rogers, 2014 ; Miller, Dannals, & Zlatev, 2017 )
The present analysis can contribute to this discussion in two ways. First, we speculate that feelings of respect and status could serve as a gateway to the self—a view that “I am now the kind of person who does this behavior because it makes me feel the way I want to feel”—and therefore create internalization and maintenance of change (see Gerrard, Gibbons, Houlihan, Stock, & Pomery, 2008 ; also see McAdams & Olson, 2010 ; Oyserman & Destin, 2010 ).
Second, initial behavior changes, if timely, can open channels into different social environments or formal structures (for a related perspective, see Bailey et al., 2017 ; Cohen et al., 2017 ). A seemingly small initial behavior might alter relations with teachers or peers or involvement with extra-curricular activities, which might encourage the behavior further. An initial change in motivation could place one in institutional pathways (like advanced course-taking or out-of-school activities) that create access to adult mentors or other beneficial resources (for an example in sociology, see Frank et al., 2008 ). Extending the model presented here and explicitly testing the processes for sustained change—both within the person and between the person and the affordances in the environment—represents an exciting area for innovation.
Future studies can test developmental mechanisms for the differences in responsiveness to the interventions described here. We have focused on the rough labels of “middle adolescence” or “childhood” and considered chronological age or grade level as predictors of developmental trends, due to the state of the evidence. But, as noted, chronological age is imprecise. In fact, anthropological studies of adolescence largely ignore chronological age and focus instead on the milestones of pubertal maturation and adult role acquisition (e.g. Schlegel & Barry III, 1991) .
A falsifiable prediction that follows from our framework is that pubertal maturation and testosterone levels (or estradiol, or a combination of these and other pubertal hormones) will predict weaker responsiveness to traditional interventions (see Yeager, Hirschi, et al., 2017) . That is, if pubertal maturation causes an increased coupling of motivation to change and status/respect-relevant experiences, then pubertally advanced or higher-testosterone individuals should be more strongly resistant to traditional programs that threaten status or respect. Chronological age, meanwhile, may be a less consistent predictor of variability in treatment impacts, especially during ages with great variability in pubertal timing and tempo.
Our predictions are less clear for status-sensitive interventions. On the one hand, more-mature and higher-testosterone individuals might show greater responsiveness to status-sensitive approaches such as values-harnessing ( a la Yeager, Hirschi, et al., 2017) . On the other hand, early-adolescence (often age 10–13) may prove to be an opportune stage for creating enduring change via status-sensitive interventions. Perhaps early adolescents could be taught the notion that healthy behavior is high-status, and this association might be intensified by pubertal maturation.
We are not arguing that status and respect only matter to adolescents and do not matter for children or adults. Even young children can be attuned to status ( Rizzo & Killen, 2016 ) and both children and adults are motivated by the opportunity for self-determination (see Ryan & Deci, 2000 ). Instead, we argue that during middle-adolescence, three things come together: a new meaning of taking away choice or undermining competence (that it violates status and respect), the high likelihood of being treated like a child (which violates status and respect), and the motivational prioritization of feelings related to status and respect.
Many of the universal preventative interventions we discuss here may also simply be less relevant at later ages. Problem behaviors have often already begun—or not—by middle adolescence. For instance, almost no one starts smoking for the first time as an adult, and motivating adults to get a GED does not benefit wages like an on-time high school degree does ( Heckman et al., 2014 ). Once the school-to-prison pipeline has given one a criminal record or exposed one to deviant peers, the damage is difficult to undo ( Heitzeg, 2009 ).
Furthermore, universal interventions can be easier to deliver during middle adolescence. Before age 17, young people are required by law to be in school, so societies can give beneficial messages to almost entire cohorts of young people. Hence, even if the psychological processes described here remain present in adulthood, it is still critical to study them among adolescents.
