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The Role of the Master of Ceremonies

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Wedding receptions often have a Master of Ceremonies (MC) to keep the day running smoothly. This role is sometimes handed to the best man, or another close friend of the groom. The role of MC is simple. It requires you to make a few announcements loudly and clearly as the day progresses. The groom may know exactly what he wants these to be, but they usually include some or all of the following:

• Announcing who should be in the formal group photos
• Announcing that dinner is served
• Welcoming the bride and groom into the dining area
• Introducing the father of the bride’s speech
• Introducing the groom’s speech
• Announcing the cutting of the cake
• Introducing the first dance

If you are a nervous best man, then being MC is often a safe way of getting over many of your biggest fears before your speech. You’ll have the chance to shout out some pretty straightforward messages, getting you used to speaking in front of an audience. You’ll appear confident and in a position of responsibility from the start, which will impress fellow guests. Most importantly it will give you an idea of the acoustics and a feel for the microphone. Although you may worry about the first announcement, you’ll grow into the role throughout the day and will feel immeasurably more relaxed by the time you come to give your speech.

Here are some tips to help master the role:

• Test the microphone out before guests arrive to get a feel for the acoustics.
• Plan where each announcement will be made to avoid uncertainty.
• Introduce yourself with your first announcement so guests know who you are, but keep it short. The day does not revolve around the MC!
• Go through your role with the groom and other speakers, so they know when and how you’ll be introducing them.
• Get the tone right. You need to speak clearly and loudly, but this shouldn’t be interpreted as bossy and deafening. You are giving announcements, not barking orders at your troops.
• Keep humour to a minimum; you haven’t been employed to be the stand-up comic. Whilst a witty foreword before introducing each speaker can work well, it must be short and relevant.
• Don’t get carried away with the Champagne. Whilst your role may be small compared to others on the day, it is crucial that you are on the ball and punctual with your announcements.

I’ve helped numerous MCs get this role just right, so if you’re still worried about what to say or how to say it please get in touch.

Guest Post by Lawrence Bernstein of Great Speech Writing

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Wedding receptions often have a Master of Ceremonies (MC) to keep the day running smoothly.

This role is sometimes handed to the Best Man, or another close friend of the Groom. The role of MC is simple. It requires you to make a few announcements loudly and clearly as the day progresses. The Groom may know exactly what he wants these to be, but they usually include some or all of the following:

• Announcing who should be in the formal group photos
• Announcing that dinner is served
• Welcoming the Bride and Groom into the dining area
• Introducing the Father of the Bride’s speech
• Introducing the Groom’s speech
• Announcing the cutting of the cake
• Introducing the first dance

If you are a nervous Best Man , then being MC is often a safe way of getting over many of your biggest fears before your speech . You’ll have the chance to shout out some pretty straightforward messages, getting you used to speaking in front of an audience. You’ll appear confident and in a position of responsibility from the start, which will impress fellow guests. Most importantly it will give you an idea of the acoustics and a feel for the microphone. Although you may worry about the first announcement, you’ll grow into the role throughout the day and will feel immeasurably more relaxed by the time you come to give your speech.

Here are some tips to help master the role:

• Test the microphone out before guests arrive to get a feel for the acoustics.
• Plan where each announcement will be made to avoid uncertainty.
• Introduce yourself with your first announcement so guests know who you are, but keep it short. The day does not revolve around the MC!
• Go through your role with the Groom and other speakers, so they know when and how you’ll be introducing them.
• Get the tone right. You need to speak clearly and loudly. But this shouldn’t be interpreted as bossy and deafeningly. You are giving announcements, not barking orders at your troops.
• Keep humour to a minimum. You haven’t been employed to be the stand-up comic. Whilst a witty foreword before introducing each speaker can work well, it must be kept short and relevant.
• Don’t get carried away with the champagne. Whilst your role may be small compared to  others on the day, it is crucial that you are on the ball and punctual with your announcements.

I’ve helped numerous MCs get this role just right, so if you’re still worried about what to say or how to say it, please call me any time on +44 (0)207 118 1600 for a chat.

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A Guide to Writing the Perfect Mother of the Groom Speech

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This article was co-authored by Lynn Kirkham and by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano . Lynn Kirkham is a Professional Public Speaker and Founder of Yes You Can Speak, a San Francisco Bay Area-based public speaking educational business empowering thousands of professionals to take command of whatever stage they've been given - from job interviews, boardroom talks to TEDx and large conference platforms. Lynn was chosen as the official TEDx Berkeley speaker coach for the last four years and has worked with executives at Google, Facebook, Intuit, Genentech, Intel, VMware, and others. There are 7 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 11,110 times.

Your son’s wedding is quickly approaching and all the details are taken care of—except the speech you plan to give at the rehearsal dinner or reception. We're here to help! Writing and giving a mother of the groom speech will be a piece of cake with our guide. You only need a few stories, anecdotes, and sweet words to melt everyone’s hearts. We’ll explain what to include and avoid, provide tons of examples, and even show you how to format your speech from beginning to end.

Things You Should Know

• Start your speech with a quick introduction, stating who you are and your relationship to the couple.
• Add personality and warmth to your speech by including heartwarming or funny stories about your son.
• Finish your speech with a touching message for the happy couple, expressing how bright and joyful you wish their future together to be.

