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Key findings about online dating in the U.S.

Online dating in the United States has evolved over the past several decades into a booming industry , transforming the way some people meet matches . A new report from Pew Research Center explores the upsides and downsides of online dating by highlighting Americans’ experiences and views about it. Here are 12 key takeaways.

Pew Research Center conducted this study to understand Americans’ experiences with dating sites and apps and their views of online dating generally. This analysis is based on a survey conducted among 6,034 U.S. adults from July 5-17, 2022. This included 4,996 respondents from the Center’s American Trends Panel (ATP), an online survey panel that is recruited through national, random sampling of residential addresses. This way nearly all U.S. adults have a chance of selection. It also included an oversample of 1,038 respondents from Ipsos’ KnowledgePanel who indicated that they are lesbian, gay or bisexual (LGB), with oversampled groups weighted back to reflect proportions in the population. The survey is weighted to be representative of the U.S. adult population by gender, race, ethnicity, partisan affiliation, education and other categories. Read more about the ATP’s methodology .

Here are the questions used for this analysis, along with responses, and its methodology .

Terminology

• Online dating users refers to the 30% of Americans who answered yes to the following question: “Have you ever used an online dating site or dating app?”
• Current or recent online dating users refers to the 9% of adults who had used a dating site or app in the past year as of the July survey.
• Partnered refers to the 69% of U.S. adults who describe themselves as married, living with a partner, or in a committed romantic relationship.
• LGB refers to those who are lesbian, gay or bisexual. These groups are combined because of small sample sizes. Additionally, since this research is focused on sexual orientation, not gender identity, and due to the fact that the transgender population in the U.S. is very small, transgender respondents are not identified separately. Read the report for more details.

A note about the Asian adult sample

This survey includes a total sample size of 234 Asian adults. The sample primarily includes English-speaking Asian adults and therefore may not be representative of the overall Asian adult population. Despite this limitation, it is important to report the views of Asian adults on the topics in this study. As always, Asian adults’ responses are incorporated into the general population figures throughout this report. Asian adults are shown as a separate group when the question was asked of the full sample. Because of the relatively small sample size and a reduction in precision due to weighting, results are not shown separately for Asian adults for questions that were only asked of online dating users or other filtered questions. We are also not able to analyze Asian adults by demographic categories, such as gender, age or education.

Three-in-ten U.S. adults say they have ever used a dating site or app, identical to the share who said this in 2019 . That includes 9% who report doing so in the past year, according to the Center’s survey of 6,034 adults conducted July 5-17, 2022.

Online dating is more common among younger adults than among older people. About half of those under 30 (53%) report having ever used a dating site or app, compared with 37% of those ages 30 to 49, 20% of those 50 to 64 and 13% of those 65 and older.

When looking at sexual orientation, lesbian, gay or bisexual (LGB) adults are more likely than their straight counterparts to say they have ever used a dating site or app (51% vs. 28%).

Men are somewhat more likely than women to have tried online dating (34% vs. 27%), as are those with at least some college education when compared with those with a high school education or less.

Adults who have never been married are much more likely than married adults to report having used online dating sites or apps (52% vs. 16%). Adults who are currently living with a partner (46%) or who are divorced, separated or widowed (36%) are also more likely to have tried online dating than married adults.

There are no statistically significant differences in the shares of adults who report ever using an online dating platform by race or ethnicity: Similar shares of White, Black, Hispanic and Asian adults report ever having done so.

Tinder tops the list of dating sites or apps the survey studied and is particularly popular among adults under 30. Some 46% of online dating users say they have ever used Tinder, followed by about three-in-ten who have used Match (31%) or Bumble (28%). OkCupid, eharmony and Hinge are each used by about a fifth of online dating users. Grindr and HER are used by very few online dating users overall (6% and 3%, respectively) but are more widely used by LGB adults than straight adults. Additionally, 31% of online dating users mention having tried some other online dating platform not asked about directly in this survey. (Read the topline  for a list of the most common other dating sites and apps users mentioned.)

Tinder use is far more common among younger adults than among older Americans: 79% of online dating users under 30 say they have used the platform, compared with 44% of users ages 30 to 49, 17% of users 50 to 64 and just 1% of those 65 and older. Tinder is the top online dating platform among users under 50. By contrast, users 50 and older are about five times more likely to use Match than Tinder (50% vs. 11%).

One-in-ten partnered adults – meaning those who are married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship – met their current significant other through a dating site or app. Partnered adults who are under 30 or who are LGB stand out from other groups when looking at this measure of online dating “success”: One-in-five partnered adults under 30 say they met their current spouse or partner on a dating site or app, as do about a quarter of partnered LGB adults (24%).

Online dating users are somewhat divided over whether their experiences on these platforms have been positive or negative. Among those who have ever used a dating site or app, slightly more say their personal experiences have been very or somewhat positive than say they have been very or somewhat negative (53% vs. 46%).

Some demographic groups are more likely to report positive experiences. For example, 57% of men who have dated online say their experiences have been positive, while women users are roughly split down the middle (48% positive, 51% negative). In addition, LGB users of these platforms are more likely than straight users to report positive experiences (61% vs. 53%).

Roughly a third of online dating users (35%) say they have ever paid to use one of these platforms – including for extra features – but this varies by income, age and gender. Some 45% of online dating users with upper incomes report having paid to use a dating site or app, compared with 36% of users with middle incomes and 28% of those with lower incomes. Similarly, 41% of users 30 and older say they have paid to use these platforms, compared with 22% of those under 30. Men who have dated online are more likely than women to report having paid for these sites and apps (41% vs. 29%).

Those who have ever paid to use dating sites or apps report more positive experiences than those who have never paid. Around six-in-ten paid users (58%) say their personal experiences with dating sites or apps have been positive; half of users who have never paid say this.

Women who have used online dating platforms in the past year are more likely to feel overwhelmed by the number of messages they get, while men are more likely to feel insecure about a lack of messages. Among current or recent online dating users, 54% of women say they have felt overwhelmed by the number of messages they received on dating sites or apps in the past year, while just a quarter of men say the same. By contrast, 64% of men say they have felt insecure because of the lack of messages they received, while four-in-ten women say the same.

Overall, 55% of adults who have used a dating app or site in the past year say they often or sometimes felt insecure about the number of messages they received, while 36% say they often or sometimes felt overwhelmed.

Among recent online daters, large majorities of men and women say they have often or sometimes felt excited by the people they have seen while using these platforms, though large majorities also say they have often or sometimes felt disappointed.

When asked why they’ve turned to dating sites or apps in the past year, 44% of users say a major reason was to meet a long-term partner and 40% say a major reason was to date casually. Smaller shares say a major reason was to have casual sex (24%) or make new friends (22%).

Men who have used a dating platform in the past year are much more likely than women to say casual sex was a major reason (31% vs. 13%). There are no statistically significant gender differences on the other three reasons asked about in the survey.

About four-in-ten U.S. adults overall (42%) say online dating has made the search for a long-term partner easier. Far fewer (22%) say it has made the search for a long-term partner or spouse harder. About a third (32%) say it has made no difference.

Adults under 30 are less convinced than their older counterparts that online dating has made the search for a partner easier. These younger adults are about evenly divided in their views, with 35% of those ages 18 to 29 saying it has made the search easier and 33% saying it has made the search harder.

When it comes to the choices people have on dating sites and apps, 43% of adults overall say people have the right amount of options for dating on these platforms, while 37% think choices are too plentiful. Fewer (13%) say there are not enough options.

Most U.S. adults are skeptical or unsure that dating algorithms can predict love. About one-in-five adults (21%) think that the types of computer programs that dating sites and apps use could determine whether two people will eventually fall in love. But greater shares of Americans either say these programs could not do this (35%) or are unsure (43%).

Americans are split on whether online dating is a safe way to meet people, and a majority support requiring background checks before someone can create a profile. The share of U.S. adults who say online dating is generally a very or somewhat safe way to meet people has dipped slightly since 2019, from 53% to 48%. Women are more likely than men to say online dating is not too or not at all safe.

There are also differences by age: 62% of Americans ages 65 and older say online dating is not safe, compared with 53% of those 50 to 64 and 42% of adults younger than 50. Those who have never used a dating site or app are particularly likely to think it is unsafe: 57% say this, compared with 32% of those who have used an online dating site or app.

At the same time, six-in-ten Americans say companies should require background checks before someone creates a dating profile, while 15% say they should not and 24% are not sure. Women are more likely than men to say these checks should be required, as are adults 50 and older compared with younger adults.

These checks do not have majority support among online dating users themselves, however: 47% of users say companies should require background checks, versus 65% of those who have never used a dating site or app.

Younger women who have used dating sites or apps stand out for experiencing unwanted behaviors on these platforms. A majority of women under 50 who have used dating sites or apps (56%) say they have been sent a sexually explicit message or image they didn’t ask for, and about four-in-ten have had someone continue to contact them after they said they were not interested (43%) or have been called an offensive name (37%). Roughly one-in-ten of this group (11%) have received threats of physical harm. Each of these experiences is less common among women online dating users ages 50 and older, as well as among men of any age.

Among all online dating users, 38% have ever received unsolicited sexually explicit messages or images while using a dating site or app; 30% have experienced continued unwanted contact; 24% have been called an offensive name; and 6% have been threatened with physical harm.

About half of those who have used dating sites and apps (52%) say they have come across someone they think was trying to scam them. Men under 50 are particularly likely to say they have had this experience: 63% of men in this age group who have used dating sites or apps think they have encountered a scammer on them. Smaller shares of men ages 50 and older (47%) and women of any age (44%) say the same.

Note: Here are the questions used for this analysis, along with responses, and its methodology .

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Colleen McClain is a research associate focusing on internet and technology research at Pew Research Center .

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Online dating has become increasingly popular in the digital age, with millions of people turning to the internet to find love and companionship. With the rise of dating apps and websites, the world of online dating has opened up a whole new realm of possibilities for singles looking to connect with others.