Last, we see many opportunities for the proposed model to inform program evaluation research. For decades, researchers have focused primarily on whether a program evaluated in a randomized-controlled-trial shows main effects. Yet, as null treatment effects of interventions have become more the rule than the exception, researchers have begun to prioritize the study of treatment heterogeneity, defined as the differential effectiveness of interventions across individuals, contexts, or program implementations ( Bryk, 2009 ; Gelman, 2014 ; Hulleman & Cordray, 2009 ; Weiss, Bloom, & Brock, 2014 ). Might students’ reports of whether or not the program made them feel respected predict heterogeneity in intervention effect sizes? Future evaluations studies could find out.
Our perspective has been that when adults honor adolescents’ sensitivity to feeling high status and respected, we may find that adolescents show far greater self-regulation, ability to think about the future, and capacity to change than we imagined. The present article provides the beginning of a roadmap for tapping into this powerful source of motivation—one that might result in improvements to both developmental science and societal welfare.
This paper was supported by the Raikes Foundation, the William T. Grant Foundation, the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development under award number R01HD084772, and a fellowship from the Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences (CASBS). The content does not necessarily represent the official view of the National Institutes of Health. This research benefitted from conversations with or feedback from: Kenneth Barron, Christopher Bryan, Charles Carver, Geoffrey Cohen, Robert Crosnoe, Christopher Hulleman, Jenann Ismael, Robert Josephs, Margaret Levi, Todd Rogers, Daniel Schwartz and the Schwartz Lab, Ahna Suleiman, Sander Thomaes, Gregory Walton, Timothy Wilson, Zoe Stemm-Calderon, the Social-Personality and Developmental areas at the University of Texas at Austin, and the Clinical Excellence Research Center at Stanford University.
To appear in Perspectives on Psychological Science
1 The average effect size for universal interventions was not reported in the Stice et al. (2009) paper but we calculated a weighted average using the effect sizes in their Table 4. Stice et al. (2009) also report a between-study meta-regression for age that was not relevant because it combined indicated (i.e., for at-risk youth) and universal interventions; our interest here was in universal interventions. That meta-regression reported a positive effect of age (p. 498), but it is driven by the college student studies, which were only indicated and not universal.
David S. Yeager, University of Texas at Austin.
Ronald E. Dahl, University of California, Berkeley.
Carol S. Dweck, Stanford University.
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As they develop, teenagers will experience a range of emotions and express themselves in many different ways. It’s normal for teenagers to be moody and to show some disrespect and defiance as they go through hormonal changes and a period of brain development during puberty.
Teenagers may also be short-tempered as they naturally begin to seek privacy and independence. They may begin spending more time with their peers or lock themselves in their room away from their parents.
It’s important that you and other caregivers provide support while your teenager is maturing and gaining independence. Guiding your teenager, setting boundaries and forming positive relationships will help them through the challenges of adolescence.
What one family finds challenging, another family will find acceptable. You and your family will have different ranges of what is acceptable when it comes to behaviour. However, some common issues during adolescence include:
Although challenging behaviours and changes in mood are a normal part of adolescence, knowing what is normal and recognising signs of concern is important.
Emotional periods and challenging behaviours should not last more than a few days; if feelings of sadness, anxiety or frustration are continual then you should speak to your teenager about your concerns.
It is natural for teenagers to want to disengage from their families and spend more with their friends or participating in extra-curricular activities. However, if you notice that your child is withdrawing from all social interactions and no longer enjoys participating in activities they once enjoyed, this may be of concern.
For more information about mental health concerns in teenagers, see our fact sheet Mental health – adolescents .
As teenagers mature, they are presented with new experiences. The way teenagers’ brains develop means that they may feel emotions very intensely, and they often do not yet have adequate coping tools to deal with their feelings. As a result, teenagers can often be very sensitive, self-conscious, and experience a range of emotions that at times can be overwhelming – these feelings are then often expressed by being argumentative or disrespectful towards others.
The part of the brain involved in self-control, the frontal cortex, isn’t fully developed until people are well into their twenties, which means that teenagers can face challenges in self-management and decision-making.
Sometimes challenging behaviours can also be a result of stressful or worrying events (e.g. a fight with a friend, an upcoming test, feeling that they don’t have the right clothes to wear).