How to Write a Mother of the Groom Speech

• If you’re feeling stuck, brainstorm speech ideas by jotting down what words describe your son and his partner.
• Practice makes perfect! If you’re nervous about giving your speech, that’s completely normal. Practice your speech as many times as possible so you know what you’ll say and how you’ll say it. This can help calm your nerves. [5] X Research source
• Keep your speech short and sweet. [6] X Research source The longer your speech is, the less engaged your audience will be. So, aim to keep your speech under 5 minutes.
• At the end of the day, make the speech unique to you. If these templates don’t speak to you, that’s okay! Write and speak from the heart. [7] X Research source
• If you’re worried about how your speech sounds, ask someone to read it over.
• 1 Standard Example Hello everyone, I’m [Your Name], the mother of the handsome groom. I’m so grateful to be standing before you today to celebrate [Your Son’s Name] and [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], and it’s been wonderful getting to meet each and every one of you. The support you’ve shown my son is truly heartwarming. Now, some of you know [Your Son’s Name] as the person who’s always [insert personal description]. But to me, he’s still the sweetest little boy. [Insert story about your son’s childhood]. [Your Son’s Name] has always been [insert description that matches above childhood story], and now he’s found someone just as incredible as he is. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], you are [insert description of your son’s partner]. From the first time I met you, I knew you were the one. It gives me great honor to welcome you into our family. [Your Son’s Name] and [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], I hope your lifetime together is full of joy and laughter. May your love continue to grow with each year, each milestone, and each hardship. Let’s raise our glasses to the happy couple! Here’s to many more happy years to come!
• 2 Short & Sweet Example Dear friends and family, I’m here tonight to talk about my son, [Your Son’s Name], the most [insert description] man I know. Ever since he was little, he’s been a [insert description]. He has a heart of gold, and I knew whoever would win his heart one day would be someone very, very special. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], you are that very special someone. From the moment [Your Son’s Name] introduced me to you, I knew you were his future. You’re [insert description], and I can’t imagine anyone better for my son. [Insert a popular quote or family saying]. I can’t wait to spend more time with you, [Your Son’s Partner’s Name]. I hope your marriage is happy, bright, and filled with joy. I love you both dearly.
• 3 Funny Example Good evening, everyone! Thank you all for coming to this special occasion. I am honored to stand before you as the groom's mother. Now, [Your Son’s Name] may have gotten his good looks from his father, but he certainly got his humor from me! [Insert a funny story about your son growing up that showcases his personality or relationship with you] [Insert another story about your son that focuses on his relationship with his partner] And [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], our beautiful bride. Now, I must admit, when [Your Son’s Name] first introduced us, I was a bit skeptical. But I’m happy to say you’ve won me over with that contagious laugh, kind heart, and [insert description]. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], you’ve brought my son and this family so much joy these past few years, and I cannot thank you enough for that. You’re a perfect match for each other, and it’s been an honor to watch you grow and thrive in each other's arms. Here’s to a future full of love and laughter. To the happy couple!
• 4 Heartfelt Example Ladies and gentlemen, I’m here tonight to talk to you about my son and his fabulous new life partner. Growing up, [Your Son’s Name] always talked about finding the one. [Insert personal story]. When he brought [Your Son’s Partner’s Name] home, I just had this feeling. Something told me this was it. And then he asked [Your Son’s Partner’s Name] to marry him. [Insert story about the proposal]. I knew she’d say yes—we all did! But seeing them waltz into the house with the biggest grins made it all so much more real. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], I’m so happy to say you’re a part of this family. It feels like you always have been. Here’s to many, many years of happiness. I love you both.
• 5 Simple Example Good evening, everyone! I don’t want to take up too much of your time. After all, we have a lot of speeches to get through tonight! So I’ll just say how happy I am for my son and his beautiful partner. These two are a force to be reckoned with, and I have no doubt that they are going to do such wondrous things together. To [Your Son’s Name] and [Your Son’s Partner’s Name]! Let all of your wildest dreams come true.

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• Typically, the mother of the groom speech is given at the rehearsal dinner or during the reception after the wedding ceremony. Thanks Helpful 1 Not Helpful 0
• Do breathing exercises to help calm your nerves before you give your speech. Try inhaling for 4 counts and exhaling for another 4. Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0
• Write your speech down if you feel like you’ll forget it. There’s no shame in glancing at it every so often! Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0

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How to Write a Groom Speech

You’re getting married! Many congratulations.

But in addition to the excitement, I’ll bet that nerves about giving your Groom speech are kicking in.

Not only do you have to speak in front of all your friends and family, but there’s also an entire speech to write first!

Fortunately, writing your speech is not too difficult, as long as you leave enough time to prepare and you follow a structured approach.

Following the steps below will make writing your Groom speech as painless as possible.

Step 1: Clarify the Important Details

Before starting your speech, ensure you know all the details about when and how the speeches will take place at your wedding.

Although you may already be familiar with most of the specifics (it’s your wedding after all!) quickly check with your spouse-to-be or wedding coordinator about any remaining questions.

Here are a few things you should clarify:

• Who else will speak at your wedding, and in what’s the planned order? (1)
• Where do the speeches fall in the overall wedding schedule? (e.g., after dinner but before dancing)
• Will you use a microphone, or will you need to project your voice?
• Will there be a separate “MC” to introduce each speaker or will you take on that role yourself?

(1) Traditionally, it’s the Father of the Bride, then the Groom (that’s you), and then then Best Man but these days there may be additional or alternative roles too.)

Step 2: Brainstorm a Few Initial Ideas

Once you’re clear how your big day will run, it’s time to generate some raw material and ideas for your speech content.

First, write down any thoughts, memories or messages that come easily to mind that you might want to include.

(At this stage, you’re just capturing ideas, not trying to structure them.)

You can use these questions to guide your brainstorming:

• What memories of your relationship stand out?
• What do you most admire and appreciate about your wife-to-be?
• What would you like to say directly to her on this special day?
• What are the ways in which you complement each other well?
• What hopes would you like to express for your future together?

You can jot down notes by hand or type them into a document on your computer.

Tip: Try using sticky notes if writing by hand — it will make organizing your thoughts easier later.

Step 3: Choose a Speech Structure

Next. decide on a basic outline to follow for structuring your speech. This will serve as a helpful guide for organising your ideas.

There are many possible structures you can use. The right one for you will depend on what you want to say and how you want to say it.

Some options include:

• Short and simple: Opening, First Meeting Story, Appreciation, Well Wishes, Toast
• Comprehensive: Opening, How You Met, Why You Love Her, Fond Memories, Hope for the Future, Toast
• Story-driven: Opening, Story 1, Story 2, Story 3, Common Themes, Toast
• Personal Qualities: Opening, Quality 1 + examples, Quality 2 + examples, Quality 3 + examples
• Novelty: For instance you could structure your speech as a Yelp review, or a business presentation, or a fairy story.

Once you select an outline, create headings or sections for the main points you’ll cover.

Tip: If using sticky notes, write each section heading on a separate sheet to organise your notes.

Step 4: Organise Your Content

Using your chosen outline, start grouping your brainstormed ideas and thoughts under the appropriate speech sections.

Move your sticky note ideas around or cut and paste your digital notes to reorganise the flow.

Don’t worry about getting it perfect first time. You’re really just trying to get a feel for the material you have and how well it fits into the structure you’ve chosen.

You’ll probably find you have too much content for some sections and not enough for others. Which means you may need to generate some additional ideas to fill any gaps.

The goal of this step is populating the main sections of your speech with the ideas that you intend to cover.

Step 5: Write the First Draft

Once you’ve roughly organised the sections and ideas, it’s time to write out the first full draft of your speech.

(Even if you don’t plan to memorise it word-for-word, writing a complete draft allows you to refine the messaging and transitions between sections.)

I recommend typing your draft out on your computer, as it will be easier to move things around and make revisions later.

Use document headings for each of your major sections and short paragraphs or bullet points for your ideas.

Then start to expand the individual ideas into fuller sentences and paragraphs you might use in your speech.

Tip: These days, most writing software will have some kind of built-in speech recognition. You can use this to verbally expand each of your ideas.

Again, don’t worry too much about the exact phrasing of each part of your speech. It’s more about getting something down onto the page.

Most writers will tell you that editing is much easier than writing so the quicker you can get a very rough version of your speech completed the better.