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• The stigma of online dating: is it still taboo?
• The rise of niche dating sites: catering to specific interests and preferences
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How online dating has changed the way we fall in love

H ow do couples meet and fall in love in the 21st century? It is a question that sociologist Dr Marie Bergström has spent a long time pondering. “Online dating is changing the way we think about love,” she says. “One idea that has been really strong in the past – certainly in Hollywood movies – is that love is something you can bump into, unexpectedly, during a random encounter.” Another strong narrative is the idea that “love is blind, that a princess can fall in love with a peasant and love can cross social boundaries. But that is seriously challenged when you’re online dating, because it’s so obvious to everyone that you have search criteria. You’re not bumping into love – you’re searching for it.”

Falling in love today tracks a different trajectory. “There is a third narrative about love – this idea that there’s someone out there for you, someone made for you, a soulmate,” says Bergström. “And you just need to find that person.” That idea is very compatible with online dating. “It pushes you to be proactive – to go and search for this person. You shouldn’t just sit at home and wait for this person.”

As a result, the way we think about love – the way we depict it in films and books, the way we imagine that love works – is changing. “There is much more focus on the idea of a soulmate. And other ideas of love are fading away,” says Bergström, whose controversial French book on the subject, The New Laws of Love , has recently been published in English for the first time.

Instead of meeting a partner through friends, colleagues or acquaintances, dating is often now a private, compartmentalised activity that is deliberately carried out away from prying eyes in an entirely disconnected, separate social sphere, she says.

“Online dating makes it much more private. It’s a fundamental change and a key element that explains why people go on online dating platforms and what they do there – what kind of relationships come out of it.”

Take Lucie, 22, a student who is interviewed in the book. “There are people I could have matched with but when I saw we had so many mutual acquaintances, I said no. It immediately deters me, because I know that whatever happens between us might not stay between us. And even at the relationship level, I don’t know if it’s healthy to have so many friends in common.”

It’s stories like these about the separation of dating from other parts of life that Bergström increasingly uncovered in exploring themes for her book. A researcher at the French Institute for Demographic Studies in Paris, she spent 13 years between 2007 and 2020 researching European and North American online dating platforms and conducting interviews with their users and founders. Unusually, she also managed to gain access to the anonymised user data collected by the platforms themselves.

She argues that the nature of dating has been fundamentally transformed by online platforms. “In the western world, courtship has always been tied up and very closely associated with ordinary social activities, like leisure, work, school or parties. There has never been a specifically dedicated place for dating.”

In the past, using, for example, a personal ad to find a partner was a marginal practice that was stigmatised, precisely because it turned dating into a specialised, insular activity. But online dating is now so popular that studies suggest it is the third most common way to meet a partner in Germany and the US. “We went from this situation where it was considered to be weird, stigmatised and taboo to being a very normal way to meet people.”

Having popular spaces that are specifically created for privately meeting partners is “a really radical historical break” with courtship traditions. For the first time, it is easy to constantly meet partners who are outside your social circle. Plus, you can compartmentalise dating in “its own space and time”, separating it from the rest of your social and family life.

Dating is also now – in the early stages, at least – a “domestic activity”. Instead of meeting people in public spaces, users of online dating platforms meet partners and start chatting to them from the privacy of their homes. This was especially true during the pandemic, when the use of platforms increased. “Dating, flirting and interacting with partners didn’t stop because of the pandemic. On the contrary, it just took place online. You have direct and individual access to partners. So you can keep your sexual life outside your social life and ensure people in your environment don’t know about it.”

Alix, 21, another student in the book, says: “I’m not going to date a guy from my university because I don’t want to see him every day if it doesn’t work out. I don’t want to see him with another girl either. I just don’t want complications. That’s why I prefer it to be outside all that.” The first and most obvious consequence of this is that it has made access to casual sex much easier. Studies show that relationships formed on online dating platforms tend to become sexual much faster than other relationships. A French survey found that 56% of couples start having sex less than a month after they meet online, and a third first have sex when they have known each other less than a week. By comparison, 8% of couples who meet at work become sexual partners within a week – most wait several months.

“On online dating platforms, you see people meeting a lot of sexual partners,” says Bergström. It is easier to have a short-term relationship, not just because it’s easier to engage with partners – but because it’s easier to disengage, too. “These are people who you do not know from elsewhere, that you do not need to see again.” This can be sexually liberating for some users. “You have a lot of sexual experimentation going on.”

Bergström thinks this is particularly significant because of the double standards still applied to women who “sleep around”, pointing out that “women’s sexual behaviour is still judged differently and more severely than men’s”.

By using online dating platforms, women can engage in sexual behaviour that would be considered “deviant” and simultaneously maintain a “respectable” image in front of their friends, colleagues and relations. “They can separate their social image from their sexual behaviour.” This is equally true for anyone who enjoys socially stigmatised sexual practices. “They have easier access to partners and sex.”

Perhaps counterintuitively, even though people from a wide range of different backgrounds use online dating platforms, Bergström found users usually seek partners from their own social class and ethnicity. “In general, online dating platforms do not break down barriers or frontiers. They tend to reproduce them.”

In the future, she predicts these platforms will play an even bigger and more important role in the way couples meet, which will reinforce the view that you should separate your sex life from the rest of your life. “Now, we’re in a situation where a lot of people meet their casual partners online. I think that could very easily turn into the norm. And it’s considered not very appropriate to interact and approach partners at a friend’s place, at a party. There are platforms for that. You should do that elsewhere. I think we’re going to see a kind of confinement of sex.”

Overall, for Bergström, the privatisation of dating is part of a wider movement towards social insularity, which has been exacerbated by lockdown and the Covid crisis. “I believe this tendency, this evolution, is negative for social mixing and for being confronted and surprised by other people who are different to you, whose views are different to your own.” People are less exposed, socially, to people they haven’t specifically chosen to meet – and that has broader consequences for the way people in society interact and reach out to each other. “We need to think about what it means to be in a society that has moved inside and closed down,” she says.

As Penelope, 47, a divorced working mother who no longer uses online dating platforms, puts it: “It’s helpful when you see someone with their friends, how they are with them, or if their friends tease them about something you’ve noticed, too, so you know it’s not just you. When it’s only you and that person, how do you get a sense of what they’re like in the world?”

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Experiences with online dating tend to be mixed. Some people have excellent experiences with online dating that end in satisfying relationships. Others have stories filled with confusion and frustration. Thus, much like any other way to date, meeting someone online has both benefits and drawbacks.

So, how does someone date online successfully? As it turns out, a simple analysis of the pros and cons of online dating can help out a great deal. Fortunately, the psychological research just happens to have such an analysis.

An Analysis of Online Dating

Finkel and associates (2012) put together an extremely comprehensive review of the literature investigating various aspects of online dating. The goal of their review was to evaluate whether online dating was 1) fundamentally different from face-to-face dating and 2) was superior. Results of their assessment indicated that dating online was indeed different from "traditional" dating in a number of ways. It also provided some superior features and potential problems.

Overall, Finkel and associates (2012) found that online dating differed in three main areas:

Pros: Online dating provided individuals with access to many more potential partners than they could often find in their daily lives. This is especially true for individuals interested in partners of a particular type, orientation, lifestyle, or in isolated areas.

Cons: The choices of partners can become confusing and overwhelming. Without a clear plan, online daters can get stuck endlessly "shopping" for the perfect partner, rather than actually starting a satisfying relationship.

2. Matching

Pros: Many online dating sites offer various types of personality testing and matching. Such matching can help guide individuals toward dating partners who may be more compatible.

Cons: Matching is a difficult process and testing may not be accurate for everyone. In addition, people may present differently in person or change over time. So, matching may overlook potentially good partners in the process.

3. Communication

Pros: Online dating offers a number of ways to get to know a potential date before meeting in person. Such computer-mediated communication allows for safe and convenient interaction, without much risk or time commitment. For the busy professional, or the safety-conscious, such communication is an excellent way to "test" potential partners.

Cons: Communication through computers is lacking some of the information provided in face-to-face interaction. As a result, it is harder to evaluate a potential match online. Also, some of the cues and features that build attraction (like touching) cannot be accomplished through a computer. So, such computer-mediated communication may have an artificial and unemotional quality.

Using Online Dating to Your Advantage

Clearly, the features of online dating have both costs and benefits. So, how do you make the most of your dating experience online? Here are a few suggestions.

Access: Having choices is wonderful, but keep them manageable. If you want an actual face-to-face dating interaction, then don't get stuck endlessly "browsing" online. Instead, narrow your search to a small location, or a certain set of "must-have" features. After you narrow it down, rather than just "shopping", talk to those who make the list. To ensure success among your many options, make sure you have at least a general idea of what you're looking for in a partner, and what you are offering them too. (For more on those topics, see here , here , and here ).

Matching: Online tests may not be able to tell you your perfect match, but they can help narrow down the options. In particular, such testing often identifies potential daters who would be a poor relationship partner for anyone. Thus, while you may have to date a few matches to find out who is a good fit for you, matching can help you avoid those who might be a disaster. Beyond that, it might be best to trust your unconscious feelings too as your implicit "gut reactions" can have a big impact on attraction. (For more, see here and here ).

Communication: Online communication is designed to make an initial connection, not set the foundation for a whole relationship. So, keep initial online conversation focused on finding out the basics quickly, then setting up an actual date. Generally, a few short emails or quick conversations will suffice. Long introductory emails may be counter-productive and off-putting too. Save it for a date. If you are crunched for time, then meet for coffee (see here ). If you still have safety concerns, meet in a public place. (For more on asking for a date, see here ).

Overall, it is important to remember that online dating is best used as a resource to meet individuals for eventual face-to-face dating. Keeping that goal in mind will prevent you from getting stuck on the drawbacks and limitations of dating online. So, if you get confused, the best next step is always to move an interaction toward a date. If you are overwhelmed with access to too many choices, then find a way to narrow them down and find better matches. If you don't know what to do with a potential match, send them a quick communication. If you get frustrated with talking online, then suggest a meeting in person. Follow that process and you will more easily find a satisfying connection online and face-to-face too.

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Finkel, E.J., Eastwick, P.W., Karney, B., Reis, H.T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science, 13(1), 3-66.