When looking at challenging behaviours in teenagers it is important to consider their current situation and how it may be affecting them. Some other important factors that have an impact on behaviour include:
Sometimes, ongoing challenging behaviour can indicate other health issues. If you are concerned about your child, see your GP.
There a number of strategies that can be used to help combat challenging behaviours that emerge during adolescence:
Building resilience in teenagers and the development of coping skills will help them to overcome difficult situations. Having strong, positive relationships and spending time with your child is key to building resilience.
You can promote positive behaviours in your teenager by:
If you find it difficult to have a positive relationship with your teenager, or there is often tension between you, another adult you trust (e.g. an aunt, family friend or sports coach) may be able to offer their support and be a positive role model for your child.
Arguing with your teenager rarely produces a positive outcome and being angry during a discussion usually ends up in heated argument and produces no or undesired outcomes.
If heated arguments happen regularly, and your teenager finds it difficult to control their frustration or anger, it may be helpful for them to seek support from a counsellor, who may offer an independent or unbiased view and recommend new ways to deal with the anger.
Teenagers develop their independence by separating themselves more and more from their parents as they get older, and it is important to give them the freedom and space to do this. However, it is also very important to set boundaries.
Most teenagers will try to test the boundaries that have been set as they get older to see how much they can get away with.
Sometimes teenagers can struggle with emotions of frustration or anger and become violent or aggressive towards the people around them.
Teenagers need to be made aware that violence and aggression towards anybody is unacceptable. If your teenager is being aggressive towards you, tell them you are walking away and you will return when they have calmed down.
Strategies for dealing with aggressive behaviour in your teenager include to:
If there is violence or aggression in your family, you feel unsafe, or you or your child is at immediate risk of harm, contact emergency services on 000.
Physical discipline .
Physical discipline is anything done to cause physical pain or discomfort to a child in response to their behaviour, including smacking, hitting, spanking, slapping, pinching or pulling.
Many studies have found that physical discipline can have long-lasting negative effects on a child or young person, including:
Shouting or yelling may be an understandable response when parents are extremely frustrated; however, studies have found that harsh verbal discipline like shouting can have similar harmful effects to physical punishments.
Being shouted at can very stressful for a teenager. Losing control and lashing out verbally at your teenager is not modelling good ways to deal with anger and frustration.
Shouting at, shaming, belittling and humiliating teenagers for their actions can lead to more behavioural problems (e.g. increased aggression), be damaging to their long-term mental health, and is not an effective way to improve their behaviour.
Sometimes, severe and persistent challenging behaviour can be a sign of a medical condition or a more serious social or emotional problem. A GP can investigate this and refer you to a specialist if needed. You should speak with your GP if you are concerned that your teenager’s behaviour is linked to a mental health problem.
Behavioural challenges can have an ongoing, negative impact on family life. If you are having difficulties managing or coping with your teenager’s behaviour, you can talk to a GP who may refer you on to a specialist in paediatric behaviours.
What effect will too much screen time have on my child?
Studies have found that being ‘addicted’ to screens, in particular for internet and gaming use, can actually causes changes in the brain that affect emotional processing, decision making and ability to control behaviour. Even for teenagers who are not addicted to their devices, too much screen time can lead to poor quality sleep and mental health problems. These things can all contribute to challenging behaviour. Furthermore, being glued to a screen means less time exercising, getting fresh air and spending time with family and friends, which can also negatively impact on mental and physical wellbeing.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that for all children aged five to 18 years, screen time should be reduced where possible. Screen time should not replace time needed for sleeping, eating, being active and interacting with family or friends.
Although there are no specific guidelines in place for teenagers, it is up to parents to make decisions about how much screen time their children have access to and how screens are used (e.g. using a screen for research or homework may not need to be restricted as much as time spent playing video games).
How do I find the right balance between allowing my teenager the space to develop and setting boundaries and rules?
As part of the journey to becoming a capable adult, teenagers need to become more independent, try new things, make their own decisions and come up with their own solutions to problems they face. They won’t be able to do this if there are too many rules in place. Of course, your teenager does also need rules and boundaries to keep them safe and to ensure they are responsible and respectful. The rules you set will depend on your family situation and your teenager’s personality and needs, and may need to change over time as your teenager develops and matures. Aim to set clear, fair boundaries but also try to be understanding of your teenager’s needs and feelings.