Here are some questions to guide you while editing:

• Are the individual sections of my speech well balanced in terms of the content (and length of speaking time)?
• Does each section flow smoothly into the next or do I need to add some transitional sentences?
• Is the basic structure working well overall or do I need to go back and consider a different template?

The goal of this step is having a rough draft of approximately the right length that covers most of the ground you want to cover in your speech.

Step 6: Practice and Refine

Once you have a solid first draft completed, start practising your speech out loud and make refinements.

Practicing in front of the mirror is a bit of a cliché and doesn’t work for everyone but why not give it to go?

Another option is to put your smartphone on a small tripod or prop it up against something and film yourself delivering your speech to camera, then review your performance afterwards.

It’s common to find that some sections don’t quite flow as naturally when spoken aloud as they do on the page. Make notes on areas that need rewording or tightening up.

Note: This is an iterative process — practice reading it, then make adjustments, then read again. Repeat this cycle until it feels polished.

Once you’re happy with how it reads aloud, consider doing a practice run with a friend or family member to get feedback before your final revisions.

Note: Time yourself reading the speech, and make sure it fits within the allotted time at your wedding. Adjust content as needed.

Go Write Your Groom Speech!

Now you know how you write your Groom speech, you can just follow these steps and you’ll have a heartfelt, well-structured Groom speech in no time.

The most important thing is to start early and break the task down into manageable steps.

Before you know it, you’ll have a speech that you feel confident to deliver and will put a smile on everyone’s faces.

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Everything to Know About Your Groom Speech: Tips, Advice, and Examples

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When it comes to wedding speeches , there's no rule that says the groom has to give one; generally speaking, the father of the bride, the best man, and the maid of honor are the only people required to grab the microphone, but there's even some flexibility here. As the groom, if you feel inclined to say a few words during the party, you absolutely should. This is a great chance for you to say thanks: You can thank your guests for being there, thank your family members for their financial and emotional support, thank your wedding vendors for bringing the day to life, and thank your partner for making you the happiest man in the room.

If you're feeling nervous about the idea of giving a speech, here's the good news: According to Pete Honsberger , the author of Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech , preparing for your moment in the spotlight is surprisingly simple. What's more, he says, this is an opportunity you won't want to pass up.

Meet the Expert

Pete Honsberger is the author of Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech , He has been a serial groomsman, speaker, and wedding toast advisor for most of his adult life. When it comes to wedding toasts, he's seen just about everything.

Here, Honsberger's top tips for writing and delivering an amazing wedding speech as the groom, including exactly what to say to get everyone clapping.

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If you're feeling like you can't possibly add another task to your pre-wedding to-do list, remember that writing your speech shouldn't take long at all. "You only need a few minutes to prepare and about two minutes to deliver your speech ," Honsberger says. "This is your chance to recognize the hard work that others (and you) have put into this amazing day, to thank everyone for giving you the gifts of their time (and money, haha!), and to add another twinkle in your love’s eyes. "

His best advice? Keep it brief, but make it count. "From my experience [giving a speech at my own wedding] and those that I’ve witnessed, it’s so worth it," says Honsberger.

How to Prepare for a Wedding Speech as the Groom

Honsberger says that preparing for your speech should take less than 15 minutes. That's right: In less than the time it takes to watch a rerun of your favorite television show, you'll be able to pen a thoughtful message for the big day. "Just be sure to have a tidbit for each and you’ll look like a pro. Most importantly, you’ll show the crowd, your family, and your partner that you genuinely appreciate them," he adds.

When should you give your speech? Honsberger says either right before or right after dinner is served. "You'll want to speak to your planner in advance about fitting your toast into the reception timeline , but once it's go-time, simply gesture for a microphone and ask for the guests’ attention," he explains.

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To begin, simply prepare these five steps.

Step 1: Give Thanks 

In today's modern world, most of your wedding guests are traveling to be part of the big day. "And regardless of wedding size, you’ve had people traveling distances and giving their time to be in attendance," says Honsberger. "Most (and hopefully all) have brought you gifts , many of the pieces of green paper that will serve you very well as you start your new life. And even more than that, they deemed you important enough to spend a day of their lives participating in your celebration." That's why it's so important to take a moment and thank your guests. After all, regardless of how big or small your wedding is, there's a good chance you won't be able to spend quality time with each guest, which means you likely won't be able to thank everyone for being there.

At a loss for what to say? Honsberger suggests: "The only thing I want to say is wow. People have told me this would be the best day of my life, and I can honestly say it’s true, because of all of you (pointing at the crowd), and especially you (pointing at your partner). I cannot thank you all enough for being here."

Step 2: Give One Compliment to Your Partner

Your wedding day is about the two of you coming together, so you'd be remiss not to say something sweet about the person who just married you. "Cue up a classy and perhaps playful compliment about their dress or tux, the work they did to make the day possible, their patience in dealing with you, their resilience in wedding planning while you were out of town on a business trip, or simply their unwavering love throughout a challenging process," says Honsberger. "Tell them this publicly. You only need one or two lines to share your appreciation and to make their eyes sparkle and their face blush with slightly embarrassed happiness. "

An option he likes? “[Name of your partner], I’ll never forget seeing you walk down the aisle today. You are beautiful in more ways than I can count.” As a funny alternative, he also suggests: “[Name of your partner], you must be a parking ticket because you have fine written all over you right now!” 

Step 3: Recall One Memory 

"You don’t have a lot of time for this, so pick out one noteworthy anecdote or short memory from your relationship, from the wedding planning process , or from your interactions with their family and friends," says Honsberger. "Share your most compelling and enthusiastic version of that story and you’ll delight the whole crowd." A good option, according to the pro, would be something like: “When [name of partner] and I first met, we talked for hours until our friends all wanted to leave. I started to panic since I didn’t want to stop getting to know them. So I suggested we keep the party going by getting some pizza while everyone else went home. We’re only here tonight because my [husband or wife] likes pizza!”

Step 4: Share One Reception Comment 

Whether it’s about the dinner being currently served, the signature cocktail available at the bar, the DJ/band, or the overall atmosphere in the reception space, pull out one comment to share aloud related to the evening’s experience. "The purpose of this is to connect the whole room with your vision for the night," says Honsberger. "If you want the dance floor absolutely packed, speak it into existence. If you have a specially requested song you want to tease, mention it here."

Step 5: Give Thanks Again

Before concluding your speech, give one more round of thanks for everyone involved. Anyone you missed on the first pass—your families, any special friends, and especially your wedding vendors—should be noted here. Then, ask everyone to raise a toast to your partner, your families, the friends in attendance, and the hardworking staff working to bring the day to life.  

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By jrack August 14, 2013 in Wedding Music & Entertainment

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Is anyone else having as much trouble finding a script for their MC to follow?