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• Online Dating Platforms, Sex, and Relationships The most popular dating websites claim that their rates of a successful pairing are high, as they allow for an in-depth assessment of potential partners.
• An Online Dating Service for College Students: Biff Targets Marketing The issue that has to be answered in the case is what the college students, as target customers for online dating service, ideadlly would like to be offered.
• The Pitfalls of Online Dating These include the very real potential for deceit, interpersonal elements of physical attraction are absent in the online world and the time involved in interfacing with the computer reduces the ability of the individual to […]
• Online Dating for Aging Adults Considering the benefactors of the relationships that aging people develop through dating sites and applications also helps to determine the actual value of the tools in question.
• Online Dating: An Advocacy Campaign The proposed advocacy campaign is designed with the purpose of protecting people from the illegal conduct of those who use online dating websites to deceive others.
• Online Dating Start-Up Business Plan Due to this, a large number of online dating project has emerged in recent years, and the level of competition has increased as well.
• Relationships and Online Dating The creation of online dating sites and applications was most likely intended to eliminate these issues and make the process of finding new partners easy and stress-free.
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For millions of years, humans have been selecting mates using the wealth of information gleaned in face-to-face interactions — not just appearance, but characteristics such as tone of voice, body language, and scent, as well as immediate feedback to their own communications. Does mate selection differ when those looking are presented with an almost overwhelming number of potential partners, but limited to a few photos, statistics, and an introductory paragraph about each one? What information do online daters focus on? Is it all about the photo? Or are words the key to someone’s heart (or at least their Match.com inbox)? In one survey of Australian online daters, 85% said they would not contact someone without a posted photo, so physical appearance is indeed important (Fiore et al., 2008). A 2008 study in which participants rated actual online profiles confirmed this, but also explored the criteria that made certain photos attractive (Fiore et al., 2008). Men were considered more attractive when they looked genuine, extraverted, and feminine, but not overly warm or kind. (Although feminine male photos were seen as attractive, whole male profiles were rated more attractive when they seemed more masculine, a perplexing result worthy of more study.) Women were deemed more attractive when they looked feminine, high in self-esteem, and not selfish. This study also found that the narrative  self-descriptive sections of the profiles played a key role in attractiveness, but the fixed choice sections of the profiles (where users have to pick from a specific set of descriptors, i.e., “Have children now,” “Want children someday,”  “Don’t want children,” smoker/non-smoker, etc.) only minimally affected attractiveness ratings. However, these fixed choice descriptors allow users to triage by easily weeding out those who don’t meet their  dealbreaker criteria for a partner (Fiore et al., 2008).

Researchers believe that users make up for the lack of information in online profiles by filling in the blanks with guesses based on small pieces of information. Some theorize that online daters may be wearing rose colored glasses when looking at potential dates — filling in the information gaps with positive qualities in a potential partner (Gibbs et al., 2006). In one study, knowing more information about a potential date generally led to liking them less, possibly because it called out inconsistencies and reduced opportunities to fill in the blanks with positive inferences. But, with a particularly compatible partner, more information led to more liking. For online daters, this means that a very detailed profile might attract fewer, but more compatible suitors (Norton et al., 2007).

Research has also revealed gender differences in both preference and messaging behavior on online dating sites. In particular, women and men differ in the relative importance they assign to various attributes of potential partners. A forthcoming study conducted by Günter Hitsch, Ali Hortaçsu (both at University of Chicago), and Dan Ariely (Duke University) confirmed existing evolutional theory, finding that in a sample of 22,000 online daters women weigh income more than physical attributes, including facial attractiveness, height and body mass index, when deciding who to contact (Hitsch et al., 2009). Interestingly, these differences persist even when reproduction is no longer a factor. In a study that looked at online daters across the lifespan, even older men “sought physical attractiveness and offered status-related information more than women” and women continued to be the more selective gender (Sears-Roberts Alterovitz & Mendelsohn, 2009).

In a nine-month study of participants on a dating site in 2008 and 2009, Andrew Fiore, a graduate student at the University of California, Berkeley, and his colleagues examined stated preferences and actual messaging behavior (Fiore et al., 2010). In general, women really are pickier than men — listing smaller ranges in their preferences for age and ethnicity. Women also initiate and reply to contact less than men. They were contacted much more than men and, hence, generally had their choice of who to reply to. But, just as in the face-to-face dating scene, respect is important — users who respected others’ listed preferences for a potential partner were more likely to get a response. In light of these findings, the researchers presented some advice to potential online daters: “Choose wisely and, if possible, be female” (Fiore et al., 2010).

This study also leads to some intriguing design ideas for online dating sites’ automatic matching systems, which present users with sets of likely partners. More popular users are contacted more and, therefore, are less likely to respond to any one user. Taking this into account, dating sites may want to steer users toward slightly less popular potential dates who are more likely to respond, “a trade-off many users may willingly accept” (Fiore et al., 2010).

What I Like About You Me

In a 2005 study, Fiore and Judith Donath (Massachusetts Institute of Technology) examined messaging data from 65,000 users of a United States-based dating site. They found that users preferred sameness on all of the categories they tested (a variety of features from child preferences to education to physical features like height). But some factors played a larger role than others, with marital status and wanting or already having children showing the strongest same-seeking. Fiore has also found that women responded more frequently to men whose popularity on the site (a measure based on the average number of people contacting the user per day) was similar to their own (Fiore, 2010).

Online dating service users tend to contact people who are about as attractive as they are, but does your own attractiveness level influence how attractive you believe others to be? One research team put this question to the test on the website HOTorNOT.com. The site was launched in 2000 purely for users to rate each other on how attractive (or, obviously, not) they were. Later, the site added an online dating component. This provided an extra set of information for researchers — not only knowing who’s talking to whom, but the overall attractiveness ratings of those users from everyone on the site. Consistent with previous research, this study, published in Psychological Science , found that people with similar levels of physical attractiveness indeed tend to date each other, with more attractive people being more particular about the physical attractiveness of their potential dates. Compared to females, males are more influenced by how physically attractive their potential dates are, but less affected by how attractive they themselves are when deciding whom to date. (But these findings about gender bias in attraction are being challenged in other studies – more on this later.)  Also, regardless of how attractive people themselves are, they seem to judge others’ attractiveness in similar ways, supporting the notion that we have largely universal, culturally independent standards of beauty (e.g., symmetric faces; Lee et al., 2008).

Stretching (or Shrinking) the Truth

Assessing potential partners online hinges on other users being truthful in their descriptions. But what if they aren’t? Psychological scientists have turned to online dating to examine how truthful people are in their descriptions of themselves, both with themselves and to others. Online daters walk a fine line — everyone wants to make themselves as attractive as possible to potential dates, making deception very tempting. But, daters can’t be too deceptive, lest they actually get to the point of a real life meeting in which they could be exposed. Catalina Toma, Jeffrey Hancock (both at Cornell University), and Nicole Ellison (Michigan State University) examined the relationship between actual physical attributes and online self-descriptions of online daters in New York. They found that lying was ubiquitous, but usually fairly small in terms of magnitude. Men tended to lie about height and women tended to lie about weight. And the lying wasn’t due to self-deception — self-ratings of attributes tended to be accurate, even when information on the dating site was not (Toma, 2008).

The Need for Speed

Dan Ariely, a behavioral economist and co-author of the HOTorNOT.com study and the forth-coming article with Hitsch and Hortaçsu, was initially drawn to online dating because it seemed like a very nice solution to a common problem — people in need of partners and no market for them to find each other. But while online dating has yielded fascinating results about preferences and many real-world matches, it doesn’t work for every person looking for a mate because it is so difficult to quantify the qualities that lead to and keep attraction going. As Ariely said, attempting to sum up the myriad aspects of a person in an online dating profile can be like “describing a dish in a restaurant by its chemical composition.” It’s accurate, but it doesn’t provide useful information when deciding what to order. Another modern dating innovation may provide a better solution: speed dating.

In the late 1990s, a rabbi in Los Angeles created a new way for Jewish singles in his community to meet each other — they would go on many “dates” lasting just a few minutes in one night, report to the event organizers if they wanted to see any of their “dates” in the future, and, if two people said yes to each other, they would be given contact information to continue corresponding. Since then, speed dating has spread around the world, giving millions of singles a chance at love. It also gives savvy researchers an unprecedented chance to study attraction in situ .

In the winter of 2004, Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick, both at Northwestern University at the time, thought that speed dating would be “a terrific way to catch initial attraction in action,” as Eastwick, now at Texas A&M, reported. This hunch was confirmed by a speed dating outing with several other Northwestern colleagues, and the researchers embarked a new track of speed dating work. (No word on whether the outing was a success from other standpoints.)

As Finkel and Eastwick point out in a 2008 study published in Current Directions in Psychological Science , the popularity of speed dating allows the collection of large, real world samples across cultures, ethnicities, and socioeconomic levels. The speed dating design also lets researchers to study both sides of a dyadic process. A speed dating event with 20 participants would yield 400 separate interactions, allowing researchers to create very detailed accounts of people’s attractions. For example, they would be able to tell that a certain woman liked a certain man because (a) she likes all the men (she has fewer dealbreaker standards), (b) all the women liked that man (he was an irresistible dish), or (c) they had a unique experience that made her like him more than other men at the event and him like her more than other women at the event (Finkel & Eastwick, 2008). Also, speed dating allows for exploring reciprocity effects. A 2007 Psychological Science article (Eastwick et al., 2007) found that liking can be reciprocal — if a women likes a certain man more than others, he is more likely to like her — but isn’t always reciprocal — if a woman likes all the men more than other women did, the men will generally like her less. As Finkel says, “romantic likers tend to be disliked.”

Speed dating empowers researchers to study interactions as they happen, rather than post-hoc reports. It also allows for testing actual versus stated preferences. One speed dating study showed that stated preferences do not match actual preferences and called into question the gender biases in attraction that have been well-documented elsewhere (i.e., that men see physical features as more important and women see earning prospects or security as more important), raising the specter of a disconnect between what we say we’re attracted to and what we’re actually attracted to (Eastwick  & Finkel, 2008).