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Adolescence is a phase when children go through several changes as they journey from childhood to maturity. It is also a vulnerable time for children since they may experience several problems of adolescence, such as unhealthy behaviors, which may lead to significant problems later in life. Concerns about adolescent behavior are also common during this time, making it difficult for parents to connect with their children.
Continue reading to learn about common adolescent issues and how you can help your children avoid or overcome them.
Dr. Theodore Kremer, a board-certified pediatrician from St Louis, Missouri, says, “ There are many factors that affect adolescents, including physical, emotional, cognitive, and social changes that occur during puberty. The physical changes often cause curiosity and anxiety, and affect self-esteem. The social factors increase their quest for independence. Changes in the brain’s frontal lobe cause adolescents to think more abstractly and make complex decisions. Adolescents are often emotional due to hormonal changes during puberty. ”
Adolescence is not an easy time for children or parents. The only way to deal with needs and problems at this age is to know about them and be ready to face them. Parent-adolescent conflicts that cause insecure and unstable feelings have a linear association with pubertal maturity. Understanding and dealing with these conflicts positively could help your child be more responsible and social (1) . Here is our list of the most common problems, and their solutions that adolescents have to deal with.
Physical changes happen due to changes in the teenager’s hormone levels.
The best way you can help your teenager get through the stage is to make them aware of these changes.
Hormones affect your teenager not only physically but also emotionally.
Puberty can be an emotional roller-coaster ride. And it is normal. Here is how you can help your kid deal with these emotional problems of adolescence.
Sharing his thoughts on bonding with his teenagers, Tim Dahi, a father, remarks, “I have set some technology boundaries like device-free meal times, which they, of course, resisted, but the tradition gradually took hold. I did other things, too, like familiarizing myself with some of their interests to get a better understanding of their lives. I’ve found new conversation starters, but some discussions remain strained due to the generation gap ( ⅰ ).’’
Overwhelming emotions can lead to impulsive behavior, which can be harmful to your child as well as others. Mostly, it is just teen behavior that will last as long as their adolescence.
Teenagers are vulnerable and can be easily swayed to the wrong side. Substance abuse is one of the biggest problems that parents of adolescents around the world have to deal with.
The 2019 statistics, as per The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention , report 29.2% alcohol use, 21.7% marijuana use, 13.7% binge drinking, and 7.2% prescription opioid misuse. These figures highlight the need for expansion of prevention programs and practices to effectively address teenage substance abuse.
High school is not all about fashion, friends, and parties. Children also have a lot of educational activities on their plate. Dr. Kremer opines, “ Adolescents often find academics challenging due to their struggle for independence during a critical time of brain development. Adolescents often want to be independent and do not want parents to remind them about completing their assignments. Their brain is changing in a way that allows them to go from concrete to abstract thinking, which can often cause them to make poor academic choices. Adolescents often develop their set of values and unfortunately, some adolescents don’t make academics a priority. ”
Adolescents are vulnerable emotionally and physically. Without proper nutrition and healthcare, they are susceptible to illnesses. According to a 2015 WHO report, 1.3 million adolescents died in 2015, a majority of them had preventable diseases.
Parental guidance can help abate health problems in adolescence to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Lead by example and encourage your children to eat healthy food, exercise right and sleep on time.
Research has revealed that around 50% of mental health disorders that adults have, begin at the age of 14. In fact, one-third of adolescent deaths are suicides triggered by depression (4) . If your child is overly moody and is not eating or sleeping at all, it is imperative you get professional help for them.
Anxiety and depression are prevalent among youth. Many children exhibit signs and symptoms of depression early on, and their friends and peers may be the first to notice it. A study suggests that 70% of teens reported that their peers suffer from psychological problems such as anxiety and depression (8)
The most common mental health disorders observed during adolescence are anxiety and mood disorders. Social phobias and panic disorders are common among this age group. Girls may tend to have more vulnerability to develop depressive disorders than boys (5) .