I'm only finding these (they are quite long, and religious):

anyone have theirs to share? Or have found better ones?

http://www.perfect-wedding-day.com/wedding-master-of-ceremonies-emcee-sample-script.html

http://allaboutdashi.blogspot.ca/2012/01/our-wedding-reception-script.html

Master Of Ceremonies Welcome

'Dinner will commence very soon, so we ask that everyone make their way to their seats and make your selves comfortable as we begin our celebration with a wedding prayer.'  

Introduction of the Wedding Party

Parents of the bride.

`Thank you Ladies and Gentlemen. Please be on your feet as we welcome the bridal party. Put your hands together for our hosts, the mother and father of the bride. As you all know, the day your little girl gets married is the happiest day of the century for every doting parent and don†™ t they look radiant? Thank you Brian & Lily Walker, we can see where the bride got her good looks from. I†™ m not saying which, you both look wonderful tonight.†™ (wide applause)

Parents of the Groom

`And now, here come the parents of the groom, looking happy and proud. Please welcome Michael & Maria McGregor. Derek†™ s parents just got back from trekking in Nepal to be here for their son†™ s wedding. A big hand for Michael & Maria McGregor, Parents of the Groom.†™

Matron of Honor

`And now we come to the Matron of Honor, Meagan McGregor. It†™ s been said that Meagan is chosen for her ability to outthink, outrun and generally outwrestle anything with up to eight legs that stands in the way of a smooth-running wedding. In Meagan†™ s case, she†™ s also the Bride†™ s Auntie. A tremendous grip on the woman as well! Let†™ s hear it for Auntie Meagan.†™ (wide applause)

`Now we come to our Best Man, Ladies and Gentlemen, Orlando Jones by name. The Best Man isn†™ t just there to pass the ring to the groom. He†™ s there to put his body on the line for his best friend. Greater love hath no man, they say. He also assures us, he really is the best man. We can†™ t wait for his speech and wise counsel. Let†™ s hear it for Orlando.†™ (wide applause)

(The Bridesmaids and Groomsmen)

`Now we come to the Bridesmaids and Groomsmen. They are the understudies for the Bride and Groom. If the Bride and Groom chickened out, it†™ d be two of you tying the knot in their place! There†™ s a sobering thought.†™

First Bridesmaid

`So without further ado and just a little nepotism, we have Winona†™ s younger sister Emmeline Walker our first bridesmaid. Gentlemen, Emmeline is single and taking a break from her career as a ballerina to concentrate on bringing home a gold medal at the next Olympics for gymnastics. Let†™ s hear it for wee Emmeline!†™ (wide applause)

Second Bridesmaid

`Our second bridesmaid, Mary Jo Zimakowski has known Winona since they were in high school together and as usual, Mary Jo says she has Winona†™ s back. Let†™ s hear it for Mary Jo.†™ (more applause)

Third Bridesmaid

`Our last bridesmaid has watched `Twenty Seven Dresses†™ five times. This is her twelfth time as a bridesmaid and she†™ s running out of wardrobe space. Let†™ s hear it for Daniela Pavelic. Hope you catch the bouquet Daniela.†™ (wide applause)

First Groomsman

`Our first groomsman is Michael McGregor Junior. Michael, or Junior as big brother Derek calls him, is seventeen. He†™ s single, six foot four and 250 pounds. His interests are rap music and wrestling. Don†™ t anyone let him near a microphone tonight, folks. Let†™ s hear it for Junior. ‘ (wide applause)

Second Groomsman

`Our next groomsman is Jim Mellor. Our Jimmy†™ s a hairdresser who specializes in some of the more exotic punk rock styles you might see in the music industry. Imagine a cross between Salvador Dali and Edward Scissorhands. Jimmy also did our bride†™ s hair tonight. Nice job, by the way. A big hand for our second Groomsman! ‘ (applause)

Third Groomsman

`Our last groomsman, Alan Peterson has known our Groom, Derek ever since they got arrested for brawling at a football match over ten years ago. It†™ s amazing the things that bring people together. Let†™ s have a big hand for Alan our third groomsman.†™

Entrance of the Bride and Groom

`And now the big moment, Ladies and Gentleman, our bride and groom Winona and Derek! Doesn†™ t she look beautiful? She†™ s been practising her bouquet-throwing and hopes to give a good account of herself when the moment comes. As for the groom, look at him! He scrubs well for a guy who gets into football brawls, doesn†™ t he? Ladies and Gentleman, a big hand for Winona and Derek!†™ . (wide applause)

Father of the Bride†™ s Speech and a Prayer of Grace

`Ladies and Gentlemen, please take your seats as we hear a few words a prayer of thanks for God†™ s grace from our host, the Father of the Bride – Brian Walker!†™

(Dinner is served)

Cutting of the Wedding Cake

Now all of those taking pictures, be sure you†™ re ready for the photo-opportunity. Derek make sure you have a firm hand on the cake with your beloved bride. ‘ (the cake is cut)

`Thank you Ladies and Gentlemen.†™

Best Man's Toast to the Bride and the Groom

Bridal waltz - first dance.

`Ladies and Gentlemen, we now come to that very special part of every wedding party, steeped in symbolism. The Bridal Waltz. This is the moment when the groom walks his bride to the dance floor and they begin a dance that will last the rest of their lives. Put your hands together for Winona and Derek as they begin their special waltz as husband and wife.†™

Bouquet Throw

I†™ d like to request all the single ladies to step forward for the bouquet throw. The married ladies who†™ ve sneaked on, don†™ t be greedy. This is for single women only. Our lovely and charming bride Winona has been practising this throw all summer, so give yourselves some elbow room.†™

(to the bride) `Winona, if you†™ d be so kind…..†™

(INSTRUCTIONS: Emcee bravely motions all the

single ladies forward)

`Ladies take your place behind the bride and be prepared to jump high. Fortune favors the brave! At the count of three, the bride will throw her bouquet. Ladies and gentlemen, let†™ s all count together.

Are you ready Ladies? Would you just look at the concentration. There†™ s some determined women out there. The countdown! One, Two, Three! What a throw, ladies and gentlemen.†™

(Bride throws the bouquet and it is caught)

We have a winner! We†™ ll have the Best Man cleaned and brought to your table later.

Garter Toss

Now while the groom retrieves the garter, don†™ t let any of those garter jumpers melt into the crowd.

We have the garter. Get ready gentlemen.

(Groom throws the garter and it is caught)

We have another winner! We have the next groom. I hope that preacher hasn†™ t left the room. Let†™ s hear it for our winners. (wide applause)

Message of Thanks from the Newlyweds – Groom

Ladies and Gentlemen, please stand by for a few words of thanks from our new Groom, Derek McGregor.

Closing Remarks

Well I guess that†™ s about everything ladies and gentlemen we have finally come to the end of our program. It has been a great day and a wonderful evening with you all. Again thank you all for your presence. God bless and Goodnight to each and everyone.

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The Ultimate Groom's Wedding Speech Checklist

Don't leave anyone or anything important off your list of thank yous.