Speed dating studies also allow researchers to study the implications of simple changes in dating paradigms. For example, even in light of the emerging sexual equality of the last several decades, many women (and men) expect the man to play the pursuer at the beginning of romantic heterosexual relationships (Finkel & Eastwick, 2009). This idea holds true at speed dating events, where women generally stay seated while the men rotate. This set-up stems from vague notions of chivalry, but also from more mundane purposes — according to one speed dating company executive, women tend to have more stuff with them, like purses, and are therefore less efficient movers. Could this set-up in itself affect attraction? Turns out that it can. In most speed dating scenarios (as in most attraction scenarios in general) women are more selective. But, when women rotated, this effect disappeared and they became less selective than the men. The researchers purport that, consistent with an embodied-approach explanation, the physical act of being the one to approach could increase self-confidence leading to being more open to approaching romantic partners and, therefore, less selective (Finkel & Eastwick, 2009). (For more information on embodied cognition, see “The Body of Knowledge” in the January 2010 Observer .)

he search for love is never easy and attraction is never simple.  Research into online matchmaking and speed dating is providing valuable insight into the human quest for romance, and this is only the beginning. Most of the research in this area to-date focuses on dating behavior of heterosexuals in the United States. More work is necessary to determine if the findings so far also apply to international daters and to understand the dynamics of homosexual pairings. Emerging methods may also bring new insight into dating dynamics. Finkel and Eastwick have begun using a coding scheme to study exactly what participants are saying during their dates, allowing them to potentially code what exactly makes a date great or awkward. As they say, “Is it better to be warm or a little cool and aloof? Is it better to communicate independence from or interdependence with your partner?” The duo has also begun to collect saliva samples from speed daters which they hope will allow them to explore “the biochemistry of romantic desire.” In the future, the search for love may be as simple as submitting saliva and waiting for a match, but for now those looking for love can at least take this new research to heart.

References and Further Reading

Eastwick, P.W., Finkel, E. J., Mochon, D., & Ariely, D. (2007). Selective versus unselective romantic desire: Not all reciprocity is created equal. Psychological Science , 18 , 317–319.

Eastwick, P.W., & Finkel, E.J. (2008). Sex differences in mate preferences revisited: Do people know what they initially desire in a romantic partner? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology , 94 , 245-264 .

Finkel, E.J., & Eastwick, P.W. (2009). Arbitrary social norms influence sex differences in romantic selectivity. Psychological Science , 20 , 1290-1295.

Finkel, E.J., & Eastwick, P.W. (2008). Speed-dating. Current Directions in Psychological Science , 17 , 193-197.

Fiore, A.T., & Donath, J.S. (2005). Homophily in online dating: When do you like someone like yourself? Short Paper, ACM Computer-Human Interaction 2005.

Fiore, A.T., & Donath, J.S. (2004). Online personals: An overview . Short Paper, ACM Computer-Human Interaction 2004 .

Fiore, A T., Taylor, L S., Mendelsohn, G.A., & Hearst, M. (2008). Assessing attractiveness in online dating profiles . Short Paper, ACM Computer-Human Interaction 2008.

Fiore, A.T., Taylor, L.S., Zhong, X., Mendelsohn, G.A., & Cheshire, C. (2010). Who’s right and who writes: People, profiles, contacts, and replies in online dating. In Proceedings of Hawai’i International Conference on System Sciences, 43 .

Gibbs, J.L., Ellison, N.B., & Heino, R.D. (2006). Self-presentation in online personals: The role of anticipated future interaction, self-disclosure, and perceived success in Internet dating . Communication Research , 33 , 1-26.

Hitsch, G.J., Hortaçsu, A., & Ariely, D. (in press). Matching and sorting in online dating. American Economic Review.

Hitsch, G.J., Hortaçsu, A., & Ariely, D. (2009). What makes you click: An empirical analysis of online dating. Working Paper, retrieved Jan. 2010 from: http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

Lee, L., Loewenstein, G., Ariely, D., Hong, J., & Young, J. (2008). If I’m not hot, are you hot or not? Physical-attractiveness evaluations and dating preferences as a function of one’s own attractiveness. Psychological Science , 19 , 669-677.

Norton, M., Frost, J., & Ariely, D. (2007). Less is more: The lure of ambiguity, or why familiarity breeds contempt. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology , 92, 97-105.

Sears-Roberts Alterovitz, S., & Mendelsohn, G.A. (2009). Partner preferences across the life span: Online dating by older adults, Psychology and Aging , 24 , 513-517.

Toma, C., Hancock, J., & Ellison, N. (2008). Separating fact from fiction: An examination of deceptive self-presentation in online dating profiles. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 34 , 1023-1036.

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Your online dating profile is the key to whether or not you’re going to have success finding what you’re looking for. No matter if you’re looking for love, marriage, casual dating, or just friendship—a great online dating profile decides your level of success.

One of the best ways to craft a witty online dating profile that truly showcases who you are is by seeing successful examples. In this guide, we’re going to load you up with plenty of the best dating profile examples out there for every section of your profile, including the Headline, About Me, What You’re Looking For, and more!

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Dating Profile Headline Examples

Again, if you want to find the easiest way to write a perfect dating profile headline, check out our complete guide on how to write an online dating profile (it’s free), where we have a formula for knocking the headline out of the park!

The only goal of your dating profile headline is to get enough interest for the man or woman to click on your profile to read more. A lot of people tend to overthink it. If it gets the clicks to your profile (from the right people), it’s a winner.

Here are some great online dating profile headline examples.

• Music Lover Looking to Write the Next Verse
• Me + You +… JK, You Don’t Have to Do Any Math to Send Me a Message!
• Gamer Chick Hitting Restart and Looking for a High Score in Co-Op Mode
• Country Girl Who Loves to Get Down on the Farm
• Fitness Lover Looking to Find My Swole Mate
• Tired of Online Dating? Let’s Be Each Other’s Reason for Signing Off
• World Traveler Looking for a Lady Who Likes to Explore
• Math Nerd Looking for Someone to Add to My Life and Multiply the Fun
• Life is Great, But Maybe It Can Be Better With You?
• Hopeless Romantic? Nope. HOPEFUL Romantic Positively Searching for My Match!
• We’ll Never Know If We’re a Great Match Unless You Click that Message Me Button
• Fun and Adventurous Guy: Take a Chance and Send Me a Message!
• Art-Loving Women: Let’s Paint a Picture of Life Together
• Tired of Online Dating? Let’s Be Each Other’s Reason for Signing Off
• Book Worm Looking to Write the Next Chapter
• Movie Lover Looking for My Co-Star for a Real Life Romantic Comedy
• Man Who Loves the Outdoors and Hiking: Let’s Build a Path Together
• Fun and Quirky Lady Who Can Definitely Promise You Laughs
• Proud Dog Mom Looking for a Partner In Crime
• Casting Call for Movie Buffs! Send Me Your Favorite Movie Quote
• You Can’t Spell ‘Online Dating’ Without a Bunch of Different Letters
• Quirky Women Looking for the Mashed to My Potatoes
• Accomplished Man Who’s More Fun Than a 200 Foot Water Slide
• Tell Me Your Best Dad Joke
• Let’s be each other’s reason for getting off these apps

Where can you use these dating site headlines? Anywhere. They’re great for any app, as long as you have the room to fit them in. You can use them as POF headlines, Match.com headlines, or with any of the best dating apps out there.

Dating Profile About Me Examples

Your dating profile about me section should do three things:

• Introduce yourself
• Tell a little bit about what you do and like to do
• Briefly talk about what you’re looking for

You don’t have to give every single detail of your life or give a massive checklist for what you need. As you’ll see in these dating profile about me examples, they’re simple, short, sweet, and straight to the point. The idea is just to arouse enough interest for someone to send you a message or a flirt to start the conversation where you can get to know each other better.

Here are some great About Me dating profile examples.

Hi! My name is Mark, and I am brand new to online dating. While I’m still figuring this all out, here’s something I know for sure—I’m excited to be here! The chance to meet unique, engaging, and interesting women is pretty dang neat. If you think you might fit that mold, drop me a message.

I work in the finance industry. And while I like to work hard, I make sure to leave time to enjoy life. I’m a fan of wine, movies, hiking, and getting out of town for the weekend. Let’s chat and see if maybe we’re a good fit!

Isn’t online dating a blast? Okay, maybe it can be challenging at times, but it’s still exciting that you have the chance to meet someone special who you might have never met elsewhere.

My name’s Sarah! I’m a proud dog mom, an avid gym-goer, and, if you ask my friends, a bit quirky at times. I’m looking for a man who compliments my life and is ready to enjoy all that this world has to bring to the table. If you think we might be a good match, send me a message.

My name is Beth and if I had to pick three words to describe me they would be positive, a little shy, and someone who loves to laugh. Okay, that was a few more than three words, but it’s fun to break the rules from time to time, right?

I’m new to online dating, but I know what I’m looking for in a man. My Christian faith is important to me, so I want to find a man who feels the same way. Additionally, I’m really into movies, so a guy who likes to cuddle up on the couch instead of going out on a Friday night is the right match for me.

If you think maybe we could be right for each other, send me a message! I’m kind of shy, but if you reach out, I come out of my shell.

Hi, I’m Ted! Thanks for stopping by my online dating profile. I’m not the best at describing myself, so I reached out to a few friends and asked them to tell me what I’m like so I could share that with you. Here’s what they had to say.

• Ted is driven, goal-oriented, and goes after what he wants in life.
• Ted is a real catch. He’s caring, dependable, and someone who could really be your rock.

If you want to see if my friends are right or they’re just telling me what I want to hear (kidding), we should chat! Send me a message and let’s start the conversation..

Do these about me examples work for short bio examples too?

Yes! Even if the section isn’t explicitly called “About Me,” these descriptions of who who are work as a fantastic dating profile template. As long as the section is a spot for you to talk about who you are and what you’re looking for, these short dating profile examples will work well.