While moodiness and temper tantrums are normal in teenage girls and boys, they may not always be what they seem. Identifying symptoms of psychological problems in adolescence is not easy and needs the eye of an expert.
Attraction to the opposite sex begins during puberty, and for some teens, this can trigger feelings of social anxiety. Adolescence is the time when their sexual or reproductive organs start developing. At such a vulnerable time, it is but natural for teens to feel awkward in social situations.
Here is how you can deal with social problems of adolescence –
The development of secondary sexual characteristics during adolescence gives rise to new feelings in teenagers and pushes them to experiment with their bodies.
The advent of social media has changed the way we interact with each other. It has affected teenage lifestyles the most.
Aggression is especially a concern with adolescent boys. Young boys start to develop muscles, grow tall and have a coarser, manly voice. In addition to that, they are moody and vulnerable and can let others get under their skin.
Children tend to imitate what they see at home. The following remedies for problems of adolescence will help abate aggression, violence and related issues.
Parents play an important role in adolescents’ behavior development (7) . Educating your teen about possible problems and their solutions can have a positive impact. Understanding their feelings and giving suggestions could reduce family conflicts than being judgmental or rude to them.
Setting up clear rules on bad behaviors and drug use may help your teen stay away from it. Establishing good and friendly communication with your child can encourage them to speak up about their issues to you and seek your help.
1. How can parents help their adolescent children deal with identity issues?
Parents may help adolescents improve their self-awareness by identifying their likes, dislikes, negative past experiences, feelings about themselves, and strengths. They may also help children identify their emotions (sadness, frustration, confusion, or anger) and let them know that venting their feelings is okay (8) .
2. What are some common communication problems between parents and adolescents?
Parental criticism worsens communication, and it is advisable to reach conclusions together after a thorough discussion with children. Another communication problem is that adolescents may find it difficult to freely express feelings and perspectives, causing them to engage in autonomous behaviors without their parent’s approval (9) . In such cases, it is essential to interact with the adolescent calmly without being judgemental.
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You may have been a teenager yourself. But once you become a parent to a teen, you seem clueless. Think about it – your adolescent is at an age that you have already been through. Be empathetic and try to understand what your child is going through. That makes dealing with their problems easier.
MomJunction articles include first-hand experiences to provide you with better insights through real-life narratives. Here are the sources of personal accounts referenced in this article.
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Adolescence is a time for developing independence. Typically, adolescents exercise their independence by questioning or challenging, and sometimes breaking, rules. Parents and doctors must distinguish occasional errors of judgment, which are typical and expected of this age group, from a pattern of misbehavior that requires professional intervention. The severity and frequency of infractions are guides. For example, regular drinking, frequent episodes of fighting, absenteeism from school without permission (truancy), and theft are much more significant than isolated episodes of the same activities. Other warning signs of a possible behavioral disorder include deterioration of performance at school and running away from home. Of particular concern are adolescents who cause serious injury to themselves or others or who use a weapon in a fight.
Because adolescents are much more independent and mobile than they were as children, they are often out of the direct physical control of adults. In these circumstances, adolescents' behavior is determined by their own decision-making, which is not yet mature. Parents guide rather than directly control their adolescents' actions. Adolescents who feel warmth and support from their parents and whose parents convey clear expectations regarding their children’s behavior and show consistent limit setting and monitoring are less likely to develop serious problems.
Authoritative parenting is a parenting style in which children participate in establishing family expectations and rules. This style of parenting involves limit setting, which is important for healthy adolescent development. Authoritative parenting, as opposed to authoritarian-style parenting (in which parents make decisions with minimal input from their children) or permissive parenting (in which parents set few limits) is most likely to promote mature behaviors.
Authoritative parenting uses a system of graduated privileges, in which adolescents initially are given small bits of responsibility, such as caring for a pet, doing household chores, purchasing clothing, decorating their room, or managing an allowance. If adolescents handle a responsibility or privilege well over a period of time, more responsibilities and more privileges, such as going out with friends without parents and driving, are granted. By contrast, poor judgment or lack of responsibility leads to loss of privileges. Each new privilege requires close monitoring by parents to make sure adolescents comply with the agreed-upon rules.