The groom's wedding speech is often about covering all bases. It doesn't have the bravado and general LOLs of a best man speech , the gushing and poignant words of a bridesmaid speech, or all the nostalgia and tear-jerking words of a father of the bride or groom speech. Instead, a groom's speech is half admin, half emotion; kind of like an Oscar acceptance! A chance to shout out the wedding party, thank the ushers, and tell your new in-laws how chuffed you are to be part of the family. To help you write your speech - and to make sure you don't leave anyone out - we've put together a handy groom's wedding speech checklist . You'll thank us later!

A groom doing a speech solo is more common, but we've also seen lots of couples do their thank you speech together , as well as brides making speeches too ( more ladies on the mic please !). Our list covers all bases and standard family structures, but tweak it as is appropriate for you. Hopefully it comes in handy whatever kind of wedding thank you speech you're making.

Groom's Wedding Speech Checklist

(In no particular order, but this order makes for a nice crescendo!)

• Thank the guests for coming - give a special shout out to anyone who's come a long way
• Thank any staff or suppliers who worked on the day - only those present
• Thank the celebrant - if present
• Thank anyone who helped in the lead up to the day (outside of the wedding party and immediate family) - any one who gave lifts, stitched bunting, glued centrepieces, etc.
• Thank anyone who took part in the day itself - ceremony readings , music, wedding cake baker, etc
• Mention your new parents in law and siblings - this is a good time to tell them how happy you are to join the family, how welcome/terrified they made you feel, how you promise to be there for their son or daughter/brother or sister.
• Mention your siblings  - be specific about things they helped you with or special memories. This is also a good time to mention any other special family members, grandparents, step-parents, etc.
• Mention your parents - if both your parents are present, thank them both individually, usually an anecdote about the kind of person they've taught you to be goes down well.
• Thank your wedding party - make sure both sides get a mention, though it's fine to gush a bit harder about your best man!
• Thank your other half - for marrying you, for looking fabulous, for being wonderful, and all the other good things you can think of. Remember to tell them all about why you love them and why you can't wait to get started with married life!

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3 Funny Mother of the Groom Speech Examples (+Guide)

• by Marisa Jenkins
• January 13, 2024
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Being a parent is an excitingly unpredictable adventure. Reaching the point where your kids start getting married is, to say the least, overwhelming. As a mother of the groom, you have a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to add a dash of humor, a pinch of nostalgia, and a whole lot of love to your son’s big day.

The key to a successful and beautiful speech at a wedding is finding the balance between heartfelt sentiment and lighthearted fun. Below are three examples of funny mother-of-the-groom speeches, followed by a guide and some tips for how to write one.

Unforgettably Funny Mother of the Groom Speeches: Examples

First of all, from the bottom of my heart, I’d like to thank the bar staff for dutifully keeping my glass of Champagne at just the right level of fullness so I could get through this speech without any trouble.

Now, for those of you who don’t know me, my name is Karen, the proudest and loudest mom from this side of Michigan. I’m the one who raised this charming, sweet, and intelligent young man we’re all celebrating tonight. Now, was he always this way? I’ll let his dad do the talking on that.

I remember the day I gave birth to Robert—who we still called Bobby at the time—I looked into his eyes and thought, “Wow, you have your father’s eyes… and lips… and nose… what the hell were my genes doing?!”

But all kidding aside, raising our little Bobby was nothing but a joy. All your misbehavior and “adventures” at the time might have been stressful, but at least I’ve got all these stories to tell now.

I’ve watched Bobby grow from a frog-chasing, mud-pie-making, video-game-playing lanky boy into this fine man standing before us. And I could not be any prouder.

When Robert was little, he said his dream was to marry a princess from a faraway land. I’ll let y’all decide whether Minnesota is far enough, but Christine, you’re as close as it gets to royalty in his eyes. And I must say, I agree.

Christine, you are such a wonderful, caring, and kind young woman. All of Robert’s nieces and nephews love you—probably more than they love Robert, honestly! But who wouldn’t? Thank you for choosing my son. If he ever starts fumbling, let me know, okay? We will straighten everything out quickly.

Anyway, with that said, welcome to our tiny family! We’re loud, we’re nosy, and we’re all here because we love you two so much.

To end my speech, I’d like to offer some sage advice. Robert, for the love of God, please remember to put the toilet seat down. And Christine, well, just remember that Robert’s doing his best. You two stay kind and patient to each other now more than ever, you hear?

Everyone, let’s raise our glasses to love, laughter, and a happy ever after as wonderful as they both are. Cheers!

2. Hi, everyone.

For those of you who have no idea who I am, I’m Maria, the mother of the man over there who looks like he’s dreading what I might say in this little speech of mine.

Firstly, let’s give a round of applause to the newlyweds for looking so fabulous today! I mean, with the trademark Fuentes family genes, would you expect anything else?

Now, let’s talk about my son. The man of the hour. As a kid, he had two big ambitions: to become an astronaut and to avoid eating vegetables for the rest of his life. You may not have gone to the moon, and we may have force-fed you broccoli, but some doors close so others can open.

As a teenager, Juan would always say, “I’ll never get married. I’ll be a cool bachelor forever and spoil all my nieces and nephews.” Fast forward to today… we all know how that went! But honestly, who can blame Juan?

My daughter-in-law, Sasha, is such a catch. What a gorgeous, brilliant, and intelligent woman! She’s learning all my recipes one by one and outdoing me! Soon she’ll take over the world, and no one can stop her. Not even Juan.

But in all seriousness, Sasha, I’ve never seen my son as happy as he is whenever he’s with you. And for that, I am eternally grateful.

I have just one piece of advice about my son: he’s allergic to housework. It makes him break out in excuses. If I were you, I’d keep an “EpiPen” handy.

Just kidding. Jokes aside, love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together. It’s about how much you love each other every day. And if all else fails, remember, a good sense of humor and a bottle of wine can solve just about anything.

So, let’s raise our glasses to Mr. and Mrs. Fuentes! May your life together be full of love, laughter, and unforgettable memories. Cheers to the newlyweds!

3. Ladies and gentlemen,

I’m Carol, Tom’s mom. I’ve known him for a long time—well, since birth, actually. In many ways, he hasn’t changed at all: he’s still a bit of a picky eater, still loves superhero movies, and still needs a gentle nudge to do housework.

When Tom was little, he had three goals in life: to eat candy for every meal, to become a dinosaur, and to stay up past 10 PM. I’m proud to say that he’s achieved at least one of those. I’ll let you all guess which one.

I remember when he started dating—a parent’s worst nightmare, I know. He came to me for advice. I told him, “Be yourself, be respectful, be safe, and whatever you do, do NOT show her your collection of weird socks on the first date.” Jenny, I apologize if he didn’t follow that last piece of advice.

All jokes aside, the day Tom introduced Jenny to all of us, he was lit up with a brightness that we’d never seen before. That’s when we all knew that she was the one.