Things NOT to Put In Your Online Dating Profile: Bad Examples

Writing the best online dating profile is as much about what you put in your profile as it is about what you choose to leave out. Here are a few things you should never include in your online dating profile. Some of these things should be omitted for safety reasons, some because they aren’t helpful, and some because they’re so overdone.

Never include personally identifiable information.

You can share contact information or specific information about things like where you work or where you live after you start a conversation and get to know someone. But you don’t want those things shared with everyone on an online dating site.

Don’t talk about how you hate talking about yourself.

EVERYONE and their mother mention how awkward online dating is and how much they hate talking about themselves in their profile. If it weren’t so overused, it would be something nice to add to your profile. But for the sake of success, leave it out. The only instance where you might be able to hint at it is if you do something like we showed in About Me Example 4 where you get quotes from friends.

Don’t talk about your exes.

Here’s an example of a terrible online dating profile. All this does is signal to good men or women that you may have past issues you haven’t worked through yet.

Hi, I’m Shelly and I am looking for a real man. My ex was a piece of garbage and didn’t know how to treat me right. He used to say mean things to me and never respected me. If you are different than that, hit me up, but not if you’re a piece of garbage like he was.

The Goal of Your Dating Profile Sections

As you can see in these dating profile examples, everything is fairly short and simple. Here’s why. The goal is not to tell someone everything about you or everything you’re looking for. The goal is to get to the conversation part of the process where you can start to get to know each other.

• The goal of the dating profile headline is to get them to click on your profile to read your About Me section.
• Once you get them to your About Me section, the only goal is to get them interested and informed enough to send you a message.
• From there, it’s just a conversation to start to see if they’re someone you might be interested in getting to know more 🙂

Are These Good Online Dating Profile Examples to Copy?

This is always a popular and interesting question. Yes, these are great online dating profile examples. Should you copy them word for word? Probably not. A great online dating profile is one that showcases you and what uniquely makes you—you. If you just cut and paste, you won’t achieve that goal.

That being said, you can certainly use these to copy and make some tweaks to make it unique to you! It’s totally fine if your profile looks fairly similar to these dating profile examples. Not everyone is a writer, which shouldn’t hold you back from finding love.

Can I Use the Same Info on Different Online Dating Apps?

Yes! There’s no rule that you have to use different information on different dating apps. At the end of the day, you’re the same you on every site! The only caveat to this is that you may want to make some slight adjustments if an online dating app is targeting something different. Other than that, though, you can 100% use the exact, word-for-word dating profile on multiple dating apps.

This brings up a second question on whether or not you should be using multiple online dating apps to find what you’re looking for. Absolutely! The more lines you can get in the water, the better your chances of finding exactly what you’re looking for.

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14 "About Me" Dating Site Examples to Help You Find the One

Writing an "about me" section for a dating site can feel intimidating, but it's easier than you think with these examples.

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The "about me" section on a dating site is one of the most important pieces of your dating profile. It lets potential dates know who you really are, what you like, and whether they want to get to know you better.

Dating someone based solely on their profile pic is out, and authentic bios are absolutely in. Examples of creative "about me" sections can help you craft your own and bring you one step closer to finding your ideal match.

Genuine "About Me" Examples for Dating Sites

Creating a unique "about me" section can feel like a pretty tricky task for many online daters, but it doesn't need to be stressful. Relax, try to come up with a few examples that really feel like you, and go with your gut. Remember, you can always change your dating profile  if you find something that suits you better down the line.

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For People Who Like to Travel

If you're an avid traveler and feel passionate about finding a travel buddy, let potential partners know right away. Some "about me" examples that highlight travel include:

• Hi! I'm (insert your name). I've been bitten by the travel bug hard and have spent the last few months making my way around (insert location). I feel most at home when I'm exploring different places and immersing myself in the rich culture and history of other countries. My work allows me to travel, which I'm super grateful for, and I'd love to meet you if you're up for an adventure!
• Hey there, I'm (insert name)! I'd love to tell you about the time I got lost in (insert location), but I'll save that for our first date. As you may have guessed, I'm up for a good adventure and travel about (insert number) months out of the year. I grew up in a small town, and it's been my dream to see the world, one incredible town at a time.
• Hi, I'm (insert name)! I'm a frequent traveler, but not in a spontaneous sort of way. I love to plan my trips and go out on mini-adventures once I feel comfortable there. You can say I'm an organized free-spirit. I love to try out new food, immerse myself in the beautiful culture of other places, and meet locals. I'm excited to meet you so we can plan our next adventure together!

Some platforms let anyone be the first to message, whereas others, like Bumble , will only let women make the first move. If you're writing an "about me" section for a dating site as a female, you should consider this. 

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For People Who Are Creative 

If you have a creative spirit or a creative career that you're passionate about, putting that in your "about me" section is a great way to let other potential daters know right away what type of person you are. To showcase your creative personality, you can write:

• Hi, I'm (insert name). I've been a professional dancer for over 10 years and love to give lessons to little ones in my spare time. When I'm not dancing, I'm hiking, painting, or surfing. I pride myself on prioritizing my downtime and enjoy watching movies and reading murder mysteries. I'm looking for a partner who can have fun both on the go and during quiet moments.
• I'm a professional artist, and I love to fully immerse myself in my work. I paint mostly outdoor scenes, so I'm always on the go trying to find my next subject. When I'm not working, you can find me cooking up a new recipe, at a local farmer's market, or enjoying some time at the beach. At home, I love a peaceful environment — I grew up with a lot of siblings, so I'm soaking up all the calm I can!

It's absolutely personal preference if you want to introduce yourself by name in the "about me" section on a dating app. Your name will be at the top of the page, so you can go right into your interests and hobbies if you want. It's really up to you! 

For Passionate Individuals

For anyone who has a passion for their work, volunteering, or just has a zest for life, this is the perfect time to let potential partners know about this side of you. You can say:

• Hi, I'm (insert name)! I was in a terrible accident when I was younger, so now I'm trying to soak up all that life has to offer. I try to practice loving kindness towards myself and others, and I tend to be a glass-half-full kind of person. I love to volunteer in my spare time at the animal shelter and have two rescue dogs who I adore. In my spare time, I like to practice yoga, go on thrifting adventures, and spend time playing fetch with my pups.
• I grew up watching my parents strive toward their career aspirations, and I've completely followed in their footsteps. I am a (insert job title), and I have loved growing and learning in my current role. My goal is to eventually be a (insert dream job). I am as driven in the workplace as I am in a relationship. My ideal relationship is filled with passion, empathy, and a lot of love. I hope to have a small family one day, retire early, and enjoy traveling.
• I've always had an incredible passion for living life to its fullest. I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great and open communicator.
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For People Who Are Thrill Seekers

If you're up for anything and want a partner who can hang, let that part of your personality come out in your "about me" section. You can say:

• On any given day, I may be skydiving, free climbing, or exploring a new trail. I'm into extreme experiences and am looking for a fun-loving partner to join me on my latest adventure. I'm down to try new foods, travel on a moment's notice, and live life as spontaneously as I can. I am definitely not soft-spoken, but I pride myself on being empathetic and compassionate towards others.
• I once got lost in the wilderness and lived off of the land for nearly two weeks before I found my way back home. While many may find this experience terrifying, I found it invigorating. To commemorate this moment, I like to live off the grid for some time and really ground myself in nature. I'm looking for a partner who can either join me on my adventures or respects that we both may need some alone time to do our own thing.

Don't be afraid to say what you're looking for in a partner! People often appreciate when you're willing to be open about what you want. 

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For People Who Are More Introverted 

If you identify as an introvert , it can be helpful to let other potential partners know right away. This way, you'll attract someone who gets your communication style and doesn't misinterpret anything as standoffish, since this can happen in an online dating setting.

• Hey there! While I was nervous at first to join an online dating community, this type of laid-back dating scene really suits my personality. I'm pretty shy at first and prefer to take my time getting to know someone before really opening up. I'm looking for an equally introverted partner or someone who understands that I will need some alone time to recharge. In my spare time, I love to read, paint, and spend time outdoors.
• Hi! I'm (insert name). I describe myself as introverted. I prefer quiet nights in, and I love to read, write poetry, and listen to (insert type of music). I'm a huge fan of trying new foods and try to spend as much time outside as I possibly can. My favorite book is (insert favorite book), and I've read it about a million times. I'd love to meet another fellow introvert!

Your ideal partner is probably someone who shares common interests, so don't be afraid to talk about yours! Say what you love to do and even describe why it's so important to you. 

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For People Who Love Humor and Comedy 

If you've got a knack for comedy and you're looking for someone who has a good sense of humor, let your "about me" section showcase that. You can write something like:

• If you're reading this, that means all the pictures I forced my friends to take for my profile picture actually worked! Aside from being a great friend, I am a big-time animal lover. I have about a million rescue dogs — I hope that's okay with you! I enjoy a good cheese platter, and my motto is "the stinkier the better." I'd love to get to know you if you're into taste-testing my questionable recipes and walking a lot of dogs.
• Hi, I'm (insert name). I'm your perfect match if you like quiet nights in snuggling up by a roaring fire, or Jane Austen novels — just kidding, I'm literally the opposite of that guy. But I am really, really good at playing mediocre guitar, and I make a mean bowl of cereal.

Creating the Perfect "About Me" Section

Take your time crafting your "about me" section. Keep in mind that many people won't read a super long section, so get to the good stuff as soon as you can. Try not to overthink it and just allow your true personality to come through.

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Examples Of About Me On Dating Site: The Good And The Bad Ones

What’s so hard about writing the About Me for dating site? People who ever tried to do it are likely to say it’s pretty much everything. When you need to describe yourself in a few phrases, you often don’t know how to start and what to focus on. The good news is there are some practical, non-obvious tips, good dating profile examples, and lousy profile examples to get some inspiration or understand what you definitely shouldn’t do if you’re going to find a perfect match. 

What to write on a dating profile? The rules to follow

Let’s start with some basic rules and mistakes people usually make when writing the About Me on a dating site. 