Some parents and their adolescents clash over almost everything. In these situations, the core issue is really control. Adolescents want to feel they can make or contribute to decisions about their lives, and parents are afraid to allow their children to make bad decisions. In these situations, everyone may benefit from the parents picking their battles and focusing their efforts on the adolescent's actions (such as attending school and complying with household responsibilities) rather than on expressions (such as dress, hairstyle, and preferred entertainment).
Adolescents whose behavior is dangerous or otherwise unacceptable despite their parents' best efforts may need professional intervention. Substance use is a common trigger of behavioral problems, and substance use disorders require specific treatment. Behavioral problems also may be symptoms of learning disabilities , depression , or other mental health disorders . Such disorders typically require counseling, and adolescents who have mental health disorders may benefit from treatment with drugs. If parents are not able to limit an adolescent’s dangerous behavior, they may request help from the court system and be assigned to a probation officer who can help enforce reasonable household rules.
(See also Introduction to Problems in Adolescents .)
Disruptive behavioral disorders are common during adolescence.
Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is the most common mental health disorder of childhood and often persists into adolescence and adulthood. However, adolescents who have difficulty paying attention may instead have another disorder, such as depression or a learning disability
Other common disruptive behaviors of childhood include oppositional defiant disorder and conduct disorder . These disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy for the child and advice and support for parents.
Children occasionally engage in physical confrontation and bullying , including cyberbullying. During adolescence, the frequency and severity of violent interactions may increase. Although episodes of violence at school are highly publicized, adolescents are much more likely to be involved in violent episodes (or more often the threat of violence) at home and outside of school. Many factors contribute to an increased risk of violence for adolescents, including
Developmental problems
Intense corporal punishment (such as punching or beating) inflicted on the child
Caregivers with substance use disorders
Gang membership
Access to firearms
Substance use
There is little evidence to suggest a relationship between violence and genetic defects or chromosomal abnormalities.
Gang membership has been linked with violent behavior. Youth gangs are self-formed associations made up of 3 or more members, typically ranging in age from 13 to 24. Gangs usually adopt a name and identifying symbols, such as a particular style of clothing, the use of certain hand signs, certain tattoos, or graffiti. Some gangs require prospective members to perform random acts of violence before membership is granted.
Increasing youth gang violence has been blamed at least in part on gang involvement in drug distribution and drug use. Firearms and other weapons are frequent features of gang violence.
Violence prevention begins in early childhood with violence-free discipline. Limiting exposure to violence through media and video games may also help because exposure to these violent images has been shown to desensitize children to violence and cause children to accept violence as part of their life. School-age children should have access to a safe school environment. Older children and adolescents should not have access to weapons and should be taught to avoid high-risk situations (such as places or settings where others have weapons or are using alcohol or drugs) and to use strategies to defuse tense situations.
All victims of violence should be encouraged to talk to parents, teachers, and even their doctor about problems they are having.
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Objective: Changes in adolescent interpersonal behavior before and after an acute course of psychotherapy were investigated as outcomes and mediators of remission status in a previously described treatment study of depressed adolescents. Maternal depressive symptoms were examined as moderators of the association between psychotherapy condition and changes in adolescents' interpersonal behavior.
Method: Adolescents (n = 63, mean age = 15.6 years, 77.8% female, 84.1% White) engaged in videotaped interactions with their mothers before randomization to cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), systemic behavior family therapy (SBFT), or nondirective supportive therapy (NST) and after 12-16 weeks of treatment. Adolescent involvement, problem solving, and dyadic conflict were examined.
Results: Improvements in adolescent problem solving were significantly associated with CBT and SBFT. Maternal depressive symptoms moderated the effect of CBT, but not SBFT, on adolescents' problem solving; adolescents experienced increases in problem solving only when their mothers had low or moderate levels of depressive symptoms. Improvements in adolescents' problem solving were associated with higher rates of remission across treatment conditions, but there were no significant indirect effects of SBFT on remission status through problem solving. Exploratory analyses revealed a significant indirect effect of CBT on remission status through changes in adolescent problem solving, but only when maternal depressive symptoms at study entry were low.