Tom and Jenny, I’m sure you’ve already heard all the clichéd things about married life being hard. Being a rollercoaster. All that jazz. So I’ll just say this: marriage is like a fine wine, it gets better with age. And this fine bottle of wine can only get better with age if you both handle it with care and don’t drop it.

So, let’s raise our glasses to Mr. and Mrs. Wilson-Whitaker, a match made in heaven! Thanks for being a reminder that love, laughter, and a good sense of humor can make any marriage a joyous adventure. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and love. Cheers!

Writing a Funny Mother of the Groom Speeches: Tips and Tricks

Spend Time for Reflection

The key to writing a funny speech as a mother of the groom is having a lot of anecdotes, characteristics, and memories related to your son. Gather all of these points by spending a lot of time reflecting.

Reminisce on childhood stories, teenage phases, and other significant milestones. Focus on humorous and endearing memories or any tale that shows his personality traits.

Structure Your Speech

Preparing an outline can help you organize your thoughts, making the speech easier to write. Here is an outline you can follow:

• Greeting for the guests
• ( Optional ) Thank everyone for attending and all the vendors
• ( Optional ) Opening joke or icebreaker
• Reflect on the groom’s childhood
• Talk about the groom’s growth and development
• Talk about the bride
• Talk about their relationship
• Share marriage advice
• Send your well-wishes
• Conclude with a toast

Understand Your Audience

Remember that your audience will be diverse. When incorporating humor, make sure it is appropriate for all ages and understandable by everyone —this means no inside jokes that only you and your children will get.

In the same vein, respect your son’s and daughter-in-law’s boundaries. Do not share any stories that could embarrass them.

Start Writing

Starting a speech—or any writing project for that matter—can be intimidating. However, just put all your thoughts down into words. Do not worry about perfection or conciseness at this point in the process.

Inject Humor in Many Ways

Since you want to write a funny speech as the mother of the groom, you have to sprinkle your speech with appropriate humor. Although jokes will be a large part of this, there are other ways to make your speech even funnier:

• Playful teasing
• Light sarcasm
• Witty remarks on marriage
• Old sayings
• Quotes from pop culture

Getting your timing right when delivering jokes is also crucial. Know how to read your audience in real-time—see if they will be receptive to jokes. Likewise, pausing at the right moment, such as before or after a punchline, can add more impact to your speech.

Edit, Edit, Edit

Once you have written all that you want to write, it is time to start revising. Watch out for any grammatical errors, long sentences, and awkward phrases. This is your opportunity to rewrite parts that sound unnatural or unfunny.

This process might take several do-overs. Be patient and kind to yourself as you go through multiple revisions.

Practice Your Speech

Read your speech out loud. This is important not only for the delivery but also for spotting any errors during your revision.

In terms of delivery, reading your speech out loud multiple times will get you used to delivering it. For instance, you can work on your intonation and find spots where you should pause.

Seek Feedback From Others

Ask people you trust—such as your partner or other children—to listen to your speech. Doing so has multiple benefits:

• They can give you the confidence to deliver the speech to an audience.
• They can spot any errors or awkward spots you may have missed.
• They can provide constructive feedback and criticism.

You can edit and revise your speech according to the feedback you receive. As mentioned above, revisions will take multiple times—asking others for help will make the process easier.

Stay True to Yourself

Although you want to write a funny mother of the groom speech, not everyone is a natural comedian. If you feel awkward delivering jokes and being sarcastic, take a step back and focus more on sentimentality—if that is what you are comfortable with. You can sprinkle some humor into your speech afterward.

Final Thoughts

When faced with the responsibility of giving a speech, it is easy to feel overwhelmed. You might even want to back out.

However, at the end of the day, you do not have to be anything other than your son’s parent. As the last tip says, be authentic. Use these funny mother of the groom speech examples to guide you, but personalize the details and the stories to make it true to yourself and your relationship with your son.

Marisa Jenkins

Marisa Jenkins is a wedding planner and event coordinator. Her main goal for WeddingFrontier.com is to simplify the wedding planning process by sharing her years of expertise in the industry.

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Mother of the groom speech tips & ideas.

Are you a proud mama of the groom and on the brink of giving one of the most memorable speeches at your son’s wedding? Don’t feel intimidated. Giving a mother of the groom speech shouldn’t be an overwhelming experience.

Heartfelt Introduction

Begin your wedding speech with an engaging opening that captures the attention of the audience. Share a touching story about your son or a heartfelt quote that represents the essence of love and family.

For example, you could say,

“Ladies and gentlemen, let’s raise a glass to my son. From the moment he was born, I knew he was destined for greatness, and today, as he embarks on this new chapter of his life, my heart overflows with joy.”

or you can add a bit of an ice breaker by saying;

“As I looked at my son today, it’s hard to believe that the same little boy who used to put mustard instead of ketchup on his hotdog is now here getting married. Times have certainly changed!” You can start off with some light humour to show your excitement for this special occasion.

Reflect on Cherished Memories

Take a moment to reflect on the cherished memories you’ve shared with your son throughout his life. Share stories that showcase his unique qualities, such as his kindness, determination, or sense of adventure.

“As a mother, I have seen my son grow into the incredible man that he is today. From the moment he could walk and talk, my son has had an inquisitive mind and endless energy. He’s always been full of stories – from his first day at school to his high school prom night.” or; “My son is an amazing young man and I am so proud of all that he has achieved. He always had a passion for life, be it playing sports or academics or even his hobbies – he embraces them all with enthusiasm.”

Let your audience relive those precious moments with you, like the time you both embarked on a spontaneous road trip and discovered the true meaning of adventure!

Mother of the Groom Speech: INJECT HUMOR WITH PARENT-CHILD QUIRKS

Inject humour into your speech by recounting amusing quirks or parent-child moments that have brought laughter to your lives. Share light-hearted anecdotes about parenting challenges or funny misunderstandings.

Just make sure that the humor is affectionate and won’t embarrass your son.

For instance, you could talk about how you used to sing off-key lullabies to soothe him to sleep or the time he tried to make breakfast and ended up burning the toast.

You could also say;

“I remember when my son was young, he was always trying to build things out of anything he could find. He would come up with the craziest ideas – like building a treehouse from wood planks and old sheets! I used to supervise him as best as I could but it didn’t stop us from having fun.”

“My son and I have always had a special bond, but there were certainly times when our relationship was tested. He was always trying to get away with mischief, like sneaking out after curfew or trying to persuade me into buying extravagant gadgets!”

Mother of the Groom Speech: Express Your Love and Pride

One idea for a mother of the groom speech is to express your profound love and pride for your son. Speak from the heart and share how he has grown into an exceptional individual. Highlight his virtues, accomplishments, and the values he embodies.

“To my dearest son, you have brought immense joy and pride to my life. Your kindness, empathy, and resilience inspire me every day, and I couldn’t be prouder of the person you have become.”