• Focus on specific things rather than on general ones . Some people write something like “I’m a nice person looking for a nice person,” “I like good things and kind people, interesting movies, and good music,” etc. In fact, it doesn’t literally tell anything about you. If you like books, mention a few that you love most. If you like rock music, name a few bands. If you’re into sports, note that it’s primarily surfing and basketball. The more specific details you give, the easier it’ll be for other people to start a conversation with you. 
• Avoid using too many adjectives . Some people wonder what’s wrong with adjectives. Basically, everything is alright, but the thing is they often sound like you’re bragging or evaluating yourself in a negative way, and both aren’t okay. Just don’t use adjectives even if your friends tell you you’re like that. Tell stories instead. You don’t necessarily need to describe yourself as active and kind. You can mention that you love the active weekends and new places and are a volunteer at … —the same sense, different words. 
• Avoid repeating thoughts . People google ‘ describe yourself in a few words dating examples ’ for a reason—no one wants to read an extended essay to learn something about a person. With long sentences and confusing thoughts, you won’t make a lasting and strong impression on someone using them. Read your bio one more time after writing it to make sure you’re not saying the same thing in different words. 
• Focus on what’s really important for you . Okay, but what exactly should you write in your bio? Yes, that’s the hardest part, even though it’s supposed to be the easiest. We start thinking of our social roles, achievements, milestones, and things like that, but we actually should start thinking of our priorities instead. What’s really important for you? What should people learn first about you? What’s you can’t imagine your life without? Mention these things, which will help you find a perfect partner sooner or later. 

So, these were tips on writing a good dating profile. Still, some may argue that it’s too abstract. Well, when you know the rules, take a look at the sample of dating profiles About Me sections to see the whole picture. 

Good About Me examples for dating sites

Let’s start with some good samples:

• “Hi, I’m Mark, a software engineer. I love cooking and podcasts, basically, it sounds like a perfect first date for me. I’m very social, so even if you just want to talk and discuss things, especially literature (from Steven King to Shakespear), swipe right, and let’s chat! Still, looking for someone to fall in love, have 2 kids, and live in a big house somewhere in NYC suburbs.” 
• “Marketer and SEO specialist, love yoga and skiing, can’t imagine life without travels (15+ countries already visited) and good Netflix shows. Absolutely into serious relationships built on mutual respect.” 
• “Hey there! I’m a part-time beginner developer and a surfer who loves spending weekends on the beach. I’m a foodie, nothing special, but an avocado toast with salmon and red wine make me the happiest person in the world. Love drawing things (not a professional but really passionate about it), museums, and Harry Potter. If you like at least a few things on the list, too, feel free to reach me:)”

As you can see, all these bios include pretty many details and aren’t too long, and it always works in the world of online dating. 

The don’ts—Bad examples of self-descriptions for a dating site

Here are some About Me descriptions that definitely won’t work—take a look to make sure that the rules we described before really work:

• “Hi, I’m new to online dating, so here’s my profile. I’m a nice person and like good movies and good music, hanging out with friends, learning new things, and living my life to the fullest overall. Reach me to learn more.” 
• “Hi, I’m not into Kardashian shows, fans of Twenty One Pilot, Coachella people, beauty maniacs, and other victims of pop culture. I’m a social studies student, love good wine, Machiavelli, deep conversations with new people, skiing, pizza, and baggy clothes. If you’re annoyed with what you just read, swipe left.” 
• “Natalie, looking for a nice guy. My perfect man must be smart, well-educated, kind to people and especially to animals, and an active rest fan. Reach me if you’re interested.” 

As you can see, these are the wrong self-descriptions, but they’re inaccurate for different reasons. Just don’t create lists of demands to other people, don’t ask them to reach you just to have an opportunity to know who you are and tell something specific about you. Yes, these are the same rules, but if you follow them, you’ll write an excellent dating profile summary.

Essay on Online Dating

Students are often asked to write an essay on Online Dating in their schools and colleges. And if you’re also looking for the same, we have created 100-word, 250-word, and 500-word essays on the topic.

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100 Words Essay on Online Dating

What is online dating.

Online dating is a way for people to meet and get to know each other through the internet. It is done by using websites or apps that connect people who are interested in dating. You create a profile, add your picture, and share some details about yourself. Then, you can look at other people’s profiles and start talking to those who interest you.

Popularity of Online Dating

Online dating has become very popular in recent years. Many people use it because it’s easy and convenient. You can meet people from all over the world without leaving your home. It’s also a good way to meet people who share your interests.

Benefits of Online Dating

There are many benefits to online dating. It can save you time and money because you don’t have to go out to meet people. You can also learn a lot about a person before you meet them. This can help you decide if you want to go on a date with them or not.

Risks of Online Dating

While online dating has many benefits, there are also risks. Some people may lie about themselves on their profiles. Also, there is a risk of meeting someone who is not who they say they are. It’s important to be careful when using online dating.

Online dating is a useful tool for meeting new people. It has many benefits but also some risks. Always be careful and make sure to protect your personal information. Remember, it’s okay to take your time and get to know someone before meeting them in person.

250 Words Essay on Online Dating

Online dating is a modern way to meet new people. It happens on websites or apps. People create profiles with their details like age, hobbies, and pictures. They can then search for other people who they might like to know better.

Why Do People Use Online Dating?

Some people find it hard to meet others in real life. They might be shy or busy. Online dating can help them. They can talk to new people from their own home. It’s also easy to find people who share the same interests.

How Does Online Dating Work?

When you join a dating site, you fill out a profile. You write about yourself and what you like. Then, the site shows you profiles of other people. If you like someone, you can send them a message. If they like you back, you can chat more.

The Risks of Online Dating

Online dating can be fun, but it also has risks. Some people might not be honest in their profiles. They might use fake pictures or lie about their age. It’s important to be careful. Never share personal information like your address or phone number.

In conclusion, online dating is a useful tool for meeting new people. It can be a good option if you’re shy or busy. But remember, it’s important to stay safe. Always be careful with your personal information.

500 Words Essay on Online Dating

Online dating is a modern way to meet new people. It happens on the internet using websites or apps. People create profiles with their pictures and information. They can then search for other people who they might like to know better. It’s like a virtual meeting place.

Online dating starts with setting up a profile. A person shares details about themselves, like their hobbies, interests, and what they’re looking for in a partner. They can also share pictures. Once the profile is ready, they can look at other people’s profiles. If they find someone they like, they can send them a message. This is how conversations start in online dating.

Pros of Online Dating

Online dating has many good points. One of the biggest is that it allows people to meet others they might not have met. This is because they can connect with people from different places, not just their local area.

Online dating also lets people be more specific about who they want to meet. They can filter their search based on things like age, interests, or location. This can make it easier to find someone who is a good match.

Another good point is that online dating can be less scary than meeting someone in person for the first time. People can take their time to get to know each other online before deciding to meet in real life.

Cons of Online Dating

But online dating also has its downsides. One of the main ones is that people might not be honest in their profiles. They could lie about their age, looks, or other details. This can make it hard to know if you’re really a good match with someone.

Also, online dating can sometimes feel impersonal. It can be hard to really get to know someone through a screen. And sometimes, people can be rude or unkind in messages because they’re not face-to-face.

Staying Safe with Online Dating

Safety is important in online dating. It’s key to keep personal information, like your home address or phone number, private. It’s also a good idea to meet in a public place if you decide to meet in person. And remember, it’s okay to stop talking to someone if they make you feel uncomfortable.

Online dating is a popular way to meet new people. It has its good points, like letting you meet people from all over. But it also has downsides, like the risk of dishonesty. As long as you stay safe, it can be a fun way to explore new relationships.

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25 Good “About Me” Examples for Women (Online Dating)

If you want to meet high-quality single men online, having a great “About Me” section is key.

Most men interested in a serious connection will read through your dating profile to decide whether to message you or not.

That’s why it is important to spend some time on your bio to give your matches a better idea of who you are and what you are hoping to find.

When writing your “About Me” section, try to keep it concise and to the point.

No one wants to read a long, rambling essay, so try to keep it under 300-500 words.

This doesn’t mean you can’t be creative or show your personality – just that you should focus on the most important things.

It is also important to be positive in your dating bio.

Your “About Me” section is not the place to air your grievances about the dating scene or complain about how hard it is to meet good men.

One of the best things about online dating is that it gives you the opportunity to really sell yourself.

Use your “About Me” section to highlight the things that make you special and unique.

What are your interests and hobbies? What do you do for work? What are your goals and aspirations?

These are the things that will make you stand out from the crowd and attract the right kind of men.

It is also important to be honest in your dating bio and avoid fudging the truth just to make yourself look more appealing.

Be honest about who you are, what you want, and what you’re looking for in a partner.

This will save you time and energy in the long run by weeding out the wrong kind of guys from the start.

Lastly, remember to double-check your grammar and spelling.

Nothing will turn off your potential matches more than bad grammar and spelling errors in your “About Me” section.

Take the time to proofread your dating bio before you hit publish, or better yet, have a friend or family member read it over for you.

Now that you have a better idea of how to make your dating profile stand out, let’s take a look at some examples.

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Good “About Me” Examples for Your Dating Profile

1. I’m currently training for a half marathon and also taking daily dance lessons… so I like to think I’m pretty active! I work as a teacher so weekends are normally free for me. I love spending time outdoors, whether it’s walking in the park or going on hikes in the countryside. I’m looking for someone who is up for anything – spontaneous days out, weekends away, trying new things, or just staying in with a good film.

2. I’m a down-to-earth girl who loves spending time with family and friends. I’m fiercely loyal, protective of those I love, and would do anything for them. I’m not materialistic and I don’t need expensive things to make me happy. I’m not looking for a one-night stand or a fling, I want a real relationship with someone who is serious about me.

3. I work in the media and love my job – it can be quite stressful but I love the challenge. In my spare time, I like to keep fit, socialize, and travel when I can. I believe that life is too short to waste time on things that don’t make you happy, so I try to live every day to the fullest. I’m looking for someone who shares my values and is looking for a long-term relationship.

4. I can be a little awkward but in a cute way. I’m always the first one to make a joke, even if it’s not that funny. I love animals, especially dogs. I’m a bit of an over-sharer, so you’ll always know what’s going on with me. I can also be clumsy, so be prepared for me to accidentally spill things on you or trip and fall in your lap.