Conclusions: Findings provide preliminary support for problem solving as an active treatment component of structured psychotherapies for depressed adolescents and suggest one pathway by which maternal depression may disrupt treatment efficacy for depressed adolescents treated with CBT.
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Adolescents who have trouble solving interpersonal problems and experience greater interpersonal stress may be at elevated risk for suicidal behavior, study suggests
Washington — Teen girls who have greater difficulty effectively solving interpersonal problems when they experience social stress, and who experience more interpersonal stress in their lives, are at greater risk of suicidal behavior, suggests research published by the American Psychological Association.
Suicide is the second-leading cause of death among teens, and rates of suicidal behavior are particularly high among girls. Previous research has found that interpersonal stressors—such as conflict with peers, friends and family—are related to suicidal behavior. Some theories of suicidal behavior suggest that poor social problem-solving skills may contribute to the link, possibly because teens with poorer social problem-solving skills are more likely to see suicide as a viable solution to their distress when they feel they’ve exhausted other options.
The current study aimed to test these associations by considering both experimentally simulated and real-world measures of social stress. The research was published in the Journal of Psychopathology and Clinical Science .
“The findings provide empirical support for cognitive and behavioral theories of suicide that suggest that deficits in abilities to effectively manage and solve interpersonal problems may be related to suicidal behavior,” said study lead author Olivia Pollak, MA, of The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. “Clinically, this is notable, as problem-solving features prominently in several treatments for suicidal or self-harming behaviors.”
Participants were 185 girls ages 12 to 17 who had experienced some mental health concerns in the past two years. At the beginning of the study, participants completed surveys or interviews about their mental health symptoms and suicidal behaviors. Participants also completed a task assessing their social problem-solving skills, which involved responding to scenarios involving interpersonal conflicts or challenges with other people, such as peers, friends, family members and romantic partners. The teens were then asked to perform a task that has been shown in previous studies to induce social stress—they had to prepare and deliver a three-minute speech before what they thought was an audience of peers watching via video link. Immediately after the stressful task, they again completed the social problem-solving task to see whether experiencing social stress led to declines in their problem-solving ability.
The researchers also followed the girls for nine months, checking in every three months, to ask them about the stressors they were experiencing in interpersonal domains, such as with peers, friends and family members, as well as about suicidal behaviors.
Overall, the researchers found that girls who showed greater declines in problem-solving effectiveness in the lab, and who also experienced higher levels of interpersonal stress over the nine-month follow-up period, were more likely to exhibit suicidal behavior over the nine-month follow-up period.
“Importantly, problem-solving deficits under distress may increase risk for future suicidal behavior only in combination with greater cumulative interpersonal stress in real life,” Pollak said. “Risk for suicidal behavior was higher among adolescents who showed greater declines in effectiveness and who experienced high levels of interpersonal stress over nine-month follow-up, consistent with robust evidence for links between interpersonal life stress and suicidal behavior.”
Article: “Social Problem-Solving and Suicidal Behavior in Adolescent Girls: A Prospective Examination of Proximal and Distal Social Stress-Related Risk Factors,” by Olivia Pollak, MA, and Mitchell J. Prinstein, PhD, The University of North Carolina Chapel Hill; Shayna M. Cheek, PhD, Duke University; Karen D. Rudolph, PhD, University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign; Paul D. Hastings, PhD, University of California Davis; and Matthew K. Nock, PhD, Harvard University. Journal of Psychopathology and Clinical Science , published online May 25, 2023.
Olivia Pollak can be reached via email .
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For thousands of years, philosophers have argued about the purpose of language. Plato believed it was essential for thinking. Thought “is a silent inner conversation of the soul with itself,” he wrote.
Many modern scholars have advanced similar views. Starting in the 1960s, Noam Chomsky, a linguist at M.I.T., argued that we use language for reasoning and other forms of thought. “If there is a severe deficit of language, there will be severe deficit of thought,” he wrote .
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