“My son, you have made me so proud. Every day I witness the wonderful person you are becoming and I want to thank you for being my little miracle.”

Mother of the Groom Speech: Welcome the Lovely Bride

We’ve all heard of stories about mumzillas and bridezillas berating each other. But let’s keep the Pandora’s box close and take this opportunity to welcome the lovely bride into your family. Share how she has changed your son’s life for the better and express your sincere gratitude towards her.

For instance, you could say;

“My son’s face lights up with joy when he talks about his now wife. I’m so thankful that she has added love and happiness to his life. She has shown him that it’s okay to take risks and have faith in the future.”

“My son is so blessed to have a wife like her – she is kind, loving, and always puts him first. It’s evident that they are meant for each other and I’m sure they will live happily ever after.”

Make sure to let the bride knows that she is welcomed into your family with open arms!

Mother of the Groom Speech: Marriage Advice from the Matriarch

Another idea for mother of the groom speech is show them who’s the boss by offering up your own words of wisdom! Provide marriage advice that is both humorous and meaningful.

You could say,

“I want to offer some sage advice from a wise woman who has been married for many years – communication is key! Talk openly with each other and never be afraid to air out your grievances. If she wants the cake, buy the goddamn cake! If he insists on watching football, let him watch soccer!”

“No marriage is perfect. But if you can take the time to understand each other and make compromises, your bond will only become stronger with time.”

Mother of the Groom Speech: End with a Message of Love and Hope, and Toast!

Conclude your mother of the groom speech with a heartfelt message of love, hope, and well wishes for the couple’s future.

Express your love for your son once again and let him know that your support is unwavering.

Leave the audience with a sense of optimism and excitement for the couple’s journey.

“As I look at the two of you, I can’t help but be filled with hope for your future. Let this day be just the beginning of all of the wonderful adventures that awaits you!

So let us all raise a toast – to my son and his beautiful bride!”

Final Notes

Now it’s time to crack open that bubbly and celebrate the union of two beautiful souls! Your son’s wedding is a day to be remembered – one that will stay close to your heart for years to come. Enjoy every moment of it and savor the memories you create together. Your speech should be a reflection of your love and admiration for the couple, and should be filled with words that will resonate in their hearts forever! And with these tips in mind, you are ready to write an unforgettable wedding speech for your son! Another important part of the wedding is the music . Melbourne Entertainment Company provides the best wedding musicians Melbourne has to offer! We also provide other wedding services like  wedding photography in Melbourne ! Book us now!

Crafting a heartfelt and humorous Mother of the Groom Speech is easier than you think! Express your love, share cherished memories, and offer marriage advice with confidence. End on a toast to celebrate the happy couple’s beautiful journey together. Cheers to a memorable speech!

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Writing the Perfect Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech: A Step-by-Step Guide

Our mother of the groom wedding speech guide gives you tips and templates for giving a memorable mother of the groom wedding speech.

Are you the mother of the groom and tasked with giving a speech at your son's wedding? Writing a heartfelt and meaningful speech can be a daunting task, but with a little preparation and guidance, you can create the perfect speech that will leave your audience in tears of joy.

Here are some tips on how to write the perfect mother of the groom wedding speech:

• Start by brainstorming . Before you start writing, take some time to think about your relationship with your son and what you want to say to the newlyweds on their special day. Jot down any memories, anecdotes, or words of wisdom that come to mind.
• Keep it personal . Your speech should be about your son and your relationship with him, rather than about general wedding advice. Share personal stories and memories that highlight the unique bond you have with your son.
• Show your love and support for the couple . While your speech should be about your son, it's also important to show your love and support for the couple. Express your happiness for them and your excitement for their future together.
• Be heartfelt and sincere . Your speech should come from the heart and be sincere. Avoid using cliche phrases or jokes that may come across as insincere.
• Practice, practice, practice . Rehearsing your speech is key to delivering it confidently and smoothly. Practice in front of a mirror or with a close friend or family member to get feedback and make any necessary adjustments.
• Keep it short and sweet . While you may have a lot to say, it's important to keep your speech concise and to the point. Aim for around 5-7 minutes in length.

Here are a few points you can include in your mother of the groom wedding speech:

• Share a personal story about the groom and how he has grown and changed over the years
• Express your love and support for the couple
• Offer words of wisdom and advice for the couple's future together
• Raise a toast to the happy couple

Writing the perfect mother of the groom wedding speech takes time, preparation, and a lot of heart. By following these tips and focusing on your personal relationship with your son, you can create a speech that will be remembered and cherished for years to come.

Here are 10 mother of the groom wedding speech templates to give you inspiration for your son's wedding:

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #1

Good evening everyone,

I’m [Mother of Groom’s name], mother of the handsome groom, [Groom’s name].

[Anecdote about Groom’s childhood, growing up, and his relationship with his future spouse.]

[Groom’s name] has always been a joy in my life, and [future spouse’s name] has brought so much happiness into his life. And to see them join together in marriage, well, it just fills my heart with joy.

[Anecdote about the couple’s love story, how they met, their first date, and what made you know they were meant to be together.]

I’ve never seen [Groom’s name] as happy as he is with [future spouse’s name]. Their love is truly inspiring, and I know they will have a lifetime of happiness together.

[Anecdote about your relationship with the bride’s family, and how you feel welcomed into their family.]

I am so grateful to have [future spouse’s name] and her family as a part of our family now. I know we will have many happy memories together.

[Anecdote about the couple’s future plans, and your hopes for their life together.]

[Groom’s name] and [future spouse’s name], I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness, and adventure. May your love continue to grow and flourish each and every day.

So, let’s raise a glass to the happy couple. Congratulations [Groom’s name] and [future spouse’s name]. To a lifetime of love and happiness!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #2

Hello everyone,

My name is [Name], and I have the honor of being the mother of the groom. I'm so grateful to be here today to celebrate the love between [Groom's Name] and [Bride's Name].

Now, some of you may know [Groom's Name] as the man who's always [insert personal anecdote about the groom]. But to me, he's just my little boy who's all grown up and about to start the next chapter of his life.

[Groom's Name] has always been the kindest, most thoughtful person I know. From [insert personal anecdote about the groom's childhood], to [insert personal anecdote about the groom's adulthood], he's always had a heart of gold. And now, he's found someone who's just as wonderful as he is.

[Bride's Name], you are an absolute gem. From the moment [Groom's Name] introduced us, I knew you were the one for him. And I have to say, [insert personal anecdote about the bride and groom's relationship], it's been the cutest thing to witness.

[Groom's Name], [Bride's Name], I wish you a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness together. May your love continue to grow and flourish with each passing year.

And to the rest of the guests here today, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #3

Dear friends and family,

I stand before you today, honored to be the mother of the groom and to be a part of this joyous occasion. As I look around, I am struck by the love and happiness that fills this room. It is a reminder of what is truly important in life, and that is the love we have for one another.