5. Fiercely independent with an entrepreneurial spirit, soft yet strong…likes her coffee black & whiskey neat. Walks barefoot whenever possible, and has an insatiable curiosity & passion for life…Adept at making others feel comfortable in her presence while never taking herself too seriously.

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6. I am currently a medical student and will be graduating in May. In my spare time, I enjoy reading, baking, and spending time with my dog. I’m looking for someone who shares my love of animals and also isn’t afraid to show their goofy side.

7. I’m currently in grad school working towards my PhD in psychology. In my free time, I like to read, work out, and spend time with friends. I’m also really into music – both going to shows and playing myself. No hookups, no players, no fakes. Looking for an emotionally available, grammar-savvy man with thick skin and a good heart. Must be taller than me (I’m 5’2), non-negotiable!

8. Spontaneous, energetic, outgoing gal here! Love making friends and going on adventures 🙂 Looking for someone who is game 4 anything!! I tend to be a bit shy at first, but once I get to know you, I’m an open book.

9. I’m a country girl who loves nothing more than getting muddy on a hike or horse ride. I also enjoy a good night out – dancing the night away is my idea of fun! I’m independent, hard-working, and loyal.

10. I’m a nurse and my availability changes all the time, so I’m looking for someone who is understanding of that and doesn’t mind spontaneous weekends away or midweek dates. I love animals, outdoor activities, and spending time with family.

11. I am an independent woman who is not looking for a man to complete me. I am happy with my life the way it is and have no intentions of changing it anytime soon. Just because I have kids doesn’t mean I don’t know how to let loose and have fun! Love going out dancing and exploring new bars and restaurants . That being said, I would love to find someone with similar interests.

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12. Smart, funny & sassy woman that doesn’t take any BS! Looking for an honest man that can make me laugh until my stomach hurts! I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, as well as my dog. I’m also a photographer and enjoy nothing more than capturing special moments on camera. Must be okay with being photographed at least once a week for my Instagram account.

13. I am a woman who knows what she wants in life. I am driven, ambitious, and have my own business. I am looking for a supportive and understanding man who will be my equal partner in all aspects of life.

14. Recently single and just out of a long-term relationship. Looking to meet someone who can make me laugh, has similar interests, and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. I have 5 cats so you must be an animal lover (I’m kidding, I don’t actually have any pets).

15. I am a woman who loves her independence but also craves intimacy. I have been known to be quite the social butterfly, but I can also enjoy a night on the couch with my dog and a good Netflix series. I am looking for someone who can keep up with my busy lifestyle and isn’t afraid to surprise me now and then.

16. Down-to-earth, funny, and intelligent – that pretty much sums me up. I love spending time with family and friends, watching (and sometimes playing) sports, and traveling whenever possible. I’m looking for someone who can make me laugh, loves spending time outdoors, and isn’t afraid to try new things.

17. Loves to laugh – very sarcastic, but in a charming way. Probably won’t take you seriously at first…but once she does, watch out! High energy & always on the go – if you can keep up with me, you’re in for an adventure! I am looking for someone who is open to new experiences and is willing to try anything at least once.

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18. Easygoing, drama free, and happy with my life as it is. I like moonlit walks on the beach, long conversations over drinks, dancing barefoot in the rain, and spending Sundays in bed with a good book and my cat. My friends would say I have a heart of gold and I’m always there for them when they need me.

19. A wanderlust soul who loves anything outdoorsy – think hiking, camping, and kayaking (I once went 7 days without a shower on a canoe trip!). Also loves cuddling up on the couch with a movie or good book just as much. Bonus points if you know how to surf and willing to teach me !

20. I never thought I’d be on one of these dating sites but here I am! I prefer classic movies over the latest blockbuster release and you’ll often find me curled up with a good book. That being said, I do enjoy going out for drinks with friends and exploring new places. Looking for someone who appreciates my quirkiness & isn’t afraid to show me theirs.

21. One part woman, one part child…I like long walks on the beach, getting lost in a good book, and feeding my insatiable appetite for knowledge. I’m told I’m quite the catch… if you can keep up with me!

22. Sarcastic, witty, intelligent woman seeking same…I enjoy good conversation and debate but don’t take myself too seriously. Life is too short so let’s enjoy ourselves! I’m looking for a man who can keep up with me and is willing to take risks when needed.

23. The curious mind seeks the same…I love learning about new things – whether it’s a new culture, cuisine, or topic of conversation. My ideal match is someone who is also inquisitive about the world around them and is not afraid to get outside of his comfort zone.

24. Ready for an adventure? I am! I love trying new things and going on spontaneous trips. Whether it’s jumping out of a plane or simply exploring a new city, I’m game! My perfect match is someone who is also up for anything and doesn’t take life too seriously.

25. A woman with many hidden talents… I can bake an award-winning pie, build a bookshelf from scratch, fix just about anything that’s broken (even your heart), and quote every line from Game of Thrones.

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The 5 best dating apps in 2024

D ating? In this economy? If you're hesitant to put yourself out there, you're not alone. One random survey of 2,000 Americans conducted in December 2023 found that some adults -- 37% of those surveyed -- are going on fewer dates due to things like high expenses. That might be why online dating apps like the recently updated Bumble (more on that below) are so popular these days.

Dating apps make it easy to meet new people and make meaningful connections without all the stress, time, and money that can come with bad matches, blind dates, or meeting people at spendy social functions. The best dating apps are ones that eventually get deleted off your phone altogether -- but before you get to your "happily ever after," you have to find the right app for you.

And with so many dating apps to choose from (do you  steer clear of paid apps  or look for premium subscriptions with extra features? Are some apps better for the LGBTQIA+ community? Are you looking for certain shared interests or beliefs?), that can feel like a challenge. To help you make that first move confidently, we outline the top dating apps of 2024 and why you should sign up below.

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What is the best dating app in 2024?

If you're ready to put your best foot forward into the world of online dating, these are the apps you should consider putting on your phone . 

• Best overall dating app: Hinge
• Best for promising connections: Bumble
• Best for long-term dating: eHarmony
• Best free dating app: OKCupid
• Best video dating: Match

From classic mainstays to newer dating apps, here is everything you need to know about the top five dating apps of 2024.

Best modern dating app overall : Hinge

When it comes to finding long-term (or short-term, live your life) love, Hinge has really climbed to the top of our list in recent years. Hinge doesn't disclose how many people use the mobile app to find connections, but according to one 2022 survey,  39% of adults aged 18 to 29 used it at least once.

Hinge stands out from the crowd by being more than just a swipe-based app. Users reach out using likes and comments instead, which can lead to more meaningful connections since this forces users to be more deliberate and thoughtful when sending someone a like. 

Due to Hinge's growing popularity, it's becoming increasingly easy for gay, lesbian, and nonbinary users to find like-minded or open-minded individuals. Since Hinge is more of a relationship-oriented app; for members of the LGBTQIA+ community, it can offer a refreshing alternative to more casual apps such as Tinder or Grindr.

Hinge is free to use, but users can unlock additional features, such as unlimited likes, with a premium account, which costs between $33 and $50 per month.

Pros: 

• Detailed profile options that let users stand out such as personal details and dating intention information.
• An award-winning algorithm (Nobel-prize-winning Gale Shapley algorithm ) is used to help users find potential matches.
• Hinge's popularity and status as a relationship-oriented dating app makes this a great pick for anyone interested in something more long term, regardless of gender identity or sexual preference. 
• Voice prompts, video prompts, and prompt polls give users plenty of room to express themselves. 
• Likes and comments can lead to more meaningful connections than other swipe-based mobile apps.

Cons: 

• Features like weekly "roses" ("super likes" by another name) can feel a bit tacky.
• Some potential matches are walled off as "standout profiles" and can only be reached with a rose, which can feel like a limiting factor for some users.
• Premium accounts (Hinge Plus and Hinge X) are expensive.

Best for promising connections : Bumble

If a traditional swipe-based app is more your speed, we recommend adding Bumble to your phone. This dating app is all about shaking things up a bit when it comes to what people expect from a dating app. 

One way Bumble goes about this is by offering more than just romantic connections. In addition to Bumble date, there are two other modes for interested users: Bumble BFF for making friendships and Bumble bizz for networking with potential professional connections. 

The other standout feature of Bumble is the way communication works. Up until very recently, women were required to make the first move on Bumble, which was meant to take away some of the concern women and female-presenting people may have on other dating apps where unsolicited messages can be a problem. 

On May 6, 2024, Bumble announced a new feature to cut back on some of the anxiety and uncertainty that came with the app's women-first approach to matchmaking. Opening moves is a new feature that gives women the option to set a question prompt that anyone can reply to. This new addition doesn't change the dynamics of Bumble too much -- opening moves aren't required -- but it's a welcome addition that can alleviate some matchmaking stress. This also extends to non-heterosexual dating as well: In nonbinary or same-gender matches, either party can set or respond to an opening move.

Bumble is free to use, but users also have the option of paying for Bumble premium ($35) and premium plus ($50) subscriptions for perks like unlimited swipes, a backtrack option, and access to other trending users (a premium plus exclusive).

• The "ladies first" approach to matchmaking can be refreshing for women looking for heterosexual romance who want the ability to pick and choose who they talk to.
• Bumble's new "opening moves" gives women the option to add a question prompt to their bios, which anyone can respond to when striking up a conversation. This optional feature takes some of the pressure away from women  always needing to make the first move -- a win in our (little black) book.
• Bumble has full accessibility for members of the LGBTQIA+ community, where anyone can make the first move -- just be aware of that 24-hour timer.
• Additional features like audio and video calls can help people get to know one another more easily in those early days and weeks.
• Matches are lost if a message isn't sent within the first 24 hours of connecting with someone.
• Extra features like unlimited likes come with a hefty price point thanks to Bumble's not-terribly-budget-friendly premium plans. 

Best for long-term dating : eHarmony

Going strong since its launch in 2000, eHarmony is a mainstay in the world of dating apps thanks to its comprehensive approach to bringing people together. 

If you don't like filling out a detailed profile, maybe check out other mobile apps on our list first, because eHarmony starts users off with a compatibility quiz full of 80 questions. These help clarify details such as user likes and dislikes, communication styles, and what an ideal match might look like. 

Users are then scored on their quiz results, with these numbers determining other potential matches. Find someone with a high enough compatibility score and you may be in luck.

Until recently, eHarmony had limited options for LGBTQIA+ users interested in online dating. But in 2023, after consulting with the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, eHarmony rolled out a big update with new inclusivity features. These included an expanded list of gender identities such as agender, bigender, genderfluid, transgender, nonbinary and more. There is also now the option to select whether you're interested in dating people who identify as men, women or nonbinary.

A basic eHarmony membership is free, but premium memberships are available: premium light six-month plan ($66 per month), premium plus 12-month plan ($46 per month), and premium extra 24-month plan ($36 per month). Since you're paying for at least six months of premium features at a time, we recommend getting started with a free membership before determining whether a premium account is right for you.

• eHarmony's detailed approach to matchmaking, including the 80-question compatibility quiz and scoring system, can be great for those who know what they want and are ready for long-term commitment.
• According to eHarmony, users find love on its app every 14 minutes , which at the very least indicates users will have options once they sign up.
• Pricing information can be confusing. Users aren't informed about eHarmony's tiered premium plan setup until after making an account and completing the compatibility quiz.
• Although there are relatively new inclusivity features for a more positive LGBTQIA+ dating experience, user feedback suggests that eHarmony is still very limited for gay, lesbian, and nonbinary users due to an outdated matching algorithm and majority heterosexual user base. 
• Some notable features, like being able to see all of another user's photos, are locked behind the premium paywall.
• Canceling your eHarmony account could be easier -- users have to reach out to customer care from the eHarmony website to start the process.

Best free dating app : OKCupid

If you want a quality mobile app that doesn't cost an arm and a leg to use all of the best features, we recommend OKCupid. Users can create an account, upload photos, and send messages to potential matches with a free account (other users will have to swipe right on your profile as well to read your message, however). 

While not specifically geared towards the LGBTQIA+ population, OKCupid does have more inclusive features than many other apps. OKCupid was the first dating app to let users list their personal pronouns, for example, plus there are more than 20 gender identities one can select when building their profile. 

Offering users a match score and questionnaire similar to eHarmony's compatibility quiz (although less time-consuming), OKCupid uses user info to find potential matches. OKCupid is also a great dating app for inclusivity: the mobile app lets users choose from 13 sexual orientations and 22 gender identities.

OKCupid has a free tier as well as several paid subscriptions: OKCupid basic ($30 per month), premium ($40 per month), and incognito ($20 per month), the last of which lets you stay active while only showing up for other users who you've liked or messaged.

• Getting started with a free account is relatively quick and easy. 
• User-friendly mobile app and website.
• Various inclusivity features make OKCupid a good app for gay and lesbian users looking for a dating pool that doesn't solely cater to heterosexual relationships.
• Broader and more diverse dating pool than many other apps, which means transgender and nonbinary users might have better luck making meaningful connections through OKCupid.
• A great place for gender-nonconforming people or those with sexual orientations that fall outside of the norm for other, more traditional dating apps.
• Potential matches need to swipe right on your profile as well in order to read your messages.
• Subscriptions are automatically renewed unless canceled manually.

Best video dating : Match

One of the oldest dating sites around, Match has been bringing people together online since its launch in 1995. Setting up an account is super easy: no long quizzes or requirements to fill out every prompt before you can start matching with people (you can come back to add more prompts on your own time). 

Match also offers a few features that make connecting with new people online easier than ever, including a matching algorithm that connects people based on gender identity and sexual preference in addition to location. 

There is also a video chat feature that becomes available once you connect with someone. Additionally, users have access to Match-approved in-person events like hikes, food tours, and speed dating get-togethers. 

Like all of the best dating apps on our list, Match offers a free plan as well as two paid subscriptions: standard ($35 per month) and premium ($40 per month). 

• Unlimited likes for free users.
• More than 20 gender identities to choose from when you first sign up, making for a more inclusive dating experience overall. 
• Users have the right to cancel immediately at any time with no hassle.
• Profiles may have limited or incomplete info since Match doesn't require you to fill everything out before matching with people.

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Sophia Bush comes out as queer, confirms relationship with Ashlyn Harris

Actor Sophia Bush came out as queer in an emotional essay in Glamour and confirmed she’s in a relationship with retired U.S. Women’s National Team soccer player Ashlyn Harris. 

“I sort of hate the notion of having to come out in 2024,” Bush wrote in a cover story for the fashion magazine published Thursday. “But I’m deeply aware that we are having this conversation in a year when we’re seeing the most aggressive attacks on the LGBTQIA+ community in modern history.” 

Bush noted that there were more than 500 anti-LGBTQ bills proposed in state legislatures last year and said this motivated her to “give the act of coming out the respect and honor it deserves.” 

“I’ve experienced so much safety, respect, and love in the queer community, as an ally all of my life, that, as I came into myself, I already felt it was my home,” she wrote. “I think I’ve always known that my sexuality exists on a spectrum. Right now I think the word that best defines it is queer . I can’t say it without smiling, actually. And that feels pretty great.”

The “One Tree Hill” star filed for divorce from entrepreneur Grant Hughes in August. People magazine first reported in October that Bush and Harris were dating, but neither confirmed nor commented on the report. The pair later attended an Oscar’s viewing party together in March . 

In the essay, Bush addressed online rumors that her relationship with Harris began before Harris had officially divorced from fellow soccer star Ali Krieger, in September. 

“Everyone that matters to me knows what’s true and what isn’t,” Bush wrote. “But even still there’s a part of me that’s a ferocious defender, who wants to correct the record piece by piece. But my better self, with her earned patience, has to sit back and ask, What’s the f------- point? For who? For internet trolls? No, thank you. I’ll spend my precious time doing things I love instead.”

Bush said that after news about her and Harris became public, her mom told her that a friend called and said, “Well, this can’t be true. I mean, your daughter isn’t gay .” 

“My mom felt that it was obvious, from the way her friend emphasized the word, that she meant it judgmentally,” Bush wrote. “And you know what my mom said? ‘Oh honey, I think she’s pretty gay. And she’s happy .’”

Bush wrote that she felt like she was wearing a weighted vest that she could finally put down. 

“I finally feel like I can breathe,” Bush wrote. “I turned 41 last summer, amid all of this, and I heard the words I was saying to my best friend as they came out of my mouth. ‘I feel like this is my first birthday,’ I told her. This year was my very first birthday.”

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Christian Cowan and Sam Smith’s Met Gala Debut as a Couple

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Early in their relationship, the fashion designer Christian Cowan gave the Grammy Award-winning singer Sam Smith a metal-plated rose dipped in silver. It was that display of affection that became an inspiration for their looks the Met Gala.

“I wanted to speak to the theme, the night, the tone that Anna loves, but also to our own story,” Mr. Cowan said in a phone interview on Monday.

The pair, who have been rumored to be a couple for some time now, confirmed their relationship of about two years to The New York Times. In their first appearance at the Met Gala as guests, they hard-launched as a couple on the museum steps in matching white and black suits that reflected this year’s “Garden of Time” dress code.

Hours ahead of the festivities, Mr. Cowan, who designed and styled the garments , said he was feeling excited and not at all nervous as relaxed jazz played in his room at the Mark Hotel.

“I’m currently wearing eye patches, and it’s totally dreamy and chill,” he said.

Mr. Cowan, who has designed since he was 18, acknowledged that he is known for his glittery garments. He had no intention of abandoning that inclination, he said, but he wanted to show that he was still a “hard core fashion nerd,” this time through a more classic look that “represents a level of chicness.”

He took tailoring inspiration from Oscar Wilde, nodding to his preference for cravats, strong shoulders, long blazers and straight trousers. “There was an austereness to his suiting, and there was also a romance that I really was drawn to,” he said.

The shiny, metal-dipped red roses — electroplated in 24-karat gold and sterling silver — were affixed to the jackets as a clasp.

The flowers created a minor difficulty in the design process because of the heaviness of the metals. Mr. Cowan said they went through four variations so that the blazer had the right structure to support the weight.

“And it’s a functional closure,” he said. “We can pull it out and pull it in, which I think is fun.”

Smith, who is nonbinary, took a gender neutral approach and included a chiffon skirt that draped over trousers with significant side slits.

Their cravats matched their eye colors — brown for Mr. Cowan and blue for Smith.

Unlike the friction that could come about when dressing a partner, Mr. Cowan said that styling Smith had been a breeze because Smith has worked with major designers and understands the process.

“It was very collaborative, and because we’re partners, I do know Sam,” Mr. Cowan said. “So it’s nice to be able to design something for someone you know intimately.”

Gina Cherelus covers dating, relationships and sex for The Times and writes the weekly dating column Third Wheel . More about Gina Cherelus

Our Coverage of the 2024 Met Gala

Zendaya Makes Two Arrivals: The actress wore a second John Galliano design to make a late (re)entrance at the Met Gala . The first was a custom Maison Margiela couture dress he created specifically for her.

A Fitting Literary Inspiration: In 1962, J.G. Ballard published “The Garden of Time,” a short story about aristocrats overrun by “an immense rabble.” It was a fitting but ironic choice as this year’s  dress-code theme .

The Body Spectacle: The night saw Kim Kardashian engaged in a kind of body modification  via extreme corseting. While Tyla, the South African singer and songwriter, appeared coated in sand .

Arrests and Protests: As expected, protesters gathered near the Met Gala to protest the war in Gaza, creating an atmosphere far different  from the one inside the event.

The ‘Naked’ Trend: What better way to distinguish oneself  from hundreds of well-dressed competitors than to wear almost nothing at all?

A Night of Firsts: Here’s the story behind Rebecca Ferguson’s sequin, bird-covered dress , Da’Vine Joy Randolph’s all-denim look , Pamela Anderson’s new incarnation , Christian Cowan and Sam Smith’s debut as a couple , and Amanda Seyfried’s semi-recycled look .