As I reflect on my son's journey to this day, I am filled with pride and gratitude. [Insert personal anecdote about your son's upbringing].

And now, as he joins his life with [bride's name], I am filled with joy. [Insert personal anecdote about the bride and groom's relationship].

Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it is not always easy. It requires hard work, patience, and an unwavering commitment to one another. But if two people are willing to put in the effort, the reward is a love that will last a lifetime.

[Groom's name] and [bride's name], I know that you have what it takes to make this marriage work. You have already demonstrated your love and devotion to one another, and I have no doubt that your future together will be bright.

So, let us raise a glass to the happy couple. May your love continue to grow, may your life together be filled with joy and laughter, and may you always find comfort in one another's arms.

To [groom's name] and [bride's name], congratulations and best wishes for a lifetime of happiness.

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #4

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I am here tonight to talk about my son, [groom's name], who has brought so much joy and laughter into my life. Just like George Carlin once said, "A wedding is just a day, when two people become one, but the memories will last a lifetime."

[Personal Anecdote 1]

For example, [insert memory or story that showcases the groom's character or relationship with the bride].

[Personal Anecdote 2]

And who could forget the time [insert another memorable moment that includes both the groom and the bride].

[Groom's name] has always been a special and unique individual. He has always had a great sense of humor, just like George Carlin, who once said, "There's no such thing as youth. There's just a universal atypical adolescence."

[Groom's name], you have found the love of your life in [bride's name], and I couldn't be happier for the two of you. You complement each other in every way, just like George Carlin said, "Marriage is an attempt to solve problems together which you didn't even have when you were on your own."

[Groom's name], I want you to know that your mother is here for you, to support you and love you, now and always. And [bride's name], I welcome you into our family with open arms.

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. To [groom's name] and [bride's name], may your marriage be filled with laughter, love and joy. Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #5

Good evening everyone!

I hope you're all having a great time at this beautiful wedding. I'm [Your Name], the mother of the groom, and I just wanted to say a few words about my son [Groom's Name].

[Insert personal anecdote about the groom growing up, something that made you proud, or a funny story]

Now let's talk about [Bride's Name]. [Insert personal anecdote or compliment about the bride]. I have to say, I've never seen [Groom's Name] this happy. [Bride's Name], you have brought so much joy into my son's life and I am grateful to have you as a daughter-in-law.

[Insert personal anecdote about the wedding or the couple's relationship]

I would also like to thank [Parents of the Bride] for raising such a wonderful daughter. You have raised a kind, intelligent, and beautiful person, and I couldn't have asked for a better match for my son.

[Groom's Name], [Bride's Name], I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love, and laughter. May your love for each other continue to grow and flourish with each passing day.

Cheers to the happy couple!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #6

I am honored to stand here today as the mother of the groom. [Insert groom's name] may have gotten his good looks from his father, but I know for a fact he got his humor from me!

[Personal Anecdote #1 - share a funny story about the groom growing up, or a moment from his life that showcases his personality and/or relationship with you]

[Personal Anecdote #2 - share another funny or heartwarming story, this time focused on the groom's relationship with the bride]

And now, let's talk about the beautiful bride [insert bride's name]. When [groom's name] first brought her home, I have to admit, I was a little skeptical. But let me tell you, this girl has won me over. [bride's name], you have brought so much joy and love into my son's life, and for that I am forever grateful.

[groom's name], [bride's name], you two are the perfect match. Your love for each other is so strong, it can light up a room. I have no doubt that you will have a lifetime of happiness together.

[Raise glass] To the happy couple!

Thank you, and enjoy the rest of your evening!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #7

Hello everyone, I am the proud mother of the groom and I must say, my son looks so handsome today! (Insert personal anecdote about your son growing up, a funny story or a moment that stands out)

I want to thank everyone for joining us on this special day as we celebrate the love and union of my son and his beautiful bride. (Insert personal anecdote about the bride and how she and your son met)

As I sit here and look at my son, I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with emotions. It feels like just yesterday he was playing with toy cars and now he’s all grown up, starting a new chapter in his life with the love of his life by his side. (Insert personal anecdote about your son's life milestones or events)

I am so grateful for the amazing woman he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with. She brings out the best in him and I couldn’t be happier for them both. (Insert personal anecdote about the bride and how she has impacted your son's life)

To my son and his bride, I want you to know that I will always be here for you, supporting you and cheering you on every step of the way. I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness, and adventures together.

And to everyone here, let’s raise a toast to the happy couple! Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #8

First of all, I would like to say thank you for joining us on this beautiful day as we celebrate [Groom's name] and [Bride's name]'s union. It's an honor for me to be standing here today as the mother of the groom.

Now, let me tell you a little bit about [Groom's name]. When he was born, I remember thinking, "This kid is going to be trouble." And boy, was I right! [Insert funny story about the groom growing up].

But despite all the trouble, [Groom's name] has always been a loving son and a loyal friend. And I couldn't be more proud of the man he's become.

[Groom's name], you and [Bride's name] are the perfect match. You both bring out the best in each other and together, you will accomplish great things. I can't wait to see what the future holds for you both.

So, [Groom's name] and [Bride's name], I want you to know that I love you both with all my heart. I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love, and laughter.

And to the newlyweds, I raise a toast to your future together. May it be filled with love, joy, and a lot of laughter.

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #9

Good evening! My name is [Your Name], and I am the mother of the groom. I am overjoyed to be here today to celebrate my son [Groom's Name] and his beautiful bride [Bride's Name].

I want to take a moment to thank everyone for coming together to make this day special. It truly means the world to us.

[Insert personal anecdote about the groom growing up and how proud you are of him]

[Groom's Name], you have grown into a remarkable young man and I am so grateful to have you as my son. [Bride's Name], from the moment you entered our lives, you brought love and light into our family. I know that you two will have a lifetime of happiness together.

[Insert personal anecdote about the bride and how she fits into the family]

I want to raise a toast to the happy couple. May your love for each other continue to grow and flourish. May your life be filled with joy, laughter and all the things that make you happy.

[Insert a closing sentiment and another toast]

So here's to [Groom's Name] and [Bride's Name], may your marriage be filled with love, laughter, and all the blessings life has to offer.

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #10

I'm [Name], the mother of the groom, and I couldn't be happier to be here today to celebrate the love between [Groom Name] and [Bride Name].

First of all, I have to say that [Groom Name] has always been an incredible son. [Insert personal anecdote about the groom that showcases his character].

And now, he's found the love of his life in [Bride Name]. [Insert personal anecdote about the bride and groom's relationship].

[Groom Name] and [Bride Name], I have no doubt that the two of you will have a long and happy life together. May your love continue to grow and flourish, and may your marriage be filled with laughter, love, and joy.

[Insert a touching sentiment or advice for the newlyweds].

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. To [Groom Name] and [Bride Name], congratulations, and may you have a lifetime of love and happiness.